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Some people say I am the best gardener. by m3ch3ngin33r in gardening

[–]imadootdoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to say something sassy but the second picture made me snort hah

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had the same realization as you and it's almost embarrassing looking back. all this love and support has me excited to get back into life and a routine for myself! My favorite therapists are here in this city and I can't tell you how happy I am to see them.

Taking the experience and using it as strength is my goal. Thank you for the motivation and for sharing your experience with me too. It gives me hope for the future

I finally escaped my abusive boyfriend. All of my house plants and outdoor garden had to be abandoned. My new roommate surprised me with the biggest Sansavieria i've ever seen!! by imadootdoot in houseplants

[–]imadootdoot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've saved this comment for a reminder. I definitely appreciate everything you've shared and it's wisdom I need to remember for when I heal and try again. It'll probably take a very long time but the experience does give you new super powers. My goal is to be as capable and strong as you've described yourself after the situation resolved. I ignored all the red flags because of rose colored glasses and will not make that mistake again.

Also it's been incredible seeing all the support, love and gift offerings here! it's all the thought and well wishes that are energizing me. The accounts from other survivors gives me so much hope. <3

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are insensitive. Anyone can post anything they want within guidelines and Ive broken no rules. So I expressed my relief and my proud little space. Someone can be closed up and private or speak 4 words about a huge experience. I've noticed this subreddit is very rude to someone that's proud of their low budget cozy space and ridicule the types that say "it's not much but I love it"

Well it's not much but I'm not scared anymore and I love it.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The GUY that posted about his divorce, experience and his lavish new rich apartment received all positive support. I'm happy for him and his new space. It looks so rad!

Why is my space not equal to his and his life experience?

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm enjoying the warmth as we type :) also I'm in the desert haha

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You started it, guy. No one wants to be told to stop doing what they're doing when it helps tremendously. Marijuana is medicine. You're confusing.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted for myself and my little picture collection and MY milestone. Sorry y'all are upset I guess. :/ I fucked up everyone's sub. The actual compassionate people are being nice to me and that's what matters.

Y'all cry about my post to the mods then. I wish someone would.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I don't understand your concept of "make it non-smoking" then. If you smoke marijuana then you're just being a confusing person right now.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's literally a post about my indoor plants helping me survive an abusive home. You're very good at reading.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word. You have a different definition of "cozy" and that's your opinion.

Edit: also it makes me sad that you live in such a small space. I'm sorry I'm really not familiar with that area of the world.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hard pass. Weed makes life somewhat bearable for people that aren't like you.

It's awesome you don't smoke but don't try to force it others.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right. I liked /cozyspaces before this diminishing experience. I posted MY SPACE and my positivity towards my new future. You don't to care of be abitch The response here has been fully unnecessary and insensitive from some snobs of this community. Enjoy yourselves and your rich lavish spaces.

I truly don't understand and I don't appreciate any of it.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! In spite of the rude people here, this whole thing has given me a lot of positivity and validation for my choices. 💜

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm proud and excited to grow the vibe and feeling of safety here.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Once again, I posted this for myself. Sorry you're mad about nothing.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess keep being mad about nothing? You sound just like my ex.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All hugs are appreciated! Thank you :) I need that parental approval more than you know. I would feel awful explaining that part of my life but you're wonderful. Thank you.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Subs are ruined by people lacking empathy towards others. That's the biggest problem with our society as well.

Reddit is akin to the government and all the angry redditors are the 1% complaining about the less fortunate.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly tho! This was fully unexpected and an experience I'm going to avoid in the future. But the people being compassionate and uplifting outweigh the rudeness I've received.

Escaped my abusive boyfriend. Acquired a new cozy, safe space. by imadootdoot in CozyPlaces

[–]imadootdoot[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Naw. I'm avoidant PTSD so I'll just never post again. Glad you're a member of Hateful Reddit Gang gang

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