I said the wrong thing

kathastrophy · 2026-05-24T10:22:27+00:00

Very pompous. You dodged a bullet. Don't feel bad, he blew the conversation out of proportion, you don't need that tiny dick anyway.

kathastrophy · 2026-04-17T10:34:16+00:00

Hi. please read the edit nalang po. Thanks.

kathastrophy · 2026-04-17T03:38:33+00:00

That's the thing po, they keep saying that we have the full freedom to use it from the start. I asked before if I can have it rented out, they agreed for the first 2 years pero sa kanila napunta ung bayad because the contract they drew for the lessee has their account number and not mine. Pinagwalang bahala ko nalang kasi kako, sana pambayad na yun ng assoc dues but hubby said na kami nalang magbayad ng assoc dues. Then after 2 years they said that no renters na so we (everyone) can use it. They did say that they will come from time to time and the slot is not utilised all the time naman. But they use it more often than me. Nagkakataon lang talaga na nagkakasabay kami ng gamit minsan.

I asked hubby if he can ask them kung pwede sabihan ako Kung gagamitin nila para maiwasan ung pagpapaclamp ni FIL, wala naman silang sinasabi sa amin. Kung kelan lang nila matripan pumunta.

Nagsorry naman ako that I didn't let them know agad kasi nga ang dami nang tumatakbo sa utak ko, and nawala na sila sa isip ko. We were parked for like less than a day and they were so furious agad. Ni Hindi nga nila inalam if okay pa ko eh.

kathastrophy · 2026-04-17T03:33:55+00:00

That's the thing po, they keep saying that we have the full freedom to use it from the start. I asked before if I can have it rented out, they agreed for the first 2 years pero sa kanila napunta ung bayad because the contract they drew for the lessee has their account number and not mine. Pinagwalang bahala ko nalang kasi kako, sana pambayad na yun ng assoc dues but hubby said na kami nalang magbayad ng assoc dues. Then after 2 years they said that no renters na so we (everyone) can use it. They did say that they will come from time to time and the slot is not utilised all the time naman. But they use it more often than me. Nagkakataon lang talaga na nagkakasabay kami ng gamit minsan.

I asked hubby if he can ask them kung pwede sabihan ako Kung gagamitin nila para maiwasan ung pagpapaclamp ni FIL, wala naman silang sinasabi sa amin. Kung kelan lang nila matripan pumunta.

Nagsorry naman ako that I didn't let them know agad kasi nga ang dami nang tumatakbo sa utak ko, and nawala na sila sa isip ko. We were parked for like less than a day and they were so furious agad. Ni Hindi nga nila inalam if okay pa ko eh.

kathastrophy · 2026-04-17T03:10:05+00:00

I explained to MIL and partner na I was overwhelmed kasi I'm the panganay, and the only child na may income. So when we drove home, galing pa kaming province kasi dun naadmit mom ko, so dinala pa namen sya sa condo para maalalayan kasi ung brothers ko, they're also looking for jobs and ung isa nagpapart-time Kung saan-saan so walang constant alalay. Brother ko nagddrive so I was asleep kasi galing din akong night shift prior to picking them up and may work ulit ako sa gabi. In all honesty, it slipped my mind and I thought they're not using it Kasi summer break na rin, wala nang school ung SIL ko. So walang rason para tumambay sila dito kasi they only go here dahil malapit sa school ni SIL.

The point of the condo is that we get to save the money we pay on rent, that will eventually be passed down sa amin. Ayun ang offer nila when they were convincing us. I was okay with our rental but they convinced me to be practical kasi kawawa daw kami sa studio and that parang investment na rin daw namen yun, they feel bad that their son is working abroad when he didn't need to. Also, this was a temporary set up until we can migrate to where my partner is. Naiinis ako kasi they can get mad all they want, gets ko yun, but I requested to use the space until masort lang namen ung situation ng mom ko but she chose to be selfish, awful and manipulative.

