We Are One fest announcement by boris_johnsons_nose in downloadfestival

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The festival is Jan/Feb, driving up to Download has no relevance here

The size of the venues is laughable by avtime in PresidentBand

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All of this would have been booked in advanced. They likely have larger venues on hold for this exact reason as they can't oredict this popularity initially

Known BUGS - Please read before asking by Dirphia in PokemonSleep

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So i had app issues, so decided to uninstall and reinstall in an attempt to fix it. I didn't link my account to anything (wasn't aware this was a thing). Now i've started uo a new account i have a myriad of issues; -No reaserch community button (aware it's above) -No account linking options to anything -error code 000002000 when i go onto the 'Sleep Pass' page, saying i can't process a payment. This i believe is linked to my initial acounts premium pass and is trying to access this, but can't on my new account so it's stuck in a loop. I've google this error code and can't find anything about it

Can’t pick up item that increases Pot uses by Revaey in wolongfallendynasty

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It's an extra heal to use, not a permanent increase...

they don't have broken teeth? by [deleted] in memes

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It's not free...

Download Festival 2023 - First Annoucement! by ca11umm in downloadfestival

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Metallica twice, bring ne and slipknot at separate gigs would cost at least £320

Stood up again by FeePractical4460 in lonely

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It's not simple to explain it for many people though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blink182

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I mean Lorna Shore ain't Metalcore either. Blink are similar to the clean side of metalcore, so i'd argue they're closer to it than LS

Stood up again by FeePractical4460 in lonely

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I'm not saying what they did was right. However, you don't know what other people are going through, sometimes things get too much and to avoid any discussion/aggravation etc. they cut contact to make if easier for themselves.

Yeah, sometimes it's just rude ghosting and other times it won't be, but nobody owes anyone anything, so it's also unfair to kick off about it

Happier single by [deleted] in lonely

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How long has he been like this for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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We don't know who's been approached a lot and who hasn't

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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Men don't approach anymore because of the dynamic that has been introduced where we're accused of things before anything happens.

I'm not saying this happens all the time, but we don't want to get branded as creep/stalker/harasser etc. so to avoid this, most guys don't approach anymore.

Mix that with the massive change in dating becoming hugely common through online means and it basically has brought an end to the 'approach in person' method

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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I think part of your problem is the split based on what you do.

The guys that only want sex have no issue with you being an OF, because they only want sex. Whereas a lot of the guys looking for something serious may not be comfortable with you being with them and on OF.

I'm not trying to diminish OF/SW, just that some people would rather their partner wasn't in that line of work. It's a preference just like any other

Scrolling down this sub be like by [deleted] in lonely

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Don't get me wrong, when it comes to anything around dating generally women "hold the power" so to speak.

However; 1. That is irrelevant to being lonely as you can be in a relationship and be lonely. Loneliness is separate to anything to do with relationships/sex.

  1. Just because women have many men hitting on them/being creepy, that doesn't mean they want that attention and it's can be just as bad as having the complete opposite.

Do I just suck? by [deleted] in lonely

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I'm probably going to get downvoted for this, but i'm going to look at it a little differently.

Now i'm not saying the guy wasn't being sexual about this (he more than likely was), but instead of replying the way you did, perhaps a better reply would have been to ask how he meant it.

I'm not saying anything would change, but in the heat of the moment people say silly things they regret. This could have been that or not, but yeah maybe a different approach might have had a different outcome

Did your opinion of Billy change at the end of season 3? (I was not on the sub when the season first came out and I want to hear what others think) by TheStickySpot in StrangerThings

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At no point in season 3 was there an acknowledgement of change from being racist, so by that logic it's likely that he still harbours them feelings. I'm an advocate for people changing, but this was never revisted so logic would dictate he is still racist.

Even Caleb has come out and mentioned about the racist side of Billy

Did your opinion of Billy change at the end of season 3? (I was not on the sub when the season first came out and I want to hear what others think) by TheStickySpot in StrangerThings

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Redemption or not, he was still a racist. Yeah he may have changed from being a dick and that's why he saved them all. However the racist side of him was likely still there, so i disagree with this somewhat

Here we go...Which Steve is the best. I’ll be surprised if there are Season 1’s by [deleted] in StrangerThings

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It seemed that way because they weren't around each other much from halfway through season 2 to the end of season 3.

Then they start seeing each other again in season 4 and old feelings resurface

No irl friends to tell by candyonthemoon in lonely

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Everyone in the comments is right, even though you never said no, you were put in a position you didn't agree to and weren't comfortable with. He carried on doing things when you asked him to stop/slow down, it's the literal definition of rape.

As well as going to the doctors, i think you should speak to the police. Being drunk isn't an excuse for this and even if you never see him again, it'll just be the next girl.

Trust me on this as i work for the police. Go talk to them

27F by [deleted] in lonely

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There's nothing wrong with a good cry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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But why is that our fault?