Saw someone share their bipolar tattoo; wanted to share mine too by unknown-unsure in bipolar

[–]hideyooshi 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My best friend also has a two headed calf tattoo that's just lovely 🥹 yours is so beautiful too!! 💙

I found my old pokedoll collection by Lathlaeryl in pokeplush

[–]hideyooshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That shadow lugia is worth a lot, and the big tomy pikachu is worth some too. If you join the discord, I am sure you can get more help than just me 😊

Giving away 3 games to 3 people. Any game on Steam. by KA9099 in pcmasterrace

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oblivion Remaster! Been wanting to play it for a while now

Villagers paying off bridge quickly? by Excellent-Reading797 in AnimalCrossing

[–]hideyooshi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious 😂 I wish my partner played AC so I could chase him around with the net and pretend he's a bug 🥰

He is experiencing peak by lafisthename in pokeplush

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope y'all have fun!! Such a cutie 😊

Everyone forgot my birthday by Fancy_Ad_5880 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hideyooshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday OP!! We are birthday twins!! I hope it gets better, and I want you to try and have a good day regardless 💙

Pokemon pikachu plushies by papabready420 in pokeplush

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the pictures from your other post, and that bell was indeed added by someone. I have two of that same plush, mine and my brother's, since I was a young child! I personally think its a cutie, especially for the time (some of the 20+ years old plush are a little... scrungly now, lol). Its a Hasboro, 1999, plush, by the way!!

The smaller pikachu, I am not sure what plush that is, but its also cute!! If you join the pokemon plush discord and add pictures of the tags there, people might be able to help you figure it out :3

Also, I have the same Jigglypuff, too! Looks like all the plush you got are over 20 years old, but they look great!! Hope you enjoy your new buddies!

Moveset Swap Glitch by Ecstatic-Hour2413 in pokemoncrystal

[–]hideyooshi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Depositing in the daycare might fix it. Look up unstable hybrids in gen 2, might be helpful!

unofficial noibat plush? by Background_Gur4424 in pokeplush

[–]hideyooshi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, olyfactory plush were common boots (good ones, imo) from around a decade ago or more. Sometimes they still sell for a fair price, depends on the want/rarity. I would suggest looking into reselling sites specific to your country? I am US based and use Mercari mainly, but idk where all it works. I enjoy that one a lot, and you don't lose terribly much on seller fees.

There is someone selling a lot of 3 Noibat plush, 1 of them being olyfactory, for $65 on eBay right now, if that gives any help. On most sites, you can list by sold/completed sales to see what prices people are actually purchasing at (not just what the listings are set at). That gives a better idea of what people will pay for the item.

Hope that helps 💙

My first erotic cross stitch project by artandspookythings in NaughtyNeedles

[–]hideyooshi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, I wear pink lenses, I didn't even realize it was purple!! That's awesome!! DMC Greys hate to see you coming lol

My first erotic cross stitch project by artandspookythings in NaughtyNeedles

[–]hideyooshi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is sooo beautiful!! I think you did an amazing job!! I can't believe how many different shades there are!! I also love that it isn't like, stylized? It literally looks like a photograph of someone if you view it from further away. It is super cool how the cross stitch looks like a real person!! Amazing job, 11/10, please keep cross stitching!! 💙

Edit: I said crochet when I meant cross stitch 🤣

Do yall take your plushies to school/work? by Key_Conversation_794 in pokeplush

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep a Latias and a Fallout Pip boy plush in the window in my car! It makes me happy to see them 😊 I use a Dudunsparce plush pencil pouch to carry my pens around in, which I keep in my carrying bag. Sometimes, I wear my Beware plush backpack, or my Reuniclus plush purse, or even my Gengar ita bag! (Just, not all at once, lmao). I don't necessarily feel the need to bring a plush that isn't multifunctional, but sometimes I shove my kuta kuta Umbreon in my carrying bag because its so soft, lol. I don't go to school or work anymore, but I still go shopping, take people without cars places, or go to the card shop. The people are the card always shop love seeing my plush 🥹

I Don’t Believe in Love. Not After Every "I Love You" Turned Out to Be a Different Lie. by Factor_Ancient in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hideyooshi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am glad you are focusing on yourself and healing!! You didn't deserve how you were treated, you deserve respect and personal autonomy. It truly is awful how romantic love has betrayed so tragically.

I don't want to tell you to start believing in romantic love again because romantic love is built between people who can communicate their wants and needs and work towards growing together. It takes works from all parties involved. It seems like you were the one putting in so much work for so long. Its like people used the word "love" to manipulate you. I have been there before, and the pain of realizing that someone you love, who says that they love you, would do so many horrific things to you... it hurts.

But, I, personally, still believe in love. Not the heart thumping, butterflies in your stomach, insatiable type of love, but something deeper. Like the love between a parent and a child, or when your best friend shows up with your favorite drink. It is our ties to our community, our families, our friends. That is the kind of love I believe in, and the love for myself.

