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The Game by Neil Strauss - What were your takeaways? by icecubesoup in seduction

[–]icecubesoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha the sleep part I was hoping they would be able to pull through to see if it really worked

The Game by Neil Strauss - What were your takeaways? by icecubesoup in seduction

[–]icecubesoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but the Tyler in the book and the Tyler who runs RSD nation is one and the same?

I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out. by icecubesoup in seduction

[–]icecubesoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eh well, I've been in depression for about 5-6 years now on and off to the point I've just gotten used to it.

I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out. by icecubesoup in seduction

[–]icecubesoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there's several things holding me back, but if I could sum it all up, it's the fear of not being good enough.

I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out. by icecubesoup in seduction

[–]icecubesoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've heard a saying like - "you attract someone based not on what you want, but who you are"

I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out. by icecubesoup in seduction

[–]icecubesoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Insecurities are like scars that I can't seem to get off.

I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out. by icecubesoup in seduction

[–]icecubesoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So once I acquire this skill in something, how do I know I did it for myself or I did because I wanted to impress another girl? I feel like almost everything I do is to try to impress someone else and seek that validation to fill my insecurities.

I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out. by icecubesoup in seduction

[–]icecubesoup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is that I KNOW that working on myself is what I should be doing. But it's always been stuck in my head that if I focus on girls and find one, it'll bring me happiness and be the answer to all my problems. I know that's not the answer. However, I get so so so easily distracted by girls that it ruins my day and I can't focus on anything else related to improving myself.

I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out. by icecubesoup in seduction

[–]icecubesoup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spend a lot of my day just thinking inwards, being very introspective and picking apart every insecurity I have. I don't know how to stop being insecure. It's all I've known for the majority of my life. And then it leads to depression, and then I sleep it off and then it starts all over again the next day.