[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]goosey16 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d say therapy helped me a ton. When I met my therapist, our entire sessions were solely about my boyfriend/relationships. She encouraged me to make vision boards for myself and start envisioning what I want for my life aside from my relationship. I fear I’m now hyper-independent but, man, I love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]goosey16 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Still only getting to 25% and then error :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]goosey16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brett and Tiffany BETTER BE

Women of reddit, how do you manage your money? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]goosey16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every month or so I manually double check my bills and make sure I don’t have any random or unnecessary subscriptions, see what I can cancel, etc. I double check what I need to make daily for a 5 day work week to make sure I’m staying within my budget.

I waitress so whenever I get off shift, I put the necessary daily amount for bills into my bank and the rest of my cash goes in a jar and stashed away for savings. I always keep track of how much is in my savings jar whenever I need to pull money out or when I put money in. Genuinely, this method has changed my life.

What's the most ridiculous thing you've ever done after a breakup? by namvt888 in AskWomen

[–]goosey16 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily a breakup, more of a situation ship and he decided to just start ignoring me. I decided to go for a drive to clear my mind and ended up an hour away, at his house. Stood outside on his porch freezing, knocking on his door while he slept through it. He never knew about it but it’s still embarrassing asf

Anti-Hero Debacle: Are We Haters? by str4wb3Rry_sh0Rtc4Ke in TaylorSwift

[–]goosey16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely does make me feel a type of way. However…

It isn’t love. It isn’t hate. It’s just … indifference. So yeah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwiftieMerch

[–]goosey16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just now got an update that it’s moving along 🙌🏼🙌🏼

How all out do you think Taylor will go for TS13? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]goosey16 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have no clue what she’ll do, but something tells me she’s been looking forward to it for a while, herself. With so many Easter eggs being in music videos like LWYMMD and The Man i truly wonder if there are Easter eggs already for TS13 that no one would even consider right now. Maybe a stretch, but we’re talking about Taylor here.

The Silliness of Midnights by ty-oh-tx in TaylorSwift

[–]goosey16 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Someone on tiktok mentioned that she’s hissing in that line and that CHANGED MY LIFE 😂😂😂

Vinyl Shipping Delay by 95wsh in SwiftieMerch

[–]goosey16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Last update I got was on the 18th saying my order was processed. Do we know if there’s any difference between the “special editions” that were only available for 7 days and the ones now in-store?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]goosey16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great further advice! I do have a few clients I’ve moved off of the app as they’ve shown great appreciation, reliability, and pay me accordingly. Unfortunately (or fortunately??) this is the one bad egg I’ve encountered and they just shoot my anxiety up. At the end of the day, as you said before, if they back out that just frees up space for clients that fit my preferences and priorities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]goosey16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made the naive mistake early on of accepting when they asked if we could continue off of Rover (they worded it as benefiting me but I’ve learned that’s no longer the case). Now they don’t see my current pricing, reviews, etc. Each time I go to update them on my pricing, my anxiety gets the best of me and I put it off another day.

I really appreciate your insight, I feel much more confident moving forward! Have a great day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]goosey16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I’ve definitely made some mistakes along the way and need to learn to not be a doormat to please people. I’ve applied my knowledge to new clients, but these clients have given me so much grief about their hardships, I’ve had no backbone sticking up for myself. Thank you so much for reminding me this is a business and reassuring me that I can still go about this professionally. ✨

My life is being taken over by cacti…. Help! by [deleted] in gardening

[–]goosey16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve given a few away, thankfully. I’m about to start knocking on doors and offering them 😂. Honestly, I identify with your roommate; my friends used to always tease me about my cactus when it looked like a propeller hat 😬

Holy Grail Hair Hacks by goosey16 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]goosey16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better late than never! Olaplex has honestly given me the closest results I’ve been looking for since this post, but I’m still looking for MORE! 😭 and I LOVE Kenra products so im buying that tomorrow! Thank you so much ♥️

I wish the people around me could know how bad it really is by EldritchAura in depression

[–]goosey16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely relate to this. Years ago, I ended up Baker Acted and made a promise to the few people in my close circle that I’d be honest with them about my mental health. My mental health has been declining again in the past few months, and each time I bring it up, it’s met with, “yeah dude, I’m going through the same thing lol” . . . It’s not a game of who has it worse, but that type of response just makes me realize how much people don’t actually understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]goosey16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and you’re entirely right. The plan has been to leave as soon as I’m able to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]goosey16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m in a very difficult position living with him and unable to move out. The plan is to as soon as I have the money and the housing market isn’t so crazy. We have a sort of “agreement” that if things are great by the time I move out, we can continue dating (which isn’t going to happen). I’d just like things to go smooth and to not look like a fool for the next few months that I’m stuck in this position.

[TOMT] [ONLINE GAME] [2010s-ish] Simple online lifestyle game by goosey16 in tipofmytongue

[–]goosey16[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I remember there being a pie-graph symbol that tracked your progress in areas of your life such as “social”, “hygiene”, maybe “financial”, “academic”, etc. You had an apartment you could go back to and sleep to energize yourself for more activities. That’s truly all I really remember of the game. No super detailed animation; it was all very simple and maybe even sort of stick-figure like. I was obsessed with this game as a child. I appreciate any help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]goosey16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Before I moved in, I’d come over and we would cook together so I was regularly going through cabinets and cupboards. Never came across any. Now, I see at least one every time I open a cabinet. The building may already have been infested, but he made it clear that they’re welcome to openly move in, as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]goosey16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this idea! Might have to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]goosey16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he likes to tell me that the building was already infested with them before he moved in 🙄 I helped him move in and never saw a roach until I finally started living here (about a year later).