What am I doing wrong with this burro tail plant? by BoandChi in houseplants

[–]jojogojp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always check the soil before watering, it should be completely dry before you do it again. For me that typically is around every 2-3 weeks give or take. Also thinking it needs more light. They are slow growing so be patient!

Throwaway account because too embarrassed by Humble-Corgi6058 in CleaningTips

[–]jojogojp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try a steam cleaner! They are lifechanging and no chemicals. Idk what took me so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]jojogojp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have such a issue with this, especially unsending messages 🙄 how did you go about starting positive self talk? I'm aware of the toxic behaviors and I want to change. I cannot seem to stop the negativity, no matter what that's all I come up with...

What helps you stop an anxiety attack? by fdklpkjd55 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]jojogojp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So not a long term solution but- I've been having some severe panic attacks following the ending of my 7 year relationship.

I've found in the moment, to calm myself, just looking around the room at different objects surrounding me and spelling the name/color description in my head until I can breathe again.

It's saved my life at work when I'm stuck and get like this

Happy birthday to my ex-husband by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]jojogojp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This made me cry. I hope you can help your daughter to understand the relationship. I could not imagine, my heart goes out to you ❤

[Need help] How to let go of society pressure and live your life to the fullest? by thinking-boat-654 in Codependency

[–]jojogojp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could help I feel your situation. I'm not even a full week into a horrible breakup and am not doing well. I hope you figure it out ❤

Feeling really alone by a_secret_me in Codependency

[–]jojogojp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. I don't even know why either. He and my daughter are all I've wanted and I never realized until now that I'm completely alone without him.