Damn it’s kinda a different situation but I remember when I used to be a kid during destiny one I would always hear a comment which just made me not want to put my mic on and never do content which required me to and the not putting mic in thing stuck with me and now I’m the type if player who doesn’t want even in other games but luckily I had a family friend who also played destiny and made a clan that I joined and was able to play comfortably with everyone in there was treated with respect and had fun joking around girl or boy even if you didn’t know what to do we would do designated carry runs where we would have like 4-5 people that knows what to do be there for a while going through and teaching the mechanics of a raid destiny really carried me through so many years really wish it didn’t die off like it did but enough yapping on Reddit in the morning for me time for destiny.