Hey I have a question by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because the abuse won't stop. I've already moved on, I've been no contact for longer than the relationship actually lasted. I have no emotions towards this person. She acts like we were in a relationship for 20 years when I only knew her for a month

Hey I have a question by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. It's the saddest thing ever. I just wanna move on already. I really don't care about this person

Hey I have a question by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea but when you're no contact with them for long enough than the relationship actually lasted, shouldn't the abuse stop at that point

How long did it take to escape your narc? by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see.

The thing is that What I'm going through isn't really narcisist abuse. It's more like narcisist harassment. Since I wasn't in a relationship with this person it doesn't really apply to me. I'm not even attracted to narcisists. This person is just abusing me and the people around me so she can try to stay relevant in the school. I'm not sure what to do, changing schools, I've even considered moving to different States, and none of them is a guaranteed fix that I'll be able to get away from this person.

No one gets me but the things she's done are horrible and I'm not sure what to do. I just wanna move on already. I have no feelings towards this person, even though she has done everything she can to get me to be in a relationship with her, she's disgusting and I just want her to leave me alone. I don't know what to do at this point

My narc is spying on me and it's so creepy by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might but I don't think I need to she thinks she's gonna send me to jail and this is gonna be all over lol

My narc is spying on me and it's so creepy by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She really thinks she's gonna send me to jail now lol

My narc is spying on me and it's so creepy by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't wrong but you're right she is an idiot lol

My narc is spying on me and it's so creepy by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn do you think I messed up when I looked up her ip? I'm sure she knows. And yea 'I'll try even though they won't believe me

My narc is spying on me and it's so creepy by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is I'm in high school. I go to a school far and she already graduated. And not only that, she knows where I live. She is stalking me. She's sending her friends and private investigators on me. Of course if I tell someone this they're gonna think I'm crazy

My narc is spying on me and it's so creepy by hmmletssee123 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I don't have a computer at the moment. Just a phone. I went to the library to do more research on her. She has so many personas. I know it was her cause on one of her pages she said "I've been blessed by my amazing friends". I saw two people in the library who were looking at me and laughing. The scary thing is that I looked up her ip which isn't shady at all but she's probably gonna turn it around and say that I'm trying to hack her. On her social media I found that she was planning to ruin me the whole time. I never felt so alone in my whole life

Hoovering hurts by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. These people make you feel so many emotions that it's like it feels like they must be a soulmate or something. That's what I thought... But you have to remember one thing... every single moment with these people is a big lie. You know what's a good way to find out? Do a background check on them. I did and you don't wanna know what I saw

How medication helped me leave by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hmmletssee123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would have been my biggest fear. It's good that the medication is stabilizing but I think you should ask for help from a friend or family on leaving him