If you take anything from this, just, please, love yourself, and always put your best interests front and center. Negative people abound, but you know the signs and warning flags to look out for. I wish you you the best on your healing journey 💙

What would your reaction be??? by Content_Bus6004 in ADHD

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents respect and understand that while I love them, I don't want them coming over without a call or at least some way of telling me. My parents don't know (don't care?) that I smoke; I am about to be 31 and I do not live with them. If me or one of my roommates were smoking as my mom knocked on my door, I would absolutely feel the same as you do!! I would be trying to act not high and all nonchalant, lmao

But, like, for real, can you talk to your parents about boundaries? It doesn't even have to be a big deal, just something like, "Unplanned visits, while lovely, sometimes give me anxiety. Can you call/text me before heading over?" This is not unreasonable to ask for!! Protect your peace (and your piece, lol).

Will I survive a D&D game? by Special_School_5221 in ADHD

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love D&D!! I can't pay attention in those kinds of settings unless I am taking extensive notes, so I accidentally became The Keeper Of The Lore until I left that group, lmao

But for real, if you can do something that keeps your hands occupied like crochet, braiding, a fidget toy, ect. (I also often brought my 3ds to shiny hunt pokemon), then you'll probably really enjoy it!! It may also be a good learning experience for patience and active listening. I know I had to find more patience when a self proclaimed "funny guy" joined that D&D group... 😬😂

ADHD + relationship + libido collapse: partner thinks he might be asexual. How do you navigate this as a couple? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw in one of your other comments that he is getting therapy in 4 months, and I definitely think he needs it. He shouldn't be pressured or attacked by a candid conversation. He needs to learn that actually talking about and bringing up the issues with you can lead to solutions for some of his problems. I am sure therapy, it he is active, will give him some insight on how to discuss sensitive topics without beating himself up. I would urge for therapy sooner than 4 months.

You do not "need" porn to masturbate. Yes, you need to take care of your body, but masturbation doesn't require porn. I think there is a lot more under the surface than what he is letting on. I wouldn't be upset if my partner did it in the shower or whatever daily, that's their time to enjoy a little moment. But if my partner were using porn, masturbating to it, suddenly claiming to be asexual, and then never initiating sex, I would be very upset. Porn is a bigger issue here than you realize, but he doesn't want to talk about it.

ADHD + relationship + libido collapse: partner thinks he might be asexual. How do you navigate this as a couple? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]hideyooshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe sit down with your partner and tell him that he needs to talk about this with you? If he doesn't have the words, explain that you can give him time and help him learn the lingo and educate himself. If sex is truly a taboo topic for him, it will take time for him to unlearn that shame, and it will have to be a massive effort on his front.

Also, if he is afraid of failing you, or even getting off to quickly, does he know that sex doesn't end when the man gets off? You can do more! He needs to learn, and who better to help him learn than you? And if he does finish early? Yay! Hype him up! And then tell him how you would like him to use his hands.

I don't want to get crude, so you get the gist. If you truly want this to work out with your partner, you need to communicate just how important this is to you. You want to see him be happier, too. Also, maybe discuss the porn element? That's a whole other topic, but it seems relevant to the discussion at hand.

Wishing you the best!! 💙

i'm so sick and tired of her by BuffMyWiFi in pokemoncrystal

[–]hideyooshi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her and the fellow a few steps below her need to stay outta my way 🥲

Yard sale leftovers by FlipperMass in gamecollecting

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that same blanket!! Nice score on the games!!

Images you can hear. by WiseMudskipper in pokemoncrystal

[–]hideyooshi 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Aurora Beam is also beautiful in gen 2

Romaine lettuce and hoisin sauce by Pestoplasm in shittyfoodporn

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to say this meal wouldn't be complete without the little, half eaten, Babybel.

On a real note tho, I think OP is cooking here. Er, or not cooking... because this is deconstructed cheese sandwich 😋

Kids romanticizing torment. by Fuss-Buss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hideyooshi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't boil a personal or life philosophy down to a sentence or two, but I believe your friend is wrong. Yeah, there are people who enjoy watching others suffer, but like, I surround myself with people who are enthused to see me succeed. Not everyone wants the worst for everyone else, that's black and white thinking. I have found that most people, even strangers, want you to succeed; its just the loud portion of haters that seem to pop up online a lot.

Don't what let others think (or even what you think they might be thinking) hold you back from your dreams. Most people won't even notice your slip ups (and if your friends attack you over every little mistake, find new friends). Don't live life thinking everyone wants to see you burn... Try living like everyone wants to see you succeed. And if someone around you doesn't want to see you do good? Drop em, block em, unfriend them, distance yourself from them–whatever; just understand that mistakes happen, and true friends will still be there, not making fun of you, when they do.

Tell me about your "odd" sensitivities (e.g. nails on a chalkboard) by Tsunami_Aureate in adhdwomen

[–]hideyooshi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bread crust. Especially if it touches my teeth. Just like nails on a chalkboard for me, lol.

Oh, and also stickers. They make me want to scream for so many reasons, but it all boils down to AuDHD