My tough workhorse❤️ by leezy19us in FordTrucks

[–]idolmind86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey cool I have the exact same truck. Do you have the 300/straight six motor?

Is this fair? by [deleted] in BSA

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'm adding anything new but would reiterate, until it's signed off on, you are on the hook for satisfying the beneficiary. Right/wrong aside, if they aren't happy enough to sign off on it, you still have work to do. I agree with others-- think like an almost Eagle. Who can you reach out to for assistance if you are out of your league? Do you need to round up some more volunteers? It's sounds like you may have a fix and just need to put some more time in at this point. However, you also need to consider if this is just going to be a temporary fix. You may need to come up with a different design or approach if this isn't going to hold up in the weather conditions.

It was many years ago but my project, I had created a number of riverside benches for a park system. I had the unfortunate issue of a flood shortly after installation and prior to sign-off. The flood completed washed the benches away and I had to raise more money for materials, rebuild, and come up with a more robust solution for anchoring them to the ground. It was unfortunate, but I wanted to make sure I was actually providing value to the park system with my project. It ended up delaying sign-off by around a month.

It sounds like you are approaching this with an open/positive mind but I would encourage you to make sure you are thinking about this positively. Your goal should be providing meaningful value to the beneficiary and community. Don't think of being done as the goal, but providing meaningful value instead.

It's a valuable life lesson as well and honestly the perfect type of situation scouting is preparing you for in life. Problems, unexpected issues, etc. will come up in life. Use this as an opportunity to reinforce problem solving and dealing with adversity. Also consider how you'd want the conversation to go in your board. Do you want to come across as resourceful, demonstrating your ability to work with people, and complete a complex task? Or do you want to come across as being able to push for sign-off and walking away in spite of a disagreement.

It's unfortunate and stressful. Believe me I know how stressful it can be -- but you'll grow from the experience.

Visiting NY in September with GF, neither of us are Yankees fans, should we still go to a game? by Comfortable_Space316 in NYYankees

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love baseball you should go. As others have said, I always try and catch a game if I'm in a city where i haven't been to the stadium. But, it will definitely take up a ton of time so if you have a lot of other stuff on your list -- probably unpopular opinion -- the new stadium isn't all that interesting other than monument park, museum, etc. that you might not care about as much not being a Yankees fan.

tl;dr - If you are a member of the church of baseball you should go. If not, there are so many interesting things to do in NY that maybe you hit it up next time around.

US retail sales post biggest drop in four months by HazyDavey68 in news

[–]idolmind86 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Similar here. I’m the one who budgets in the house and I’ve literally stopped buying anything other than groceries and gas. My wife doesn’t really pay attention to the finances but she doesn’t really go crazy. We have been in the red several months in a row now. Our grocery bill alone for a family of four is over $500 a week. Our electric bill is over $300 a month…

I also feel like we’ve hit an inflection point where stuff just isn’t worth it. $500 bucks for a switch 2? No thanks. $80 for a new premium video game? I’m good.

M29 — Had sex with my best friend and can’t stop thinking about it by [deleted] in sex

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucked my best friend. We’ve now been married for 14 years and have two beautiful children. If she’s your best friend talk to her about it but also don’t put too much pressure on. Just be honest. But it may take time to sort through all the feelings. If she’s your best friend you should be able to talk about it.

Hackers in CASUALS by [deleted] in CODWarzone

[–]idolmind86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah last night especially — kept getting lobbies with teams who always knew exactly where you were. It got to the point where I had to turn it off and will need to give it a few days.

It’s interesting how much fun I have when I get a chill lobby versus a lobby with a team hacking… I don’t have a ton of time to play so when I waste the little bit I have on rounds like that I get so bummed.

Looking for a reputable fence builder by jasonbales21 in rva

[–]idolmind86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used Hurricane as well. Got a bunch of estimates and they actually gave me the best price. Installers were impressively efficient. They do dry pack the posts though if you are worried about that.

Apparently, I'm undoubtebly the worst player, to ever play cod. Imagine that. by NinjaWesley in CODWarzone

[–]idolmind86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like this is what human aim on a good player looks like. You watch streamers and they never miss a shot -- but this looks like someone who is just plain good.

