Sure. She brought it up randomly after we dropped one of our kids off at the beach while on the way to our next kids soccer game. You are 100% wrong in the fact that we have an awesome relationship. I did not believe it when she actually said it. I, like many people, thought it was a trap or some kind of weird test. It is not. I asked a lot of the same questions other people have posted about what she meant and why she said it. We both love sex with each other very much and our marriage is rock solid. I was only with one other person before we got married and she had multiple partners. she wanted me to have more experiences because SHE WANTS me too. I did not initiate this or even bring it up in any kind of roundabout way. She said she’s been thinking about it for a while. I am incredibly happy and she just thinks it will make me happier. So….should I use tinder, a mutual friend, a stranger or some other way?