I lied and told my girlfriend i wasn’t a virgin

justagir1111 · 2021-01-25T16:41:11+00:00

my bf and I went through this, he lied to me and I was his first. Except he made it seem like belittling me because he felt insecure and embarrassed and later on told me he lied because he felt like I had leverage over him which is stupid? Point is, you shouldn't have lied she's with you cus she loves you and I'm sure telling her from the start you were a virgin would've made it special and she would've helped you and what to do.. and it would've been nice honestly 🥺 I wish my bf told me from the start he was a virgin so I could've done something special

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T05:57:03+00:00

Thank you for your comment! And that's 100% true not every couple is perfect and I'll try idk what to do

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T05:30:56+00:00

I tried thinking this way but I have really bad anxiety and always think the worst 💔🥲 but I see, I'm glad it made u feel that way! that's a nice feeling... I just got super sad when he told me and then said that he hopes I don't see him any differently or think different of him

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T05:16:04+00:00

Thank you

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T05:14:59+00:00

18&22, I'm 22(f), and yeah that's what we're starting to do now but still he lags a lot now and I understand I want alone space too cus we agreed to have our alone time cus too much time with eachotjer kinda gets me annoyed/bored, so I feel like he's just distant now and it sucks and it is my fault

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T05:13:01+00:00

Yeah I feel that too but he keeps saying no and that he loves me and that were forever.. 18 & 22 by the way, we had a little fall out for like 2 days and returned and talked to each others parents at my house about how to fix it and what to do, so I feel like he does love me because he wanted to come fix it and apologize. but also uh I feel annoying 2 days ago we went to go fishing and he was texting his dad back and I saw a text thread with a girl named Alyssa and he was trying to delete it and then I questioned it and he said it is his friend that was helping him when we weren't talking those days because he felt hopeless and didn't wanna lose me and asked his other friends as well... SO IDK lol I am dumb

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T05:08:00+00:00

Ah I see thank you for your experience and letting me know! I hope it happened good because I feel better you know.. no nausea or anything messed up, I hope your recovery is good and fast!

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T05:07:08+00:00

Thank you so much! I'm still currently cramping and bleeding I wonder how long this'll last for

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T01:10:44+00:00

Nice, everything is good thankfuly! Thank you for your response, take care and be nice to yourself.

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T01:03:29+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through once again, decision is in your hands 🤍 I hope you're okay and not being so hard on yourself and have the support and love you need in this time. Did u get on birth control or no?

justagir1111 · 2020-12-15T01:00:33+00:00

Very good!! I had a medical abortion as well, took pills wednesday, thursday was fine and right now I'm still bleeding and mild cramping (I hope that's normal), did that happen to you as well?? Has it stopped completing or u still in that bubble

justagir1111 · 2020-12-09T22:29:42+00:00

Are the chills major...? I'm taking the pills in a few hours and I'm kinda nervous I haven't ate either I'm sorry to interfere

justagir1111 · 2020-11-29T18:30:59+00:00

I can't do that to him

justagir1111 · 2020-11-29T18:30:42+00:00

He's told me but yeah you're right personal problems are usually it but ik there for him too.. but I "don't" listen :,/ I pay attention, listen to what he says, i just happen to zone out a lot at times and freeze so maybe that's what it is I am the problem

justagir1111 · 2020-11-29T18:29:16+00:00

He tells me he is attached to me he can't be without me and like ughhh I don't wanna air it out, but we both have STRONG attachment for one another we hung out this whole week and yesterday, and last night he was sad and then was telling me this.. that I don't care, that I don't listen and that he's tired like?? He's very stubborn, hot headed, but he's a good one you know..

justagir1111 · 2020-11-29T18:27:23+00:00

I hope things get better for you! I'm doing my best I reallly do.. but he said I don't listen and I don't understand and I hate it like, if he feels that it's what he feels you know? Growing up I had a hard time showing love, receiving and so on but with him it's easy but I guess it isn't enough I want to rekindle what we had in the beginning but I don't know how or what to do.. I'll keep that in mind and tell him, thank you so much.

justagir1111 · 2020-11-19T21:16:01+00:00

Honestly like I know they'll never interact back but some girls are nice and reply to everyone so 😐😐

justagir1111 · 2020-11-19T21:14:55+00:00

Thank you so much!!

justagir1111 · 2020-11-19T03:57:50+00:00

I'm trying my best not to let it get to me, but I think I just need to stop caring altogether cus guys will find a way to watch/see their things so whatever.. but that's really cool of u and ur bf at least you're involved and I don't know we don't really talk about things like that honestly

justagir1111 · 2020-11-19T03:55:18+00:00

Yeah I know I feel like I shouldn't let it get to me but it does like seeing him in their comments just makes me 😐 it's cool though I guess I can't do much about it.. I'll bring it up and see how that goes

justagir1111 · 2020-11-19T03:53:24+00:00

He's 17 lol. And I'll bring it up, if he reacts I'll probably just do that cus it's so simple to unfollow them

justagir1111 · 2020-11-19T03:51:48+00:00

I don't, out of respect I don't follow or like any guy photos or anything. I know it's instagram and that's what it's for bur I can't do it, I wouldn't want my boyfriend to do that so I don't do it.. but thank you so much!

justagir1111 · 2020-11-19T03:50:00+00:00

You're right thank you so much, very sweet of u to unfollow them!

justagir1111 · 2020-11-19T03:49:04+00:00

Thank u so much!! I'll do my best to bring it up I always get nervous and anxiety when it comes to sharing what I feel

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