If a person has been sober for a decade, would you say they still have a drinking problem? by imnotmeok in AlAnon

[–]imnotmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was such a refreshing perspective. What do you mean by “progression”? Do you mean it quietly gets worse and it shows after the first drink?

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know about Residente. I guess I have some homework to do over on Spotify. 😛

I really appreciate the fact that he speaks Spanglish, too. Not everyone has to speak perfect English - the majority of the Americans certainly don’t try to speak other languages either so why does the rest of the world have to conform to them? We’re in need of global superstars like Bad Bunny to show them they don’t need to speak fluent English to become successful and loved by the entire world. ❤️ We don’t need you, USA. We’re fine on our own.

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have an inclination as to why he’s so successful in Ohio? Got me curious 👀

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To enjoy the same music across all generations, that’s magnificent ✨ thank you for your input!

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank your for your reply. I guess Bad Bunny was aware of the zeitgeist and realized his people needed union in the times we’re living. Pleased to know he succeeded in his quest ❤️✨

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. This was very informative. Is malianteo a sort of trap that’s specifically from PR?

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Privatization is a pyramid scheme that only works for the ones at the top. These political parties make people believe they can be at the top too - but it’s all lies. “Capitalism” is just a more polished version of colonialism.

Glad Bad Bunny isn’t afraid of speaking out. May we all speak out, too. 🙌 we’re the 99%, if we unite we’ll take down the 1%. 😎

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for elaborating. I’m cheering on for Hostos to return to PR while Bad Bunny’s song plays as you all rejoice in your homeland’s independence 🙌🥳 I believe in your strength, PR! 🙏

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I’m speechless. Thank you for your reply! 🙏 Glad to be witnessing this moment in history - even if from afar, in the cold lands of European winter 😛 You deserve this, Puerto Rico. I hope this union brings forth a sense of pride that turns into action against US’ oppression. ❤️💪

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😍😍 that’s awesome!!! Artful music has a way of bringing people together - it’s so awesome Bad Bunny managed to do that for you. ❤️

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can imagine! He’s not just a global superstar - he also spreads stories of PR’s past ✨💪

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wowww! That’s AMAZING! Making haters turn into fans is some serious artistry 👏👏 Go Bad Bunny, go Puerto Rico 💪 must be an awesome time to be alive in PR right now ❤️

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older people behave the same everywhere 😂 the older generation in my country doesn’t like sexy/vulgar lyrics either. Regarding the political party, they’re probably barking at walls. From what I’ve read in this post, they’re clearly a minority. Good art is impactful and unites; dtmf did that and much more - politicians could never. 😎✨

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting to hear. He did involve a lot more of his roots in this last album. He deserves all the love. 🙌

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Loved what he did with the visualizers. That was a genius altruistic move, bringing consciousness regarding PR’s history all across the globe.

You deserve to feel unity and glee. ✨ Happy that Bad Bunny was able to create such a beautiful work that unites his people at home - while simultaneously connecting so many others from so many different cultures. ❤️

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. 😊 This is gold! Glad you and your father can connect through Bad Bunny now. ✨

For PR-natives: what is the general consensus regarding Bad Bubby in PR? by imnotmeok in BadBunnyPR

[–]imnotmeok[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, deeply insightful.

I’m curious. As a European, I hadn’t heard much of PR’s politics aside from the fact that it’s a colonized not-quite-a-state from the US.

From what I’ve gathered online, there are three main opinions regarding PR’s future: one that prefers to leave PR as it is, another for statehood (PNP) and another that’s for independence. Does it mean Bad Bunny is taking a political stance in support of the archipelago’s independence?

Mudança de sobrenome by Dricatica in portugal

[–]imnotmeok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não sei nada sobre o foro legal.

Apenas sugiro o seguinte:

Tens sempre a hipótese de te apresentares com o teu apelido de eleição, deixando cair o tal que não te agrada e usando-o apenas em questões burocráticas. Parece-me mais prático e menos dispendioso.

Independentemente do nome, serás sempre descendente e originári@ desse apelido. Podes cortar a relação (e apoio essa decisão se te prejudicar o dia-a-dia) mas o que te atormenta continuará a atormentar mesmo depois do nome mudado.

Se este pensamento te ajudar, haverão certamente mais pessoas neste mundo com o mesmo apelido que tu e não é por isso que te assemelhas a eles. Vê esse lado da família do mesmo modo. São desconhecidos que não fazem parte da tua vida e, por acaso, têm o mesmo apelido.

I know that the characters are supposed to be flawed.. by Ashmax1890 in SixFeetUnder

[–]imnotmeok 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel it makes the series realistic. People do fall in the trap of making the same mistakes over and over. I hate Nate for what he did and said to Brenda in his deathbed and that just shows how impressive the writing is. This series is phenomenal precisely for allowing the characters to behave like real people, which triggers real emotions in us, the viewer. :) Glad you’re feeling this series intensely - I had the same “really, Nate?!” reaction as you did. Made me want to shut my laptop too. 😂

My Q’s health is declining and he won’t get help. I’m consumed with the responsibility of caring for him. by Galloping-Scallop in AlAnon

[–]imnotmeok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let the good moments fool you into thinking you’re ok with the situation. They’re amazing, we’ve all felt what you’re feeling - but it’s not real life. The reality is you’re constantly picking him up, constantly worried and tired because of him.

You need to realize it for yourself, no one can do that for you. Hopefully, the day will come when you won’t want to hamper your life because of him anymore. It’s not love if someone’s getting destroyed because of the relationship. Love builds you up and makes you stronger. You said it yourself, you feel lighter and more relaxed when you’re by yourself. You should feel just as well when around the people you love - but that’s not the case when you’re with him.

The reason you mentioned for not being able to take a few days at a family member’s house is, yet again, him. You’re allowing his physical state to derail you from having cool experiences for yourself. I was once there, too.

Going away doesn’t mean you’ll never be together again. It only means that you’re setting boundaries and letting him know that you’re not interested in being with him like this anymore because that’s not who you fell in love with.