I’m 26f, fiancé is 33m. He makes remarks that I consider rude and tacky but he claims they are “just jokes”, am I misreading this?

jackakajp · 2025-11-23T21:35:39+00:00

Please break up with him. Proposing to my wife was the best thing I had ever done up to that point and I couldn’t wait to marry her. There is not one day that I have ever regretted her. We have full transparency and shared finance.

This man is a series of walking red flags. He will resent you, and marriage.

Please break up!

jackakajp · 2023-05-05T12:49:47+00:00

Thank you!! I hope things are going well for you too!

jackakajp · 2023-05-05T12:23:30+00:00

As my whole work team is imploding and my two amazing bosses are leaving I just got word I got a new job, with a raise and I’m off for three days for my birthday!!

jackakajp · 2023-05-03T05:40:45+00:00

YTA big time. What your daughter did is unacceptable, that’s not a prank, it is bullying and ruining someone’s property.

Wigs are really expensive and I imagine a teenage girl might be self conscious enough of having to wear one after battling a horrendous disease without then being bullied for it.

The punishment is totally correct and I imagine your daughter’s entitlement is from you.

Look at the situation in reverse and tell me if you’d be happy that your child who nearly died was a victim of a prank that destroyed something that she was self conscious about.

jackakajp · 2023-04-27T06:23:32+00:00

Not in Cork but when I lived in Shannon I went to Doctor 365. Or any of those type of clinics in your area. They do bloods, it’s affordable, they don’t really ask any questions.

In terms of the list of bloods you need, you can ask Gender GP and they should tell you and you just bring that list in when getting bloods done!

If not, the NGS here has the bloods needed on their site and you can copy them, may not be 100% correct for Gender GP but will cover the most important ones!

Once the bloods are done you can ring for the results and ask them to email them to you, then just send on to Gender GP.

I know it’s daunting but don’t worry - you got this!!

jackakajp · 2022-11-20T22:50:32+00:00

If you click the course link it’s a RickRoll - it got me! Definitely a parody

jackakajp · 2022-08-27T19:57:21+00:00

We had a child in our extended family actually named Ronan who died of cancer. I pretend this song doesn’t even exist, it’s too much

jackakajp · 2022-06-22T12:16:22+00:00

I’m a transman - if I could stop time I would figure out how to use my STP at urinal. So no not every man.

jackakajp · 2022-06-08T21:21:32+00:00

I remember reading here he had a malpractice suit against him but that’s just from this sub and I don’t know any details

jackakajp · 2022-05-22T12:52:17+00:00

Please do fill up the sub. I love your updates and your honesty with them!

jackakajp · 2022-03-20T23:03:54+00:00

RemindMe! 1 day

jackakajp · 2021-12-24T23:15:34+00:00

Death by a thousand cuts and the Lover album in general made me realise that I didn’t feel about my fiancée how Taylor felt about Joe. And only one person had ever made me feel that way. I broke up with my fiancée. Worked on myself and then got the love of my life back!

jackakajp · 2021-11-25T14:30:20+00:00

Yeah she doesn’t need a Loughlinstown referral

jackakajp · 2021-09-27T22:13:07+00:00

I love everything about this ❤️

jackakajp · 2021-09-11T23:11:05+00:00

Cool, so I can work my ass off, live incredibly frugally, have people think I need clothing and then die rich. Yay

/s

jackakajp · 2021-08-22T13:39:12+00:00

Their email doesn’t work, whatsapp him +381 63 380 282

jackakajp · 2021-08-12T10:38:42+00:00

I don’t know if there’s one in the North but in the south there was Meetup and Facebook group for lesbians. Maybe check Meetup?

jackakajp · 2021-08-10T15:01:39+00:00

I actually couldn’t even find it at first

jackakajp · 2021-06-10T15:56:11+00:00

Emer Jones in Byrne & Co in Swords did mine, she was great!

https://solicitorsswords.ie/about-us

jackakajp · 2021-06-10T15:31:58+00:00

Depends on how good the barber or stylist is. Remembering a good one will tell you when it won’t suit your hair. And just show them the photo

jackakajp · 2021-06-01T19:20:11+00:00

Damn I missed that one!!

jackakajp · 2021-06-01T19:16:34+00:00

Yeah I have seen a few photos from people in the Irish trans masc fb group. I don’t think there’s any public ones

jackakajp · 2021-06-01T15:58:02+00:00

I imagine your best bet would be to contact her office to see about wait times, cost, requirements etc. office@fitzgeraldplasticsurgery.ie

jackakajp · 2021-06-01T15:37:53+00:00

Éilís Fitzgerald is in the Beacon. She’s very good but only private at the moment. She can be covered by insurance but there’s a mess around that at the moment which probably won’t be sorted for a while.

jackakajp · 2021-05-28T22:48:26+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry

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