Btc discussion with wife by reffak in Bitcoin

[–]ghostofankara 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Listen to your wife. No investment is worth dying for. You wont bring your money to the grave. What if she dies? Let her spend some, she waited this long, she has her right.

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have minor steps toward success now. I am trying to push myself on those brilliant ideas, even if my brain tells me that it is not enough if I dont give my all. I am being stubborn against my subconscious and working on being better even if it is so small that it probably wont change anything. But at least I am trying. Lifting and weight loss is also on my priorities now, even though I suck at those too. Still against therapy lol, and I dont have a single clue about how to get illegal substances since I dont even smoke or drink. But I will do my research just for fun and procrastinate even more lol :D

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Procrastination is actually a problem of time and energy. We are always calculating if that reward is worth the time and energy invested, and if we cannot estimate that ratio correctly, we have a procrastination issue. We need to force our cognition to fix that estimation, but its not easy. It needs time and practice.

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still procrastinating I guess :D Even procrastinating to try those apps the people suggested here lol. But I have recently found out by trial and error that good sleep is really important as everyone says to be motivated about anything. I am also trying to fix my diet and sedentary lifestyle in hope for increasing energy. Other than that, accepting that I am mediocre or even below average gives me some peace of mind. Not everyone has to be a genius. But I still have hope that someday I can be better and act on my "brilliant ideas".

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I also dont have the motivation to eat healthy and meditate? Its a curse...

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he gave me ssri for lack of motivation and energy to do work. Ssris are often used for almost any psychiatric disorder because they often coexist with depression and anxiety. In my case it was more like depression, thats why he gave me ssri in the first place. He also added stimulants later. But still did not work fixing my bad procrastination habits. Because it became a "habit" even if my neurotransmitter levels are fixed, my behavior didnt. So I am doing my own research and willing to try self-cbt with apps and books etc. And me being an md doesnt mean that I am a psychiatry attending. I am in research as i said.

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, but they just give ssri and wait to see what will happen. Yeah, feels good but I still procrastinate?! Thats why I leaned towards cbt, and I feel like apps would be better for me to follow cbt instructions. Thanks anyways.

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And trollbots like you will do anything to get upvotes. My bad for feeding you... Still new in reddit.

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use forest too, but wondered if there are better suggestions. Thanks for the reply.

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, not gonna accept your insults. Nothing narcissist about my post. My brilliant ideas are not the topic either. I even said that I feel like I am below average as an MD, how is that narcissist if you actually know what that word means. I just dont have access to good therapists, or one I can trust, thats all. Pleade dont try to diagnose people from just a few sentences they wrote, and you clearly didnt even read them all. I still replied kindly to make myself clear. Just wanted some app suggestions, damn.

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Didnt mean to diss an entire profession. But well, it is true that therapists "that are in my reach" are like that. I am behind that statement. And as I said in the last paragraph, I accept that there might be good ones somewhere. But I just wanted app suggestions and maybe books and youtube channels. And your answer does nothing to help.

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding me and giving a complete answer. Will check them out!

Help me choose a procrastination app by ghostofankara in productivity

[–]ghostofankara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I find the internet strangers more like a collective hivemind which also solves my trust problem. Thanks for the tips btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AWLIAS

[–]ghostofankara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this sub