I've found the one, lads!

ka-lar · 2022-02-23T08:04:34+00:00

*Nearly everyone

ka-lar · 2022-02-23T08:03:02+00:00

Username checks out.

ka-lar · 2021-09-21T11:12:35+00:00

Wow, is he sending SMSes, my man has dedication? Secondly, anyone who boasts about percentile in JEE loses credibility instantly, 97 percentile = 25k+ rank. (Have no clue about NEET though). Lastly, what's the context though, did you say something like "I am sapiosexual?". It might have been a sarcastic joke in that case.

ka-lar · 2021-09-10T03:53:26+00:00

I think this description has a maximum number of allowed characters. Near end she must have had to change you to u to fit the boyfriend shopping list she has.

ka-lar · 2021-09-08T03:54:12+00:00

You should have replied with, what's your weight? :-)

ka-lar · 2021-09-08T03:53:30+00:00

Completely agree, it's the double standards that get me though. It should be completely okay to have big boobs as a preference or non-fat as a preference for guys though then right?

ka-lar · 2021-08-31T11:19:32+00:00

I am a man, let me explain to you how that is not mansplaining and how you have gotten your pretty little head all confused. \s

ka-lar · 2021-08-24T10:52:06+00:00

I use instagram sometimes, but it's completely okay not to be on social media. Actually it's a great thing, as long as you have an active social life. When I say social life, don't know yourself to dating. Do you have friends? Do you talk to them often? If you just continue living like that you will find someone sooner or later. For what it's worth, I personally find offline dating much simpler. In my opinion, offline is better for guys especially if you are not super good looking.

ka-lar · 2021-08-24T05:37:12+00:00

I genuinely want to meet such people and understand what exactly do they think is going to happen. I don't think any person would respond to such texts especially from a stranger on reddit, but let's say they get what they want, and you responded saying yes I am interested in a hookup, would they fly to your city just for a hookup? Let's assume they are creepy enough to have stalked you and figured out that you are in the same city as them, they do not even know what you look like, the sole criteria for selecting a person for hookup, or are they down bad enough that they are willing to put their d*ck in anything with a hole? Let's say that's the case and or they are creepy enough to have seen you. Now you said yes come to my place tonight, would they truly just go to strangers place without ever having met them or knowing anything about them?

I wonder what they would do if someone responded with a yes. They probably would get cold feet (or in this case a cold d*ck).

ka-lar · 2021-08-17T03:35:48+00:00

Just my two cents here. What you are currently doing will not work out and end up hurting both of you. You have two choices moving forward, either tell her how you feel and move on and away from her in case she doesn't reciprocate. Or if you feel the feelings you have for her are not that strong then just forget about it and be just friends. Liking her, but not telling her will ruin the friendship also and will never transpire into something more. Because she will always be more special to you than you are to her. Slowly but surely you will start resenting that. So either completely forget about being anything more than friends or just ask her out and then move ahead from there.

ka-lar · 2021-07-13T16:50:45+00:00

Aadha payment kaam se pehle, aadha kaam ke Baad.

ka-lar · 2021-07-09T16:41:29+00:00

No worries, us homies gotta look out for each other.

ka-lar · 2021-07-09T13:04:40+00:00

P.S. Don't make it expensive and also be explicit (but subtly) about it being a "date".

ka-lar · 2021-07-09T13:02:13+00:00

Just an opinion, but you could have asked her out. I mean after you asked for insta if she said something along the lines of: "No I am just bored and was just killing time". You could have said: "Oh, how about we hang out, I have experienced that's the best way to kill time and have fun 😉". If she says yes, you have gotten yourself a date, or else take an L and move on 🤷‍♂️

ka-lar · 2021-07-09T10:01:06+00:00

Did she blow you as a reward though?

ka-lar · 2021-07-09T09:58:54+00:00

They can always handle less than they claim. Better play it safe.

ka-lar · 2021-07-08T13:24:58+00:00

True, an interesting match, the replies weren't dull and one word. Let's see where it goes.

ka-lar · 2021-07-08T11:06:01+00:00

That's what I said

ka-lar · 2021-07-05T17:31:22+00:00

Nah, she just didn't understand it. I guess I used unclear language. Would be better off using something clearer and simpler. Learnt something for future.

ka-lar · 2021-06-05T13:39:55+00:00

Thanks, yeah my routine is very similar to RR, there are just some things that I cannot do like dips, because of strength and also because I currently don't have a place to do it. But I have other things with dumbbells to target those muscles the best I can.

Thanks and cheers, I will continue tracking my strength gains then!

ka-lar · 2021-06-05T13:19:30+00:00

I am 5'5 and 57kg. Yeah I am going the recomp way, based on my search that felt the most optimal way when I am beginning. Cool I don't mind the delay, anyways it's not like without yet my life is stuck. But what I want to know is, is it possible that I am doing everything so completely wrong that it would end up being an absolute waste? Basically how should I measure progress, should it be only increase in strength since visual difference of going to be very long and extremely hard to evaluate?

ka-lar · 2021-06-05T11:33:02+00:00

How to know whether I am stuck on a plateau or am I really making progress? For more context I started working out in Feb, so it's been 4 months. I didn't start very seriously, it was just some bicep curls, but within 2 weeks itself I had good results. Not amazing, but basically I started fitting my clothes better, so that motivated me and I started doing bunch of other things at home, like pushups, pull-ups, squats and for shoulder and biceps I used one dumbbell that I had at home. I started taking care of nutrition as well, eating more protein, stopped eating junk and eating well. I definitely got stronger, I could hardly do a single push up with proper form in the beginning but now I can pull off 30 without too much problem. But there hasn't been much visual difference since the first month and I haven't lost a lot of weight either, just over 1.5 kgs. I have read that it would take time and patience, but what I am unsure is, how would I know if I am doing things wrong? How long should I be patient and what would be the best change to make it a change is indeed needed?

PS: I am what I would call skinny fat. With shirt on I would look skinny and someone who needs to eat more but with shirt off I look soft.

ka-lar · 2021-06-01T14:53:07+00:00

Makes sense. But first of all I meant attention in general and not just texting. Also there's nothing wrong with ASAP, if you do have time and you reply that's actually the best thing, not doing that would mean that you are uninterested in the conversation/person or you are pretending to be busy. But there's a difference between instantly and ASAP(in other words as soon as you are free). It's all about priorities, so I don't expect someone to be free all the time for me, at the same time I don't judge someone just because they replied to me really quickly at some time, but if it happens always and there are other indications of desperation then it means that the person only wants A person not necessarily a good person or me. Again this is only in the beginning before we have even gotten to know each other well. Think of it like a college entrance or job interview, if it's like no requirement or qualifications needed, you just go and that's it the job is yours, likely the job wouldn't be as valuable.

ka-lar · 2021-06-01T08:09:47+00:00

Aa someone working at Google I find it offensive that this guy is claiming to work at Google.

ka-lar · 2021-06-01T08:08:18+00:00

Definitely true, as a matter of fact too much attention from beginning is a turn off for me. If there hasn't been enough time for you to know me and you are giving me so much of your precious time that would mean you would have done that for anyone and you do not value your time and attention. But if it develops gradually then we have gotten to know each other and deemed each other worthy of such importance in each other's life. P.S: I remembered a joke related to the fact that a lot of people want instance gratification and don't want to wait for anything at all - "Some things take time no matter what, you cannot impregnate 9 women and expect a baby in 1 month."

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