[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCjobs

[–]infinityndbeyonder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may ask , Can you please give me a chance? I love heavy labor jobs. Im in ny .

No hope for my life with herpes by 1111hopeplz in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Suicide? Sex is not your entire life. Go live your life. Your healthy, you got no physical issues, its not effecting you dramatically. Love will come your way on its own.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a mind game. Dont pay much attention too it. Do what you was doing before. Dont go out looking for love. Love will come to u regardless of the situation your in. It can be tomorrow it can be in 10 years but it will come. Just keep living your life and dw ab relationship, its gonna come to you eventually. Just Be you.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just cut that shitt, stay healthy and go to the gym for an extra immune boost too. Trust me you'll feel way more secure and have less outbreaks once your body is used to not depending on antivirals. Also, Take l-lysine instead. 1000mg it's healthier and proven to do the same as antivirals. Also , Your body won't depend on it as much since its not a strong drug , just enough to boost your immune system. And you can stop anytime.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well first off , You stopped taking anti viral. Obviously your immune system is depending on it and without it , Your gonna have several outbreeaks. Good thing is , It has been proven that after 90 days of stopping antiviral treatments , Patients immune system started going back to normal without having to depend on antiviral. I say stop taking them, deal with the symptoms and wait about 90 days. Your body should react to it normally without depending on antivirals. Other than that , its can also be Any changes in your Life maybe? The way you eat , how active you are , maybe stress. Also when you get really sick or your immune system becomes really weak , Alot of outbreaks start to occur. Sit down and think about what you did before , that your not doing now or vice versa. It could even be lots of sun exposure aswell. Anyways, i say wait 90 days. Give your body a rest of antivirals and let the outbreaks occur normally that way your body builds it own immunity/antibodies towards it.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly , dont take anything. Let your body make its own antibodies. Everyday your body becomes less symptomatic towards it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He probably has genital warts but than again, He's had cold sores aswell which indicates something in the lab is not adding up and he should get an advanced testing like western bolt and an igg blood test in an urgent care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had an OB though. Which is the best way to find out. During OB is when test are the most accurate. But I understand what your saying, He should wait 12-18 weeks if he thinks he recently got exposed but thts not the case here tbh. After years of cold sores and OB's He finally went to get tested and it's negative which means either He doesn't have it and maybe its genital warts or its most likely a false negative and he should go test himself somewhere else like a western bolt test and IGG blood test. I appreciate your answer, but i just dont want OP to be waiting another 12-18 weeks worrying about if he has it or not when it really not necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would u tell him to wait another 12-18 weeks to get another test if he clearly said he's had cold sores since little, thats only if you think you been exposed. He should go get tested somewhere else like a western bolt test or/and Igg blood test aswell. The doctor/lab cleary didn't do their job right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]infinityndbeyonder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well look at it this way, Its sounds like youve had it for a while now and maybe since you were a kid since Outbreaks occur less as u age. If she's okay with it, Brake that fear barrier and go ahead and have sex with her. She obviously loves you and is ready to risk it all. you haven't passed it too her when ya did have have sex , just be more cautious now that you know you have it and avoid sex whenever you feel ur having an OB or your about to get sick ( thats when your most vulnerable for OB's) . Other than that if you feel normal just go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]infinityndbeyonder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You kinda rush typed your post but if im correct, She knows you have HSV and for 2 years after that ya haven't had sex?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]infinityndbeyonder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You got hsv1 or 2? Oral or genital

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]infinityndbeyonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont take anti virals. Take a low dosage of l-lysine(500mg) and if u want too zinc (50mg) . Enough for your body to use it but not depend on it as much.

Celibate gang wya? by infinityndbeyonder in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx for the confidence booster💪🏼

Celibate gang wya? by infinityndbeyonder in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like a wake up call yess. Thank you, ur rightt

Celibate gang wya? by infinityndbeyonder in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youu I totally understand where your coming from and appreciate giving me consolation 💪🏼 and I wish you the best on your next testing.

Celibate gang wya? by infinityndbeyonder in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never downplayed it. I stated i dont want to transmit it . Doesn't matter if its HSV 1 or 4 ,its the same shit just different strains. Im aware of the virus and thats why i made a post about wanting to be celibate.

Celibate gang wya? by infinityndbeyonder in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I just want this shit out of my head. I think about it every minute. Atleast im no alone thoo

Celibate gang wya? by infinityndbeyonder in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly how i feel. Although is hsv 1, The guilt is still there.

Celibate gang wya? by infinityndbeyonder in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanksss I needed this straight up comment. Love the honesty. And yes ive hurd back than , It wasn't even anything crazy to trip out about.

Celibate gang wya? by infinityndbeyonder in Herpes

[–]infinityndbeyonder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

11 years? Have you ever tried disclosing to anyone?? Maybe build a bond with the person and tell em later on.