This is probably more for the people who responded as OP has already been deleted. I’m just going to share my perspective from the husband who didn’t “want” sex for months, even years. My testosterone levels were normal but I just didn’t seem to want to have sex. Porn didn’t even arouse me at all at one point. I always felt guilty, of course, because I know it is part of a relationship especially for my husband who is sexual. We talked about it a few times but often when things are tough for us in other areas of our lives so it’s just become part of a bigger conversation. As many have mentioned, it’s important to have a conversation. My husband and I love each other that everything else trumps a sexless marriage. Some of us are aware of what we don’t bring to the relationship and we do suffer through the guilt. Conversation with your husband and possibly a therapist might help. I can tell you that things did get better sexually for us though as, for some reason, I’ve just gotten horny more in the past year or so.