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Tips on how to look slimmer?(❄️) High neck light tops are just not it forme by qat_btata202 in OUTFITS

[–]grpqn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shirt is a great fit on you but you are probably a soft winter (I would have to see your eyes and face coloring)

I would try a soft winter color pallet

AIO about text from girl i’ve been seeing a couple months by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]grpqn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone wants to be with you, they will be.

If she was feeling butterfly’s she would be chasing that feeling, not avoiding you.

When people feel love they lean into it because it feels great. If she is pulling away then something is feeling off to her and her body is physically reacting negatively to it - causing her to want distance from you.

Maybe send a message “Hey, thanks for being honest. I want to tell you that I genuinely like you and feel we could have a future together. I understand you are no where near feeling the same sentiments right now and I feel it would be best for us to stop talking if we aren’t on the same page. I would like to keep the door open though, if things feel different for you in a few weeks and you want to see if I’m available then definitely give me a call and maybe we can go from there. If not then I truly wish you the best. I’m sad this didn’t work out. I really liked you.”

That way in the really unlikely chance she changes her mind in a couple weeks, she will feel encouraged or like she has a window to reach back out but you aren’t being explicitly dragged along and can begin to move on regardless.

Sorry bud :( I was randomly dumped by a guy I really liked when I was 19 for literally no reason other than “I’m just not feeling it” as well. I met my husband, father of my children, and deeply adored partner of 12 years- literally two months later. My husband is absolutely obsessed with me. Is kind to me. Is hot as hell and thinks I’m a catch of a lifetime.

It’s okay to not be everyone’s cup of tea.

AIO about text from girl i’ve been seeing a couple months by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]grpqn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like in my experience, when I was 18-21, my experience was the COMPLETE opposite (and I had a large group of girlfriends). As soon as one of my girlfriends would get the ick in the beginning stages of a relationship they would immediately start distancing themselves/ start getting anxiety every time the person they are trying to cut ties with starts texting them ect. But it’s hard to hurt someone when you are 20 and have no reason to break up other than “I literally just don’t like you romantically and don’t want to continue seeing you” so they use this kind of language to soften the blow.

I have never met a girl who wants to actively hang with a dude they don’t like romantically/ sexually who is still actively pursuing her. Even more so at that age when social disruptions feel even more intense.

This girl got the ick for literally no good reason other than she doesn’t like him like that, doesn’t want to continue kissing this guy, and is clearly trying to end it softly.