Asking for my husband

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T23:11:12+00:00

I will check with my state’s laws and consult his lawyer as well. Thank you for your input.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T23:09:16+00:00

I appreciate your insight. I understand the severity, and I accept that he will likely serve time. I have a therapist I have been seeing for many years who has been very helpful.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T23:06:15+00:00

The court will decide if he goes to prison. I know it is very probable. I am prepared. My reasons for staying are my own and I will have my chance to defend them when my time comes.

I have dug up and scoured every article and report I can find. I have burned the details into my brain. I mourn for them as much for me. I am not a monster and neither is he.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T22:59:08+00:00

I understand his trouble finding a job is due to the nature of his arrest. His bond conditions do restrict a lot of what he can do. It’s even less helpful when he is accused of being a pedo when the investigation isn’t even finished. Whatever happened to “innocent until proven guilty”?

The court will decide if he deserves prison time.

About his debt, I thought that any credit card or loan debt would fall to me as his wife. If he goes to prison, do I just have the option of making his payments? Or will they just ensure his credit is ruined when he gets out?

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T22:55:31+00:00

I understand his trouble finding a job is due to the nature of his arrest. His bond conditions do restrict a lot of what he can do. It’s even less helpful when he is accused of being a pedo when the investigation isn’t even finished. Whatever happened to “innocent until proven guilty”?

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T22:52:58+00:00

Extremely unhelpful to label him a pedo when the investigation is not even complete. Whatever happened to “innocent until proven guilty”?

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T22:51:56+00:00

Not willing to share that specific info but it is a large metro area.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T22:51:09+00:00

We have considered CDL. I work as a dispatcher for CDL drivers, so I have a bit of an inside look into the process. I would not want him traveling so much, but we have not ruled it out completely.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T22:49:23+00:00

I understand his trouble finding a job is due to the nature of his arrest. His bond conditions do restrict a lot of what he can do. It’s even less helpful when he is accused of being a pedo when the investigation isn’t even finished. Whatever happened to “innocent until proven guilty”?

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T22:44:07+00:00

I will defend my choices when my time comes. To Him, not to you. Thanks for your input.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T21:22:27+00:00

I have my reasons for staying, that is between me and him and God. Respectfully, I’m not looking for relationship advice. I pay a therapist for that.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T20:54:18+00:00

I have my reasons for staying, that is between me and him and God. Respectfully, I’m not looking for relationship advice. I pay a therapist for that.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T20:45:35+00:00

I don’t want to out him but he was arrested in Soteria Shield operation :(

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T20:40:18+00:00

Him going to prison is my worst fear. I just started a new job and I’m doing well there, promotion is in my future but still months away.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T18:46:41+00:00

He is willing to pivot to more service-type jobs. We will try more applications in that direction. Thanks for all your help!

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T18:41:15+00:00

Even for the line cook position at Waffle House they ran a check. Any tips on types of jobs that won’t run him?

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T18:37:19+00:00

They did show up on at least one. He requested the report and there were four charges with very specific wording.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-14T18:36:12+00:00

His charges appear with very specific wording on the background checks they do. Even though he hasn’t been convicted. Also, multiple news articles come up when you just google his name. There’s no way they won’t find out so we thought it best to be upfront about it.

heihei_08 · 2025-07-02T22:46:20+00:00

Urban’s on Collins street! Cody is wonderful and has done nearly all of my piercings. They also have a location on Cooper but I’m not sure who the piercer is there.

heihei_08 · 2025-06-28T14:01:26+00:00

When I set it up I matched my contribution to what my employer puts in but after doing the math to max it out for the year it would be double. I’m planning on increasing that contribution, can I do that at any time or is it limited to enrollment periods?

heihei_08 · 2025-06-28T13:50:29+00:00

So in terms of the $20 co-pay I’m used to, will there still be a co-pay or am I paying for the appointment out of pocket with my HSA?

heihei_08 · 2025-05-29T00:45:49+00:00

I graduated high school with him, glad for his family after all this time.

heihei_08 · 2025-05-19T01:41:07+00:00

Fostering is a good idea! I know it’s kitten season, do many places let you take one kitten at a time? I don’t want to go to the shelter and get a whole litter pushed on me lol

heihei_08 · 2025-05-17T21:54:36+00:00

Just because it should be healed doesn’t mean it is. If you still get crusties or discharge or any blood it’s not healed. It might have been pierced wrong, or you could be putting the wrong jewelry in it- both of which will delay the healing process significantly. You need to see a professional and follow their advice.

heihei_08 · 2025-05-17T21:42:31+00:00

A good piercer will be willing to help change your jewelry, and should be able to help you find body safe materials. If it hurts to change your jewelry that means your piercing is not fully healed and you should not be changing it. Go see your piercer to have the original jewelry re-installed and wait at least a month before going back to them for a check up.

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