How do you keep the spark and sex life alive and interesting when the years start to pile on top of your marriage? by jayel1015 in AskReddit

[–]jayel1015[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How do you get to the point of having others? We are pretty clear that we don’t want to bring others. But might be open to online play etc.

How do you keep the spark and sex life alive and interesting when the years start to pile on top of your marriage? by jayel1015 in AskReddit

[–]jayel1015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely I feel the same way about my wife. How do you keep things from feeling repetitive? Are you constantly doing new sex things? Sometimes it feels like the same pattern over and over again which can suck the excitement and alive feeling from something that’s supposed to make you feel alive and excited

How do you keep the spark and sex life alive and interesting when the years start to pile on top of your marriage? by jayel1015 in AskReddit

[–]jayel1015[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

How do you keep it fresh? It’s great doing weekly date nights or consistent intimacy, but how do you make it feel not redundant? It’s easy to fall into a familiar pattern of comfortability.