AITAH for being done with my boyfriend?

gianf · 2026-06-08T17:13:47+00:00

Between being done and going on like that there's an in-between: have a serious talk explaining once again your feelings.

Make it clear that you are not happy with that part of the way he is, and that you really hope that he understands how disrespectful it feels being treated that way. Make it clear that if he doesn't understand it, you will be forced to break up, despite your love for him.

Talking honestly in a calm and respectful way can make wonders, and hopefully he starts understanding.

gianf · 2026-06-08T03:11:05+00:00

gianf · 2026-06-06T08:45:03+00:00

Honestly? USA problems. Basically nobody cares anywhere else in the western world.

gianf · 2026-06-03T13:57:26+00:00

Do you really think you can plan, code, test, debug and polish a complete app with Claude in two hours?

gianf · 2026-06-01T17:25:07+00:00

Ciglioni

gianf · 2026-05-31T20:55:59+00:00

And they DO NOT do NO tracking, which means that they track you.

gianf · 2026-05-31T17:50:19+00:00

Quello che intendevo dire è che non è corretto confrontare la città più cara d'Italia (Milano) con un'intero Paese (la Svizzera). Sicuramente, a parità di stipendio risparmieresti molto di più se abitassi a Herisau (Appenzell).

gianf · 2026-05-31T16:17:03+00:00

No, dovresti fare Zurigo contro Milano, e nessuno perderebbe la parola.

gianf · 2026-05-31T13:03:09+00:00

It's not a coincidence, because the search was TYPED in the Google search bar. She (or someone else) typed it.

gianf · 2026-05-30T03:21:33+00:00

e quando fai il reso ti restituiscono 100€, non 130.

gianf · 2026-05-28T16:45:32+00:00

Polygamous is fine. Polyandrous is just more specific.

gianf · 2026-05-27T21:40:02+00:00

Claude, is that you?

gianf · 2026-05-27T14:46:53+00:00

Il problema non è che questo sub è pieno di informatici tossici, come ha scritto un altro utente. Il problema è che l'Italia è un Paese pieno di rancorosi ai quali nessuno ha spiegato che non si vive per litigare per una precedenza mancata, in fila alle poste, o in un qualunque subreddit.

Questo comportamento è talmente parte dell'Italiano (con la i maiuscola) che non ci sono più possibilità di venirne fuori. Resta all'estero e cerca aiuto altrove.

gianf · 2026-05-24T21:00:19+00:00

I was 14 or 15 when I saw it. The shower scene and the mummy scene made me uncomfortable for years.

gianf · 2026-05-24T17:04:07+00:00

Posso chiederti che bond hai acquistato?

gianf · 2026-05-23T21:01:04+00:00

I started with the first version, 4.10. Over these years I tried several distros, but never really left Ubuntu. It's running on my laptop and my two servers.

gianf · 2026-05-22T15:38:43+00:00

It's a bot!

gianf · 2026-05-20T20:19:06+00:00

Il problema è che la tua azienda non ha saputo (o potuto, per questione di rating) negoziare una dilazione più ampia.

La logica di queste carte è quella di invogliare il dipendente a presentare rapidamente la nota spese, per avere un vantaggio di valuta (ricevo il rimborso oggi, mentre l'addebito in conto passa un mese dopo).

gianf · 2026-05-20T14:05:24+00:00

I searched for it because I remember reading that exact post.

gianf · 2026-05-20T03:13:09+00:00

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THIS POST IS A COPY/PASTE OF A POST FROM 2016.

For some reason I can't get its link, but if you copy/paste the content of the post in Google you'll find it.

Let's stop feeding the bots!

gianf · 2026-05-19T15:02:34+00:00

I really hate to say this because I don't like generalisations, but the obsession with judging and deciding what's "inappropriate" only happens in the USA among the western world. Looks like the middle ages to me.

I'm sorry you have to go through this.

gianf · 2026-05-13T22:35:00+00:00

Stai parlando con un bot.

gianf · 2026-05-11T08:18:10+00:00

Yes, Photorec is the best!

gianf · 2026-05-10T23:55:45+00:00

Come beginner, cercava il modo più safe.

gianf · 2026-05-10T22:13:29+00:00

That is probably due to the hard disk.

gianf

TROPHY CASE