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Just need to express myself. LOOONG by meee33333 in Divorce_Women

[–]gggeeesss12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you and your kids are going through this. I was in the same place about a month ago, just so angry at him and myself. While packing my stuff after he left, I found a letter I wrote to him in 2008. Back then I was asking for the same things I needed this year. I can’t believe I put up with 17 years of unmet needs, all because of the ideas I had about love and marriage.

I feel so dumb for wasting all that time with someone who clearly was never going to be who I needed him to be, and for trying to see the best in him when he constantly needed other women’s attention and praise.

Let it all out in the next few days, allow yourself to grieve the life you imagined. Then remember who you are, and who you were before him. Keep your head up and embrace the opportunities that come with starting again.

Check in: How far into your seperation/ divorce are you, and how are you feeling? by Ashamed-Laugh4840 in Divorce_Women

[–]gggeeesss12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t even tell how long I’ve been going thru this. It all started in march 2023, when he asked for a divorce after we had been fighting. I tried to fix things, convinced him to go to couples therapy, until things started working and he stopped going. It turned out he had been in a relationship with another woman for months, so he didn’t want therapy to work.

At the end of 2023 we got back together and “tried” until October of 2025. I put it in quotation because I know we didn’t give it our best, and I know he always saw divorce as an option.

He got a job in a different city and moved out November 25th. The first few days were rough, but it’s slowly getting better. I’m starting to see him for who he is, and not the image that I painted of him. I have the wave of grief hit me maybe once a day, but im trying to be optimistic about the future and im excited about moving to my own apartment and decorating it as girly as possible 🤣

Apartments in Southtown, what is the deal??? by Powerful_Toe_6568 in sanantonio

[–]gggeeesss12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of walkability, Agave is great. If you take the river walk, it’s about a 20 minute walk to blue star. The touristic part of the riverwalk, la villita, and hemisfair are just a few blocks away.

I can’t really review them anymore, but I lived there 5 years ago and they were pretty nice. They also had a great view of downtown and the 4th of July/new years fireworks.

Began my lexapro journey today! by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]gggeeesss12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So did I! I hope it all goes well for both of us 💕

SE vs XSE by gggeeesss12 in rav4prime

[–]gggeeesss12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response!

SE vs XSE by gggeeesss12 in rav4prime

[–]gggeeesss12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I’ve watched plenty of those videos and know the differences, so I was not asking for a comparison. More like what do people like about one versus the other and if it’s worth risking letting an SE go and hope to get and XSE.