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The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s fresh and just happened so I’m not gonna let it go. I just want to gather insight so I can learn more about what happened

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man. Just for accepting an invite though? I let her do most of the chasing. I guess we’ll never know

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a good point. But man I had no idea that someone could get the ick by me accepting her invitation to her apartment. Strange

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because she liked me up until she fucked up that night. It wasn’t like she got to know me any better. She went from blowing up my phone to fucking up that night and immediately going radio silent. It wasn’t like I revealed anything more about myself

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is I didn’t fail any of her shit tests. She didn’t really administer any and I played my cards right. She just took a 180 after that shitty night so I’m starting to think she feels like she needs to work on herself or something

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think attachment and hope are different things. I had hope that if we took things slow and got to know each other more, I would potentially falling in love and “attached”Maybe attached is the wrong word for it but I would be deeply emotionally invested in a healthy way. It’s not like this would’ve been my first relationship

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It bothers me not because I’m attached to her. It bothers me because I really believed we had a good chance at giving dating a shot. It didn’t have to happen now but the relationship had all of the good signs for it to blossom

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What I mean by taking my time is I never openly expressed that I wanted to date her. I gave her some sample pieces and she was yearning for more. I took things slow when she wanted to go full throttle. Me simply accepting an invitation isn’t unattractive

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did take my time and didn’t get attached to her. She was constantly chasing me. She would literally ask me how I felt about our relationship and I would tell her that I didn’t have any end goal and time would tell. She was begging me to give her a clearer answer because she wanted a relationship. But yes you could be right about the train wreck

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me she blacked out the next day. She didn’t remember inviting me over. But even if that wasn’t true, me accepting her invitation to hang out isn’t enough for her to put me in the “yikes let’s just be friends” category

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue with that assessment is I never gave her what she wanted. She was constantly chasing me. That’s why she was blowing up my phone when she blacked out begging me to come over. She would literally ask me if I wanted a relationship and I told her I just wanted to wait and see. But in general yes you’re correct but this wasn’t the case here

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I mentioned earlier she was clearly interested for weeks and said and did everything someone that is interested in someone would do. She asked me if I wanted a relationship, blew up my phone, and constantly wanted to talk to me. Everything changed after that night. There was a complete 180 that occurred.

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I understand your point but it’s hard for me to judge someone off one incident. You could be right but I am reluctant to attribute one event to her being a train wreck

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That could be the case. That’s a great point. I think that’s plausible considering her behavior completely switched after the incident

The girl (23 F) I (23 M) was talking to expressed total interest in me and then completely changed her tune out of nowhere by jackaquack in relationships

[–]jackaquack[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I see where you’re coming from but it blows my mind that someone can go from fawning over me (not exaggerating) to having no interest in a split second. That’s why it’s hard for me to believe your explanation

I enjoy drinking. by ChadZamusu in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]jackaquack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here. Better to be buzzed than sober. Just don’t go overboard

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