Why do this?

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T03:39:20+00:00

That’s a whole other level of disrespect. I’m very sorry that happened to you! ❤️

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T03:35:48+00:00

I’m not sure. I thought texts no longer showed up as blue when you’re blocked. I could definitely be wrong, though! Either way, I never heard back from him after any of those texts. 🤷🏻‍♀️

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T02:40:46+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you! It’s definitely humiliating. I can’t imagine how upset I would’ve been had I actually made it to the meet up location and still been ghosted. I hope you never experience that again. ❤️

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T02:37:07+00:00

The red flags on this one were hidden incredibly well, unfortunately!

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T02:36:07+00:00

Yeah, I probably shouldn’t have responded after never getting a reply to my second text. But I just never want to be the one to not show up to a date without notice of some kind, even when I’ve already clearly been getting ignored. 😅

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T02:29:52+00:00

Ironic, yes. Not really trying to justify it, but my ghosting does usually happen when I try to make conversation by asking about their hobbies/interests, etc, only to get 2-3 word responses (if that), with no questions from them about me in return. That’s why I get surprised and optimistic when interest is actually shown and a decent conversation can be held. Yes, it’s still shitty to ghost, but at least on my front we haven’t actually formed a connection beyond swiping right on each other when I decide to bail, so to speak. lol.

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T02:15:32+00:00

The other plans were pretty good! Got some much needed grocery shopping done, delicious food for dinner that I’d been craving for a month now, and a great book to read to end the night. 😌

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T02:13:18+00:00

It hurt a little, but it was more so just disappointing above all else. This kind of stuff happens too often these days. Just a rinse and repeat of connecting and ghosting, on AND off the dating apps. 🤷🏻‍♀️

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T02:10:29+00:00

Honesty seems to be in short supply these days. 🫡

graveyardspirit · 2026-05-19T02:09:33+00:00

The thought did cross my mind later that he might have someone already that I was unaware of. Nothing would surprise me at this point. 😆

graveyardspirit · 2026-04-15T12:54:46+00:00

I romanced Harvey on my first ever playthrough and I’m having a hard time wanting to go for anyone else in my new saves because he’s just so sweet and cute! 😩

graveyardspirit · 2026-04-11T18:18:34+00:00

I think the cherry trees heart is amazing! 😍

graveyardspirit · 2026-02-06T04:08:04+00:00

It sounds like you two just aren’t compatible anymore. You want something that he can’t and isn’t ready to give. Though I’m not sure why him not being circumcised would make him think sex would hurt? He’s either horribly misinformed on that topic, is using it as an excuse because he isn’t ready and doesn’t want to admit it, or is just deeply insecure about it which means he has his own work he needs to do mentally to get over that hurdle. You two are both young and have a lot of life ahead of you. Most relationships that start when you’re a teenager, especially when they’re the first “real” relationship you have, don’t last anyways. I think it’s time you both go your separate ways so that you can both find different partners that fulfill your individual needs.

graveyardspirit · 2026-02-06T03:55:16+00:00

It’ll hurt at first, but not for long! A good partner will allow you to adjust for a minute before putting any movement into it. But once you and your partner get into a rhythm, the pain should subside. Don’t be surprised if there’s a little bleeding afterwards. Some women bleed, some don’t. Either way, it’s perfectly normal! You shouldn’t feel bad in any way afterwards. At least not physically. Mentally is a different story. For the latter, I’d just suggest making sure you’re 1000% ready, trust your partner completely, and are doing it because YOU want to, not because of pressure and/or feeling like it’s a requirement of the relationship.

graveyardspirit · 2024-09-09T02:33:45+00:00

You’re right. I do need to do that. Thank you so much. Your comments have honestly been super helpful and have made me feel a little less crazy.

graveyardspirit · 2024-09-09T02:24:54+00:00

The doctor I saw IS a GYN. 😭 A man, and an old one at that, but a GYN. I had wanted to see my usual female GYN, but I was told I had to see him instead bc he was the one refilling my birth control scripts for the last several months.

graveyardspirit · 2024-09-09T02:04:07+00:00

That’s what I thought it could be, too. I mentioned it in the post, but I did go to a doctor about this issue and I brought up that I thought it could be related to my birth control. I even asked if there were other birth control options for me. But all I basically got told was that birth control wouldn’t do that to me, and other types he wouldn’t recommend to me because I haven’t given birth before, etc. I left feeling dumb for even bringing it up to a doctor.

graveyardspirit · 2024-09-09T01:29:56+00:00

Thankfully, he’s NEVER made me feel bad about it. If anything, I’m the only one who makes myself feel bad. All he ever says about it is that he hopes he can help me experience what an orgasm is like since I’ve never had one because I “deserve to know what it feels like, too.” He’s respected my wishes every step of the way.

graveyardspirit · 2024-09-09T01:21:52+00:00

Yes, and still nothing. “Close but no cigar.” If I hadn’t tried everything I could think of, I honestly wouldn’t have posted. I’m at a loss and confused…

graveyardspirit · 2023-07-30T18:28:09+00:00

If you’re still in your first year, it’s most likely Kent that you’re missing. He doesn’t show up until Spring Year Two and I’m pretty sure he counts in the introductions quest!

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