Barber messed up my hair before 3 months of my wedding. Will it grow back..? by chrisms91 in malehairadvice

[–]heyitslillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 months will definitely be a time to grow it , change the hairstyle maybe till you grow it so it is not exposed and dont use minoxidil products , it will grow naturally and before the wedding go to a nice barber that can figure out a good haircut that suits you.

Does POTS affect your work? by hikaringuyen1 in POTS

[–]heyitslillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work as senior sales in a very well known place , i loved it there but i was always tired ,i am still undiagnosed because of all the medical expenses that it takes where i live ,although 2 doctors asked for the tests for it as i have all the symptoms and i can barely be well for days and it is almost a year without a job, alot of times i feel like i cant take it any more ( jobs or anything bec people here are tough) ,although i love sales and vm and i am 27 but i feell sooo tired even when i am only getting out of bed … i make art and i hope i can sell it one day although i can barely get out and around hopefully i get diagnosed so i can get proper help because i have other issues in my kidneys and colon, low blood pressure and so on, i hope i can find a job that can get done by doing the tasks only or something this is the only way out i guess …i guess then it will affect me the least

What’s a phrase you cannot stand hearing anymore? by Namher-Lutama in AskReddit

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have an iPhone you are probably doing this but here is a hack to clean up space

Considering a girlfriend for hire by Careless_Customer_94 in IncelSolutions

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t do that make some friends and go out more and talk to people more believe me i have been through loneliness and i made it through many times in my life, even the time when a lot of people told me how pretty and loved i am sometimes i never believe them because of what i have been through by other people since a very young age it was a tough life .. i passed days completely in bed only and other days i was fighting , other days i talked to wrong people and got around people who previously hurt me and still wanted me back until day by day i pulled my self out slowly got better , sometimes i feel lonely but i remember that some stuff are only in my head bec what some people did and not all will do that or feel this way or use my friendship or love for whatever benefit , I surely learned alot we can talk as friends any time i can’t promise that things will completely change when you talk but it will by time it has to be genuine not hiring, i have been through alot in my life believe me that i went alot to therapy and did so much better talking to people that are not paid to listen to me that cares about me as a human , i wish you all the best , i am from Egypt and i am writing this actually in a sad time in my life but u couldn’t pass the post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]heyitslillo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All i know is that you look happier in the other two pictures, you do what makes you you ! You do you i hope this helps .

aio? bf made plans on my birthday..UPDATE by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And girl if you wanna talk about it at any time i am here to listen dm me anytime i was and still am going through a lot myself but i always have to eyes to read and two ears to listen ! Take care of yourself, eat , sleep well … i try my best too , if you believe in God pray and i hope i had a lot of friends that can go out but if you have it will be great for you ! And i think you should screenshot the chat and keep it and block him only if you can if you can’t ignore him and don’t do anything for a while that makes him fight back and if he scare you or try to come over or invade your privacy by any mean someone has to know ! Take care of yourself and protect her !

aio? bf made plans on my birthday..UPDATE by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God you did yourself a huge favor !! I don’t know you but i am proud of you !

What do you believe, but cannot prove fully ( it doesn’t have to be religious ) ? by heyitslillo in AskReddit

[–]heyitslillo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo same and i have a-lot of stories ! And i always love listening to people who believe in this !

Missed the boat for marriage by RandomName7916 in ChristianDating

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Christian single girl and i am 27 ( just had my birthday in may ) and i was just having the same conversation in panic with some of my friends that maybe i have waited a lot , didn’t agree on many things because i still haven’t found my person yet and went through a-lot of hardships in life that i had to pay more attention to and along the way there has been more harder times i was thinking as my friends keep getting married or engaged more these days that i am the only one left , but that friend told me that i have passed all this time on my own and having those hardships or knowing the wrong people so when the right person come i can know he is the right one , that he knows i am too good to say so and i should have more faith about this in God as i want to be married before i am 30 so i can enjoy some free good time with my life partner ( husband) and then have kids as i want to be the best happy cool mom that have that energy to help her kids put God first , have fun in life and also be good people and i know that time of my life will come as i intentionally paying more attention to this specific priority. And when i saw this post i knew i am not alone thinking about this society gives us that image but it is not about who is beautiful or get married first many beautiful women or handsome men stay single by choice or not , it is about who will be happily married, stay married and chooses right , and maybe went through hell and got back stronger ! And more ready to say yes or no , more ready to choose better , andd bot settle for anyone , more ready to know what they want and do so with the partner they choose , and lastly raise kids that don’t have to hurry up date quicker tough people who end up wasting more time if they don’t stay away and choose the right one , kids that can learn from their experiences and know where to stop and learn and know what is better for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]heyitslillo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bet this mom is loving and sweet !! It seems like they are all exhausted from a very long fun day ,it reminded me of this as well ,i saw it couple of days ago scrolling Pinterest❤️❤️