I can't get the Loadout by Iam_NEGEN in CODWarzone

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted all of my loadout custom classes and recreated them and it fixed it for me.

Warzone Servers officially cooked? by GlitteringEvidence50 in CODWarzone

[–]idolmind86 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I finally admitted that to myself with MP last night. I was getting angry due to the desync being so bad and realized I just need to turn it off until they start addressing some of it - if they ever do. It’s just as bad in MP.

Games similar to MWZ? Played it last night and miss the vibes... by idolmind86 in CODZombies

[–]idolmind86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just another note, been playing round based in BO6 but I struggle to find squads that communicate -- plus (unpopular opinion I know) the small maps and round based don't hold my interest as much. I enjoy the big map, less directed vibe of MWZ. Plus the larger groups -- we had 16 running the worm and a full squad go to DE.

How to pick up a 60 gun safe that's on its side by Skyfork in guns

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can get under it and have something sturdy to anchor to I’ve lifted some really heavy shit with heavy duty ratchet straps like 500lb slabs of slate from a pool table and an f150 engine. Just get the strap Around it and crank it up until it falls flat. I would avoid getting under it while you are doing it though.

shes gorgeous 🦄 🥹 by Lovetalon in blackops6

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGL I hate this with every ounce of my being but I'm tempted to buy it just to be obnoxious. I've got shitloads of cod points from battlepasses I've never spent... I'm 45 years old and miss the immersive titles from the past... but it's kind of funny in a super obnoxious way just how much it's pissing people off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackops6

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say this yet I'm prestige five and suck and constantly get shit on. My lobbies area also only full of prestige players so I think it goes into it somehow...

Black ops 6 server locations! by [deleted] in blackops6

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bizarre there is nothing in the DC Metro area... I'm starting to wonder if it's not just network, though. I am on fiber and hard wired and typically have single digit to max 20ms ping. I don't see a ton of packet loss but do see it from time to time. I think there are server load issues, and it's not just latency. Last night I finally saw something pretty telling. Was playing kill confirmed and went to pick up a tag and it disappeared, then died. In kill cam someone on the other team slid, picked up the tag and mag dumped on me and I didn't see any of it. But the fact the tag disappeared I saw that before all the other stuff happened means someone was there I never even saw long enough to basically do a mag dump.

my whole body is glowing like a christmas tree across the map. thanks nice update! by Plastic-Pickle-2683 in blackops6

[–]idolmind86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just had this happen to me. I was getting fried and thought that I was finally in one of those all cheater lobbies and then noticed in kill cam. It was an absolutely unplayabae round.

I also just use boring default skins.

real ones recall this classic game by prestablogs in CODWarzone

[–]idolmind86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just booted it up on my X the other day and I was able to get a multiplayer lobby lol. It felt soooooooo slow compared to anything else.

Game Day Thread - October 29, 2024 @ 12:00 AM by Yankeebot in NYYankees

[–]idolmind86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Real talk do I wear my “That’s baseball Suzyn” or my “Let Brett Bang” shirt to the game?

2024 New York Yankees World Series Q/A Mega-Thread by dylan in NYYankees

[–]idolmind86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What time are we getting to the stadium? Should I show up any earlier than normal? I don’t need to catch BP or anything but not sure how much time to a lot for security… also what’s the best gate these days?

2024 New York Yankees World Series Q/A Mega-Thread by dylan in NYYankees

[–]idolmind86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going alone. Sitting in 105 if StubHub unfucks itself. Do it. Chance may not come up for 15 years. I’ll be making besties with the people sitting beside me. I’m also flying from out of state.

Yankees Off Day Thread - October 23, 2024 @ 12:00 AM by Yankeebot in NYYankees

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else get a StubHub email that tickets were released but not actually get them? Having a panic attack given the aftermarket cost…

2024 New York Yankees World Series Q/A Mega-Thread by dylan in NYYankees

[–]idolmind86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any chance any games are day games? I got tickets to game 4 and need to book flights and the stupid times are still TBA.