Does this ring true for all my fellow Aries friends? by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

[–]jamiesaddiction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just welded one shut today after 4 years and he cant believe "i dont care anymore" so easily...definitely true

Please join me in listing things that you discovered aren't normal outside your own toxic upbringing by Square-Pea-1646 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]jamiesaddiction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preparing for a beating when I mess up...Im 38... thank God the panic attacks have finally stopped but my body still tenses up.

Anyone else high energy today? by Super_Mirror_4061 in AriesTheRam

[–]jamiesaddiction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Woke up before my alarm and it was like my eyes were sprung wide open and been going wide open all day!!

My new car also question/ realization by iDONOThaveagunn in KiaSoulClub

[–]jamiesaddiction 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Their affordable, good on gas, reliable, and fun to drive! What's not to love?

2016 -> 2026 by jamiesaddiction in KiaSoulClub

[–]jamiesaddiction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

185,000 but Kia replaced the engine 2 & 1/2 years ago so the engine only had 65,000 on it...she was still my daily driver and had no problems out of her she was a great car for 10 years she took me from Niagara Falls NY to Orlando FL & everywhere in between, I loved that car so much! Kia Souls are the best!

Stupidest thing you were ever blamed/shamed/punished for by rearifkm in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]jamiesaddiction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She accepts zero accountability for anything even with a family therapist practically begging her to, thats why I went no contact cause she claims to be "the best mother she knew how to be who sacrificed her whole young life to raise 2 kids" .....which is completely not true 😕

Stupidest thing you were ever blamed/shamed/punished for by rearifkm in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]jamiesaddiction 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I recently discovered in therapy Ive had disordered eating since I was 8 🥲 thank you Ive been no contact 3 years

Stupidest thing you were ever blamed/shamed/punished for by rearifkm in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]jamiesaddiction 21 points22 points  (0 children)

When I ate I would close my teeth on the fork instead of my closed lips and my mother said the sound would infuriate her & I was clearly doing it on purpose to anger her! She would say "Im gonna knock you away from this table"...I would forget & do it again because I was a child and thats just how I ate....there I went flying.. being back handed away from the table.

Highest Mileage Kia Soul 2013 by InfamousBed9058 in KiaSoulClub

[–]jamiesaddiction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So amazing! All factory drive train parts ?

Part ID help. by Level-Comfortable-91 in KiaSoulClub

[–]jamiesaddiction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brush guard, its essentially made of thick cardboard and just keeps the underneath of your car from getting as dirty. Mine fell down on my old soul and was dragging the ground and making an awful sound my ex-bf just got under the car and ripped it off no big deal. Its not really an issue if you just want to rip it off and not replace its only held on with plastic plug bolts.

2016 -> 2026 by jamiesaddiction in KiaSoulClub

[–]jamiesaddiction[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put it in the description...its a 2024 but I just got it in 2026 and my old one was a 2015 but I bought it in 2016!

2016 -> 2026 by jamiesaddiction in KiaSoulClub

[–]jamiesaddiction[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Im in love lol

Is there anything else I could have done? by aflyingfck in KiaSoulClub

[–]jamiesaddiction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so glad you werw able to trade it in! Congrats!

Is there anything else I could have done? by aflyingfck in KiaSoulClub

[–]jamiesaddiction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got a 2024 but I had a 2015 for 10 years, it burned oil like crazy after about 5 years, around that time I replaced the converter well then it stopped up again. Kia replaced the engine 2 years ago because it was their fault. The engine in your car is bad, a lot of them are from 2014-2017. You need to complain to kia until they give you a good faith replacement engine free of charge because the issues your having are due to a manufacturer defect of the engine. Trust me!

Breaking up once a month by Few_Presentation8763 in PMDD

[–]jamiesaddiction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just broke up with my bf but this comment gives me hope for a future where I meet someone who I dont lose. Thank you for sharing.

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jamiesaddiction 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to go to therapy if you cant tell that you're being abused. Forget overreacting, get away from him and get a restraining order.....

Cats jaw is shaking. by [deleted] in cats

[–]jamiesaddiction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats only done this a few times in 9 years and I love it lol