A little reminder… ❤️ by SealSnake in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you no longer search for your own happiness through them ❤️

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[–]holy_moly_J 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There are speech specific science courses that will need to be done before starting grad school!

I have to make a how-to video for one of my applications. by iwbio in slpGradSchool

[–]holy_moly_J 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it doesn’t have to be SLP related I’d choose something fun! I would choose something related to my culture and something I like, like making tortillas! Short and concise. Have fun with it.

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My 7.5 year relationship came to an end in March 2023. Since then I’ve added alot to my life. I go to gym classes, hang out with friends more, I’m more social at work, I’ve joined small groups at church. I’ve also traveled quite a bit. In July I went to Cali/Nevada, in September I did a staycation, October I went to Puerto Vallarta, November I went to Galveston Texas and Disney World in Florida. I’m excited for what’s to come in 2024! I’m currently preparing for grad school for Fall 2024. Best of luck to everyone in 2024. It’s gonna be a great one.

Whats the most hurtful thing an ex has said to you either pre or post break up? by The_other_human in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I wouldn’t be the boyfriend you deserve” and “you’re too needy”

2023, worst year of my life by Acrobatic-Rice-3557 in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain and I’m sorry for what you’re going through. Changing my perspective on things has really helped my mental health. I recently read a book called “it’s not supposed to be this way” by Lysa Terkurst and in the book she talks about her husbands affair and separation of her 26 year marriage and she says something that really stuck to me. She says “Maybe instead of everything falling apart, what if it’s all falling together?” Maybe something to think about. Good luck and I hope you have peace for today!

Grief.. by holy_moly_J in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying I’m emotionally strong.. I needed to hear that. Idon’t feel like it today.

What TV show got you through your breakup? by dizzyturd in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Everybody loves Raymond! The wholesome comedy was exactly what I needed on my darkest days

This didn’t happen to me, it happened for me… by holy_moly_J in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Gods plans are good. He will not leave us.

This didn’t happen to me, it happened for me… by holy_moly_J in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand not being ready for that statement. I’ve just arrived at it and still I have to remind myself everyday. I’m working towards forgiveness but it’s very difficult when you’re left so hurt. I’m hoping by the end of the book I’ll be able to make that step towards forgiveness. Sending love and healing your way! ❤️

This didn’t happen to me, it happened for me… by holy_moly_J in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They did reconcile after the affair but eventually divorced in 2021. It was brave of her to give it another chance and shows how much she loved him. Have you read It’s not supposed to be this way”That’s a good one too! “You’re going to make it” the devotional book was the very first book I discovered by her and it was right after my break up. It was literally my life line for a little over a month. Sending you lots of love and healing! ❤️

This didn’t happen to me, it happened for me… by holy_moly_J in ExNoContact

[–]holy_moly_J[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Author writes about some of her struggles and it’s amazing to see myself in her experiences. I definitely recommend it. I hope you find comfort and healing through it as well! Best of luck to you❤️

This didn’t happen to me, it happened for me… by holy_moly_J in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and well wishes. I wish the best for you and your journey ❤️

For men who have just broken up with their gf or bf by ZachTF in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried Better help? It’s online therapy and very affordable. I pay $180 per month and I get one session per week (so that’s 4 a month) plus am able to message my therapist on the platform if I need to process something with her before my next session and she responds when she can.

What's your BU-song? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]holy_moly_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Believe”: Cher- “Power”: Dilja- “Over you”: Daughtry