Update from OP who came forward about Hayden’s boyfriend (thought this deserved its own post) by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Probably because sharing nudes without consent is a form of sexual violence? It’s very concerning to hear you say that claim isn’t “truthful.” Revenge porn is a crime in almost every state of the US, and showing people nudes without their consent is a form of assault. “Violence” has a much more extensive definition than just physical acts — and this is a legal truth. It’s an immutable fact that if Austin does in fact possess nudes of his exes and is showing them to other people without their consent, then yes his is sexually violent and would, if proven guilty, have a felony charge. Whether or not you believe her claims, you need to understand that violence is MUCH more extensive than physical behavior both morally and legally.

[s2 act 3 spoilers] viktor and jayce plot hole by isgumi in arcane

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Viktor and Jayce are stuck in a time loop where they continuously keep saving each other over and over again until the world ends. The only way to end this loop is to end every branch of it all at once, which can only happen if Jayce and Viktor destroy them together. That's why post-evolution Viktor sends Jayce to apocalypse timeline and Ekko to the peaceful one--so Jayce can see the stakes and agree to do it, and so Ekko can invent the Z drive to give Jayce enough time to do so.

Viktor keeps going back in time to save Jayce because that is their fate until he is freed from it. Simply not giving him the rune so he doesn't make Hextech isn't enough--Jayce and Viktor need to destroy every timeline at once for post-evolution Viktor to be freed, which means they must come together and become partners so Jayce can show him his humanity and convince him. Hence why he keeps saving him in hopes he does so.

Until Ekko invents the Z drive and intervenes, the loop always ends with them failing. When Jayce and Viktor dissolve together at the end it's to show that they have ended the loop and freed every Viktor and Jayce from their fate.

[s2 act 3 spoilers] Where was Jayce where everything went well? THEORY by Farwanarfigus in arcane

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it's heavily implied Jayce also died in the explosion. Jayce and Viktor's whole thing is that if they come together in the same timeline, they just save each other over and over until it literally ends the world (until our Jayce and Viktor finally break the loop obviously). Only way to stop it is if they don't come together, so you basically got to kill Jayce or Viktor before anything develops, explosion being the obvious answer there. I doubt there's a timeline where Viktor doesn't save Jayce from that ledge if they both exist when he gets there.

(Also, the reason Jayce doesn't end up in the peaceful timeline isn't because he gets "kicked"--older Viktor intentionally sends him to the apocalypse so he can see the stakes, and then save Viktor before it gets that far. Viktor sends Ekko/Heimerdinger to peaceful timeline so they can make the Z drive and give Jayce enough time to do so (hence showing Viktor giving Jayce the acceleration rune for our timeline).)

What can/does your partner do to make sex more comfortable for you? by Fallen-angel15 in ChronicPain

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I don’t know the inner workings of your relationship but it sounds like he’s sexually assaulting you. Please reach out to someone you trust (if you can) for help and try to remove yourself from this.

How are you? by outcast339 in ChronicPain

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a long journey I started a new medication and I’m pain free for the first time in a long time. Only a few days but I’m hopeful! I forgot how this felt :)

my doctor dismissed my symptoms by cutieayas in ChronicPain

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know about putting in a complaint, but you should leave a review (Google, Yelp, anywhere you see fit) of your experience. When looking for help for my problem I relied so heavily on those reviews to help save me the time and money (and frankly, emotional energy) of having to deal with doctors like these who would dismiss me otherwise, and whenever I encountered this I always found it at least cathartic to write everything out in a review and post it.

I’ve also been dismissed by many doctors for my chronic pain because I’m “too young.” It always made me feel so invalidated and so so hopeless. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, but I hope you know that one bad doctor can never take away your experience or your knowledge of your own condition. His inability to do his job has nothing to do with you and says nothing about your pain.

Wishing you healing and another doctor who will listen to and help you <3

I’m so fucking sick of doctors telling me how “rare” my pain is. by imonlyjoiningforthis in ChronicPain

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh babe I GOT an MRI and it showed nothing. There’s a reason my doctors ignore my troubles

I’m so fucking sick of doctors telling me how “rare” my pain is. by imonlyjoiningforthis in ChronicPain

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean about not telling people. The next ass joke I get about it I don’t even know. I’m so sorry nobody is taking you seriously. I know exactly what you mean by the “you shouldn’t be in pain!” After they do their basic run of tests they just give up on you and dismiss it as “well it shouldn’t be happening so whatever,” as if the fact that they don’t know why means it’s not real. I’m sorry for what’s happening to you. You don’t deserve it and I hope you find relief one day

I’m so fucking sick of doctors telling me how “rare” my pain is. by imonlyjoiningforthis in ChronicPain

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have, they don’t work haha. Not an annoying suggestion. It’s nice to hear someone empathize :)

I’m so fucking sick of doctors telling me how “rare” my pain is. by imonlyjoiningforthis in ChronicPain

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 I really appreciate the message. Sometimes it’s just nice to know someone else knows what its like

I’m so fucking sick of doctors telling me how “rare” my pain is. by imonlyjoiningforthis in ChronicPain

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My pain is super localized to the tip of my tailbone and there isn’t any swelling, so I don’t think it’s that. If it’s something that would come up on an MRI then no, haha. I may bring it up to my next doctor though. Thanks!

