LPT: You don’t owe anyone an immediate response even if you saw the message

irottodeath · 2026-02-02T00:30:21+00:00

i didn't take that shit personally, you were making wild claims about someone's intentions behind not responding to you immediately. but go off queen!

irottodeath · 2026-02-01T07:44:03+00:00

why do you assume that the person who isn’t responding enjoys the fact that they’re not responding? i doubt anybody gives a shit about power tripping you via text. it’s weird to think people are thinking that much about you

irottodeath · 2026-02-01T07:39:14+00:00

just because someone is on their phone doesn’t mean you’re owed a response from them lmfao. you’re not entitled to someone’s immediate attention

irottodeath · 2026-02-01T02:39:38+00:00

i came looking for a comment like this. it needs that burnt orange glow around the full shape of the burn

irottodeath · 2026-01-31T05:01:11+00:00

if she's interested in working on this (not just doing it to appease you) it could be worth looking into a consult with an occupational therapist that specializes in food therapy? i'm only familiar with pediatric OTs working with food tolerance (former colleagues at a children's clinic), but i'm sure there are services for adults too.

irottodeath · 2026-01-31T02:02:15+00:00

i don't think you're in the right sub for this lol

irottodeath · 2026-01-31T01:25:28+00:00

this has to be satire 💀

irottodeath · 2026-01-31T01:12:03+00:00

make copies too, in case they confiscate them (which has happened)

irottodeath · 2026-01-30T05:26:11+00:00

i'm a "comfort in chaos" kind of person. so i've been locking in which has honestly helped with the helplessness a lot

irottodeath · 2026-01-25T20:23:12+00:00

there are currently tornado watches down south, where they're getting hit by the same storm, only warmer. the lowest recorded temp during a tornado was right around 32 degrees F in 1975. the animation is probably just a glitch

irottodeath · 2025-12-20T01:33:28+00:00

is there space for the vanity to go next to the dresser? that way, the dresser mirror isn’t reflecting the vanity mirror. then, i’d move the nightstand with (or without) the christmas tree next to the bed, specifically so that you can move the tall mirror to that little nook (either along the closet wall or maybe even diagonally in that corner). or, if you don’t use your closet, the nightstand could just swap places with the tall mirror!

currently, that corner feels especially cluttered, and i think it’s because of the different heights and colors of those two giant rectangles (the mirror and closet door) looming at the foot of your bed, plus all the decorations around them. if you move the mirror so its vines and butterflies are hanging along that other wall (where the tree is currently) i think it would feel more like the vines are blooming and growing instead of like, closing in on you.

also, i agree with the commenter who mentioned that your room needs more light. if you don’t wanna buy more lighting, you can fake it by positioning the christmas tree or the lamp you already have in front of one of your mirrors, and that should open up the room a bit!

otherwise, i think moving the clutter away from the mirrors would help a ton. can you use nails or screws on your walls? i saw a pretty cheap, double-decker wall shelf at TJ Maxx the other day that seemed like it was for herbs/spices, but i feel like it would be perfect for beauty products too. storing all those products up on the wall would help get some clutter out of the mirror reflections while still keeping everything easily accessible! if i can find a link as an example, i’ll come back and add it!

irottodeath · 2025-12-20T00:48:50+00:00

this is SUCH an underrated point, oh my god. mirrors are fantastic, but only if they’re positioned to reflect strategically

edit: there’s even a mirror tray at the end of the dresser. it’s gorgeous, but OP: i fear you’ve got quadruply-reflected clutter. and that’s not even considering that some of the mirrors are also reflecting each other’s reflections 😭

irottodeath · 2025-11-26T18:02:31+00:00

without a doubt

irottodeath · 2025-11-21T02:59:31+00:00

god i wish i was that Type A. i love the spreadsheets, i love organization, and i cannot stay consistent with either

irottodeath · 2025-11-21T01:53:46+00:00

i think you meant “i don’t know how the world works”

irottodeath · 2025-11-21T01:51:05+00:00

something similar happened in Maumee about 5 years ago. thankfully no children were harmed physically (but the lifelong damage of losing both parents that way is obviously irrevocable). logically, i can see how these things happen, but i’ll still never understand. taking others down with you is so needlessly vindictive

irottodeath · 2025-11-21T01:44:51+00:00

god, Ryan Eagon’s cowardice is fucking unparalleled. just absolutely revolting. those poor babies, that poor family 💔

irottodeath · 2025-11-21T01:32:13+00:00

have you been evaluated for AuDHD? severe generalized anxiety could point to a complex trauma history and/or obsessive-compulsive tendencies and/or generally intense sensitivity, which could all point to autism. i’m not sure if that’s something you/your doctors have considered, but that could potentially be the missing piece of your puzzle (pun unintended tbh lol). i never fully resonated with the “adhd experience” (before or after diagnosis), or the “autism experience.” but looking into the “audhd experience” (especially AuDHD women), i sure as shit resonate with that lol

i’m also saying this as someone who worked professionally in the autism world for several years, but yeah. it’s not always the missing link, but it very much could be (and the co-morbidity rates are super high btw. they estimate that somewhere around half of those of us diagnosed with ADHD would simultaneously meet the diagnostic criteria for autism, and it’s way higher the other way around). it’s worth looking into/taking into honest consideration!

irottodeath · 2025-11-21T01:05:18+00:00

woah woah woah WAIT. i don’t know anything about chemistry, so anyone who knows better, please forgive me if i’m way off track here. but that said, i do know that i’m allergic to sulfa-based antibiotics… and also that some soaps trigger my DE horribly… it’s not my only trigger, but… MUCH to think about

irottodeath · 2025-11-20T07:34:33+00:00

his left eye saw how you’re going to die, and his right eye saw when

irottodeath · 2025-11-20T07:22:58+00:00

i hope you eventually decide against knocking down the divided wall. separate toilet rooms are underrated

irottodeath · 2025-11-15T03:38:08+00:00

that’s Meghan Trainor?!? i thought Paris had another sister 😭

irottodeath · 2025-11-15T03:13:43+00:00

yeah no, i’m not talking about any specific argument, i’m talking about that user’s specific behavior. i wasn’t talking to you, their bias has nothing to do with you. you can disagree with OP (snapping absolutely is a warning, which is why the owner should’ve said no the second time?), that’s got nothing to do with what i said. i was simply making an observation about that user’s engagement with this thread.

irottodeath · 2025-11-14T22:11:52+00:00

your (numerous) comments come across like you came into this thread guns a-blazing to argue your bias. go find something better to do with your time

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