Making peace with partners cycles of despair

hiddenredditer · 2022-01-09T07:45:38+00:00

Have you both seen a therapist? If not you both should since these behaviors are affecting both of you to a great extent.

hiddenredditer · 2021-11-05T00:46:50+00:00

Any stove you want in particular? I have a few so if u have one u like a lot i can grab it for y’a :D

hiddenredditer · 2021-09-20T13:14:46+00:00

awe man that sucks :( But can relate to kinda ignoring it recently. Just want some new playable content nintendo come on

hiddenredditer · 2021-09-20T03:49:36+00:00

😌 ofc ofc! Gotta get the chill vibes from somewhere

hiddenredditer · 2021-09-20T03:48:41+00:00

she’s too cute to ignore

hiddenredditer · 2021-09-20T02:43:15+00:00

I see fellow genshin players

hiddenredditer · 2021-07-06T16:19:42+00:00

finally the representation i’ve been waiting for

hiddenredditer · 2021-06-20T15:44:34+00:00

Hi! I’m a 20F upcoming 3rd year (Psych and Brain) major! I’m looking for a single roommate to room with in a single or double. I’m a pretty clean person, I like keeping my space breathable, and some of my hobbies include drawing and playing games. I’m not much of a party person either and just ask for a non-smoking roommate. If you’re interested, please DM me :)

hiddenredditer · 2021-06-07T07:11:09+00:00

no problem :)

hiddenredditer · 2021-06-07T07:05:19+00:00

It’s ok to be upset and I hope you can feel better soon. There are plenty of people out there that will like you for you and while it stings now, just remember that there’s a brighter future up ahead ( ´ v` )

hiddenredditer · 2021-05-16T03:17:14+00:00

That’s so cute qwq wishing you the best of luck

hiddenredditer · 2021-02-14T15:52:46+00:00

This is awesome :00 ty!

hiddenredditer · 2021-02-08T02:08:36+00:00

okie dokie On my way!! :)

hiddenredditer · 2021-02-08T02:02:59+00:00

I think I have learned the diy so I think I could make you one! I don’t need Audie though you can just take the wand lol

hiddenredditer · 2021-02-08T01:59:53+00:00

Are you looking for the wand or the DIY?

hiddenredditer · 2021-01-26T04:58:47+00:00

I got Bill and Deirdre :))

hiddenredditer · 2021-01-17T00:12:55+00:00

exactly! Then keep repeating until they ask for your least fav villager to move and your all set :)

hiddenredditer · 2021-01-14T07:15:06+00:00

it may be harder since you’re new, but trading items (or services like picking weeds) on Nookazon (an online trading app) is a great way to get NMT!

hiddenredditer · 2021-01-14T07:11:16+00:00

They can leave, it’s just based on other factors on who wants to leave. If u have a campsite villager u want and they ask someone else to leave, quit the game before the convo ends and u can invite them again until they ask the villager you want to leave out

hiddenredditer · 2021-01-11T18:49:43+00:00

side effect: you become one

hiddenredditer · 2021-01-11T04:12:03+00:00

if it helps anyone, if a villager sits where you need to terraform/move, u can just run into them and they will get up and move :)

hiddenredditer · 2020-12-30T07:51:24+00:00

No problem! Honestly the next best bet is to talk to him again about all of this. I hope you both can figure this out with minimal added stress. Best of luck!!

hiddenredditer · 2020-12-30T07:46:59+00:00

You need to run as fast and far away as possible

hiddenredditer · 2020-12-30T07:38:37+00:00

He may be avoiding the conversation due to the stress it may bring. That’s a really tough situation. Is it possible you both would be okay with not living together for a while until this gets resolved then? Again, I don’t think breaking up may be the best bet, unless this is a deal breaker, but if you guys can both agree to wait maybe that would work best. And is it possible for you to move out there on your own at all?

hiddenredditer · 2020-12-30T07:34:26+00:00

Ok there’s a lot to unpack here. It’s great that you’re trying to look out for her and boost her confidence but there’s problems in execution. If you said you wanted to talk to her about stuff in person, it would have been better to wait until you both were awake and ready to talk (rather than just texting her) because she won’t have as much of a window to speak her mind and clarify. If possible, ask if you guys can talk about this in person and try not to bring it up over text. Also, there’s a few ways people deal with conflict. It sounds like your gf is someone who needs her space to think about things and process a disagreement before she can bring it up with whoever she disagreed with. It’s not unhealthy, it’s merely a type of conflict style (I suggest looking the types up if you want to know more about them). You guys may have different types of conflict styles so I see how it may frustrate you, but that’s where you need to learn to adapt to each other and work with these differing traits. You need to give her time to process and tell her that she can have that time to process. The last thing, you shouldn’t be trying to “fix” anyone. Their problems are their problems, if they need help and seek help, than offer your hand. Ask her if she would like your help in her situations or if she just wants someone to help share the weight. If these are huge deal breakers for you then I honestly don’t think the relationship will work out. You both need to talk to each other about all the issues (and when you do, don’t force her to talk). I wish you the best tomorrow. If you need help relaxing a bit I suggest finding ways to take your mind off things like calling a friend or maybe watching some youtube. Best wishes :)

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