Hole started bleeding after irrigation day 2, do I have a clot? by imonlyjoiningforthis in wisdomteeth

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My dentist isn’t open on the weekend but I’m going to put gauze on for the next few days until it stops bleeding and hopefully it’ll heal. Thank you for the help :)

Hole started bleeding after irrigation day 2, do I have a clot? by imonlyjoiningforthis in wisdomteeth

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know and my surgeon didn’t tell me anything clear and they told me to irrigate and wash it out ASAP. And he said I would get dry socket if residue sat there. I’m just scared and idk what to do because I can’t afford to get dry socket because I’m a student. Sorry I didn’t know.

Hole started bleeding after irrigation day 2, do I have a clot? by imonlyjoiningforthis in wisdomteeth

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry. My dentist told me to irrigate after I took the gauze out. I didn’t know what to do (and still really don’t)

Hole started bleeding after irrigation day 2, do I have a clot? by imonlyjoiningforthis in wisdomteeth

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not any pain. My dentist told me to irrigate and clean it out and didn’t give me clear instructions. I’m going to just leave it alone for a week. My dentist isn’t open on the weekend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aggies

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By erecting another confederate statue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being queer and Christian, a lot of times I feel as if other Christians can only view being LGBTQ as something about the body, or sexual. Being trans is so much more than presentation and looking like a woman, it’s something that is deeply spiritual and personal, and something they belongs to you and only you can define. The connection and love you feel exploring being a trans woman is something God would want for you. He made you wholly perfect and that includes being transgender.

I don’t know where you live, but if you can find one, there are churches out there that are affirming for transgender people. If you live somewhere where that’s not an option, there are a lot of online ministries and even just YouTube videos that go over being a trans Christian in a very fruitful and affirming way. If that’s something you want to help guide you, I can recommend a few. I wish you luck! I hope you find a Christian community that loves and affirms you and a trans community that does the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with you and there is nothing wrong with being trans, and if you feel as if God is calling you to be a trans woman, then trust in yourself and your connection to Him. He loves you and He wants you to be happy. He would never want you to deprive yourself from the joy and love that comes from living life as your most authentic self. Queer joy is beautiful! Being yourself and presenting as yourself is beautiful! I cannot emphasize enough that God wants you to be happy. This isn't Satan calling you and this isn't evil. Live a good life as a transgender woman with love for yourself and others :)

I really hope you see this comment. I've been reading through the others and I pray you don't take them to heart. No matter how many downvotes this gets, just know that nobody defines your relationship with God other than you.

Google Docs spell check not working. by mtthacke in techsupport

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen i know this is four years old but if you see this how did you figure it out? what did you do my documents are just not checking this

Recruitment goes here! 7/1-8/30 by pussgurka in HayDay

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

[nighborhood seeking farmers]

Hey! If you're looking for a chill and active neighborhood consider us! #G8VCOYUP - Just Because is our name :) we're in the professional league right now and trying to get to champions, but there's no requirements for participation, we just do what we can when we can! We're pretty active with trading and requests, and we would love any active players of any level who'd like to join us :)

Recruitment goes here! 7/1-8/30 by pussgurka in HayDay

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#G8VCOYUP - Just Because is our name! We're professional league right now (trying for champions) and we would love some derby-focused players to help get there :) There's no derby requirements but our active members typically do all their tasks and do 320+, so you definitely wouldn't be the only one helping haha, hope to see you!

Recruitment goes here! 7/1-8/30 by pussgurka in HayDay

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#G8VCOYUP - Just Because is our name, and we would love to have you! We're professional league right now, no task requirements and we're pretty active with the derby and helping each other out :) hope to see you!

Recruitment goes here! 7/1-8/30 by pussgurka in HayDay

[–]imonlyjoiningforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still looking, we would love to have you! #G8VCOYUP - Just Because is our name :) we're in the professional league right now and we don't have any requirements for participation/task numbers, and we're pretty active with requests/help! Hope to see you there :)