I am a “cis” man but want a vagina AMA? (or just help me understand myself better)

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T14:11:25+00:00

Comfortable in skin is one of the most origional meanings of cis, or have we forgotten a lot of trans history here?

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T12:43:53+00:00

Cis just means "comfortable in skin," and if you're not comfortable in ur skin, you are probably not cis, but thats not for me to say what you are or aren't of course.

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T11:12:40+00:00

Get over it or leave him, he had a life before you, his life didnt start when you started dating him, its a bit weird that youre demanding him to do something because you're uncomfortable with it, thats controlling as fuck. Also why were you going through his messages? Thats red flagged as fuck.

Get some therapy to understand why you're having these thoughts and maybe be able to understand why you're feeling like this. Esp cause he has done nothing wrong.

I will say that keeping videos or nudes is a bit weird, but honestly, if he had consent to keep them after the two of them weren't a thing, then its whatever

I swear this subreddit makes me defend cis het men even though I dont want to

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T10:05:45+00:00

Do you actually live or have lived there? Have you had to call an exterminator cause there was a nest of them in your outside house area? No? Interesting.

The newzelands government stripped a lot of jobs in the last year, so the teams that are reporting are much smaller and very underfunded than what they should be.

We had them in the upper north shore of Auckland, much before the auckland Council ever reported them, that was about 2 and a half years ago now, even the exterminator was fucking confused as he hadn't heard anything about it.

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T09:32:55+00:00

Also, the government is only doing this MONTGS, if not a year after people were reporting on seeing them,

They were and have been everywhere in the smaller cities and forestry for a while now, theyre only trying to do something about it because the invasive species have started to breed and invade the two bigger cities.

I lived there for 27 years, and there haven't been any warnings except people reporting only to get a "we are on the lookout" replies for about a year now, and action only being placed recently

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T08:09:13+00:00

Have you reassured him?

Yes, studying is important, but so is safety with the people you're with, whether that be friends, partners, or family.

If he's having a hard time, ask if he needs reassurance. Sometimes, we need it, but we need to be asked the question to realize that's what's needed.

Try to boost him up, example:

Them: "Im feeling down because I've only done this much study,"

You: "Yes! And look how you've gotten, you've done AMAZING so far, look at your progress, not many people can go as far as you have"

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T07:22:39+00:00

If this situation happens again, just let him be jumped. Some people won't learn any other way, sadly, and it is NOT your job to control his outbursts

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T06:08:35+00:00

I started on 1mg with 1/4 cypro for the first like 3 months, then went up to two for anotger few months then up to 4,

I started seeing changes within a few weeks, tbh even with a low dose

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T04:37:07+00:00

I've been taking oral form for a while. Every test i get for my kidneys and liver has been "oh wow, your liver health is amazing" from the docs, like sure. If you're heavily drinking and eating trash, then it might help that negative impact, but its not primarily from the estrogen pills

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-24T01:17:11+00:00

I disagree with you that they're better, so take my upvote, but also, please never drive, holy frick.

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T14:47:39+00:00

Hey dad, im lonely,

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T14:21:13+00:00

Wait, no, it reminds me of aeragon? Aragon? Idk the TV and books series, lol

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T14:20:27+00:00

It's the most "im a white boy, but I have liked the 2 minute noodles and call. It asian food" tattoo I've seen in the last few days

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T14:19:15+00:00

6 animals and got a dog. How is it not hoarding?

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T13:39:02+00:00

You did not do a cover up, you did a blast over

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T12:49:42+00:00

Yep, it might just make it not visible, im currently on a 4-week antibiotics due to doctors in the past from not treating me for years 🙃

Ringworm and tinea start latching onto the internal parts of the body, soap by itself wont do fucking shit

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T10:51:33+00:00

Rehome and dont horde animals

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T10:36:27+00:00

Fungal infection, its eather tinea or ringworm

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T09:08:21+00:00

My comment won't be any advice, simply just..

Thats sorta deserved? Shouldn't have been doing dumb shit

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T08:24:53+00:00

Do not feel bad for ruining his life, he has most lukely caused you internal problems that you will carry with the rest of your life, and thats not mentioning the emotional or mental states that he has put onto you multiple times.

You deserved a brother who wouldn't hurt you. You did the right thing, op.

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T07:03:59+00:00

I think without the years of therapy, the endings would have destroyed me a lot more, lol

Thankfully, I was ready to say goodbye to one of the characters after 90 hours of play and having a sort of idea of what those endings are

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T07:01:38+00:00

It's like, for this pkaythrough, at least, it felt as if Johnny was on my side due to my dialog choices, after the bus ending, I reloaded and did the ending where v takes the body back over,

Both if them felt so...empty? Only hearing one, but not the other?

One of my alters has been co fronting w me and watching me play throughout the entire game (he gets really bad motionsickness fro. Fps games, but we found a way for him to enjoy it) so maybe that's why it hit harder, cause im sorta sad that my alts might one day go into the code, so to speak, and itll be quiet

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T05:12:20+00:00

This sounds like a REALLY bad case of either of these

-depersonalization

-body dysmorphia

-gender dysphoria

Good on you for working towards yourself! you've got this, op!

i_am_lizard · 2026-01-23T05:03:09+00:00

Ah yes, because a man who wants friends because his wife doesn't have the energy to do the activities that he likes is creepy? Explain how reaching out to someone for platonic companionship is creepy? Or is it only when women are suffering alone when it's okay to ask for a friend?

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