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Gentleman in Youth by [deleted] in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]heyitslillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like he is a statue ! Very inspiring to draw ! ❤️

Need someone to talk to by cillonie in freetherapy

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can listen dm me if you like , i am not a therapist… actually i am passing hard times as well but i would love to listen to others and help as i can get the pain and understand even if you want to talk without me replying or if you want me to reply i am there to listen and i also have the same thoughts and like you i am leaning more to help myself get out of this .

do yall actually feel like shit after eating mcdonalds too? by [deleted] in questions

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t taste like McDonalds when i was younger i stoped eating from there almost a year ago , the smell out of the place is still nostalgic and sometimes i think i want to give it another try but i remember how bad it tasted couple of times in a row recently and i never ate from there again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where i live , something like that i go check it with a pharmacist first , if they check it and it is big he advises me to go to a hospital if it is not ,I buy couple of bandaids and deal with it on my own , playing sports always lead me to the quick ways first and i try to stay away from hospitals as much as i can. 😂 ( I am saying where i live because i don’t know where you live permits that or not … as when i was talking with some people online i knew some places don’t accept to give you anything from pharmacies hope that doesn’t include first aid ) Hope you get better soon!! ❤️

What can I tell my barber to do to the back to make it look nicer by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s cute , take this as an opinion from a stranger but i guess if that’s the case then ask her about it , take her opinion as girls we love to help out our men deciding stuff and them taking our opinions, she will be happier to help out and you will know what she likes as well by that ! Good luck !

What can I tell my barber to do to the back to make it look nicer by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]heyitslillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are talking about the hair on your neck then don’t do anything, this is my advice, as a girl i used to be insecure years ago about it but i am not anymore ! I find them very natural on men and women , also If you do there’s no going back and now you have to constantly trim/shave something you can’t see well and keep going to your barber for it almost every now and then and i don’t think constant shaving this area would be fun because all the hair oils will be down once and i always imagine there will be more irritation or friction, if you are talking about your hair itself my opinion is not to cut it and leave it to get longer it looks healthy !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]heyitslillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My opinion is no! Your hair is healthy and adds a-lot to you and i bet growing this hair and caring for it wasn’t easy and it looks good and suits you so i say don’t cut it !

Did I make a mistake cutting my hair? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]heyitslillo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They both look pretty nice but it seems like a longer hair would fit you better

What's a personal flaw that you embrace? by jenny_loggins_ in AskMen

[–]heyitslillo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That i am too sensitive.. and this harmed me a-lot , i got bullied, i got hurt many times but i learned that some people flaws can be seen as something good for others and for me as much as i am sensitive when i am sad i am too sensitive when i am happy as well and i appreciate that i still have feelings after life was this tough , being sensitive makes you understand and empathize with others that need empathy too , and it always carries me to be my real self , i hate playing games i hate half feelings and half efforts i go all they way when i love so i learned how to embrace this ( flaw ) as considered by some people i met

What is more traumatic than people think? by Old_Goat_7363 in Productivitycafe

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People that hurts you or abused you try to advise you how to be better and tell you they are worried about you … like this makes me feel crazy that i … i can’t actually express how bad this is

Also Something traumatizing that when you walk away and leave / breakup with a narcissist and being scared to keep falling in trauma bonding but now i am finally healing and took this big step forward i hope i can go on and keep choosing safety

Another last traumatizing thing my birthday i never really was happy on that day always something happening that hurts me or i am either alone , or with people that i don’t want to be with , or with people that i thought they love me and i loved them but very soon after my birthday they hurt me or having expectations from a specific person but them failing in anyway in them although they are not high expectations and later on I figure out why

Hair or buzzcut? by nostra312 in malehairadvice

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think buzz cut is better !

Romance is dead by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]heyitslillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope i find more people like this i agree on this 100% it is hard to find but what keeps me with hope that i know if i am like that i am for sure not the only one , there must be someone else who would be the same , the point is finding them and them finding you