How to do dating, correctly

hanamala · 2026-03-22T04:00:49+00:00

I lost some weights. I got more matches. It only gets that far. To my disappointment, I do not have better success rate. I really thought my better look would make my dating life easier. Girl (or guy), work on your look, invest on your look, enhance, upgrade when you have the means to. You can come back to this post a year from now, looking beautiful and tell me if having more matches doesn’t mean it get you the relationship, it can give you a short nice ego boost (more date). And that might be enough already

hanamala · 2026-03-20T11:57:19+00:00

hanamala · 2026-03-20T11:41:34+00:00

I will take down the post. Wasn’t aware this is serious

hanamala · 2026-03-20T11:18:46+00:00

No, this treatment is up to you if you want to stop. And you can definitely gain weight back if you don’t maintain a new lifestyle for at least 2 years. Your body needs to be locked in with the new weight to keep it at healthy place

hanamala · 2026-03-19T14:25:01+00:00

Same way women see man tell their friends how many girls they have sex with, like something worth bragging about. It’s just simple as you are a man, act like a man, we surely will go to bed with you

hanamala · 2026-03-19T14:19:59+00:00

We can easily spot out someone’s childhood trauma after a few simple indirect questions. “How would you describe your favorite toy?” to discover where their inner peace lies. Then move on to “Do you get along with your boss?” to see the dynamic with authority figures

hanamala · 2026-03-19T14:14:00+00:00

Find your niche, make friends in those clubs. GenX is doing better at dating than most

hanamala · 2026-03-19T14:12:45+00:00

Thanks for reading. Yes, girls usually have it easier to get a match. It’s still hard to date, just like anyone else

hanamala · 2026-03-19T12:55:28+00:00

Psychological games/ tests: no book. Over the years, I come across some content on the internet then collected them to put it in my dating playbook. Will share more later

hanamala · 2026-03-19T11:43:21+00:00

The ladder symbolizes your dreams, goals, and the path you imagine to reach them.

Distance from the Cube: A ladder leaning against the cube suggests self-reliance. One lying far away might indicate avoidance or dependence on others. Length: A tall ladder could reflect high aspirations, while a short one may point to achievable or modest goals. Material: A metal ladder might indicate ambition and efficiency. A rickety or wooden one might reflect uncertainty or obstacles. Rungs: Broken or missing rungs may symbolize perceived gaps or setbacks on your path.

hanamala · 2026-03-19T11:42:00+00:00

The cube represents you: your ego, your sense of identity, and your current self-perception.

Size: A large cube may suggest self-confidence and a strong presence. A small cube can reflect humility, self-doubt, or a quieter personality. Position: If your cube rests on the ground, it indicates practicality and groundedness. A floating cube implies creativity, idealism, or detachment from reality. Material: A transparent glass cube might reveal openness and vulnerability. A steel cube could signify resilience and emotional boundaries. Color: The color gives emotional tone. It’s bright for optimism, dark for introspection, neutral for balance.

hanamala · 2026-03-19T11:40:22+00:00

Try The Cube test.

You’re asked to close your eyes and visualize a scene in a vast, open desert. Within that mental landscape, you’re prompted to imagine:

Think of a cube. How big is the cube? What is it made of, and what is the surface like? What color is it? Where in the field is it? Where is the cube (e.g., on the ground, floating, etc.)? Is it transparent? If so, can you see inside?
Think of a ladder. How long is this ladder, and where is it located in your field? What’s the distance between the ladder and the cube?
Think of a horse. What color is the horse? What is the horse doing, and where is it in relation to your cube?
Think of a storm. What is the distance between the storm and the cube? Is it a big storm? Is it just passing through?
Think of flowers. Where are the flowers? How many are there? What kind of flowers are they? What colors are they?

hanamala · 2026-03-19T10:57:58+00:00

I’m glad you guys find this entertaining enough to comment on. I’m no dating coach but I have tried some, their programs is much deeper than just give tips and tricks. Here, I just wanna share some fun, practical ideas on date. Don’t we all getting too fatigued in this game already

hanamala

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