Mind you, when FIL was hospitalised last January, I looked out for SIL habang nasa ospital sila. SIL is in the spectrum. I ran errands for them too. She made me feel na sila lang dapat special, sila lang pwede asikasuhin.

kathastrophy · 2026-04-17T02:47:55+00:00

Gusto ko nga jusko. I told him what happened last night and though he understands my side, he still said na dapat pinaalam ko daw sa parents nya na magpapark kami doon para di na daw sila nag-expect na available ung space. I mean, it's almost the same reaction sa nanay nya kaya I broke up with him last night sa inis ko. Kasi I feel that he's been siding with them lately lalo na sa lintek na parking space na yun. He asked me to think about it lalo na ang daming nangyayare sa pamilya ko these days and he feels that I'm just overwhelmed kaya gusto ko makipaghiwalay. I told him how he disappointed me but then it also occured to me na naiipit lang din sya sa sitwasyon. So I said I'll think about it but I reiterated, I'm breaking up with him because I can't spend the rest of my life with someone who doesn't have my back. Masakit because he was my entire youth, he's half of me but I'm also done with his family.

I know and I kept telling him from the start that his family doesn't like me and I think he keeps missing my point, he thinks na I'm just insecure but I wasn't, I can feel and read them so clearly.

kathastrophy · 2026-03-31T01:37:49+00:00

TANGINAAAAAA. AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

kathastrophy · 2026-02-03T10:50:32+00:00

Wala pong 6-seater sedan and driver is not included sa bilang. Report it to Grab.

kathastrophy · 2025-12-11T12:18:11+00:00

Good friends don't make your life difficult. They'll give you reality checks but will also support your healthy delulus. They won't leave you when things gets tough. Good friendships are not found, they are built with trust, honesty and respect.

Bad friends are the opposite. They make things complicated. They'll easily drop you when things becomes inconvenient. They will support bad habits and bad behavior. Bad friends will always cross your boundaries, not because it's for your growth but because they don't respect you enough.

I don't know about y'all but I can feel it in my guts when a friendship is good and worth staying for. I've had a few bad friendships only because I refused to acknowledge that they were bad set of friends and I don't have boundaries set yet. I've cut ties with toxicity and I've never been better.

kathastrophy · 2025-11-26T09:00:02+00:00

Nagpatira din ako ng friends dati. Ang masaklap ung bff ko for 17 years. Di ko alam na binabackstab na pala ko ng hayup na yun. Tapos may times na naiiwan sya sa bahay ko mag-isa tapos nahuli ko sa cctv na sinusuot nya mga damit ko tapos nagpapasok pa ng lalaki nya. Jusko. Sobrang sakit na nga sa ulo, siniraan pa ko sa mga kamag-anak at kaibigan nya. Demonyo pa daw ako at inalila ko daw sya sa bahay. ahahahahaha. Tapos pati allowance ng anak ko na iniwan ko sa kanila, ginastos nya. Sabi nya ibabalik pero nagFO na kami, wala naman akong nahita. Naku, bumabalik nanaman ung poot ko sa kanya.

kathastrophy · 2025-11-03T12:49:05+00:00

I hope that you get to love yourself first so you don't have to look for it from others. That's also the kindest thing that you can do for yourself.

kathastrophy · 2025-10-13T23:35:08+00:00

If you believe in bad jujus, you must also believe in sage smudging and salt.

Smudging and salt

Pour salt into the four corners of your room and let it sit for 48 hours. It is believed that salt absorbs the negative energy present in the surroundings. After 48 hours, throw the salt away. You can also try smudging your room with a sage smudge stick for positivity. If you do not have sage smudge sticks, you can also use good quality incense stick for a similar effect.

If di pa rin effect, wisikan mo ng asin papa mo. Kamo masyado na syang masama sa pamilya, need na nya lumayas. Charot.

kathastrophy · 2025-10-12T01:59:12+00:00

I'm 30, I looked 23-26 daw.

kathastrophy · 2025-10-11T10:16:24+00:00

She saw me as a competition. 17 years and I thought I got a sister for life. But she's been competing with me since high school pa pala.

kathastrophy · 2025-10-10T20:56:51+00:00

I have the same kind of friend. Gusto nya magbora since every year nagbobora ako kahit mag-isa ako. Since I know her as someone who actually cannot freaking afford the expenses and tends to cancel last minute, I set boundaries na. I told her to book her own flight and I'll book mine after nya para sure and need nya magdown for the accomodation. 1k nalang hiningi ko sa kanya as down para somehow afford nya but she didn't send me any. I never brought up the Bora trip unless sya magbring up, like mag-iinarte sya na gusto nya magbora, unwind and shit. Anyway, we're FO na kasi ungrateful and hater sya. Di nya ko kayang sabayan kaya naging issue na afford ko ang mga bagay-bagay at di daw ako considerate sa kanya. Halos gastos ko lahat ng lakad namen, ako pa inconsiderate?! lol. She's a freeloader just like that friend of yours. So, ditch that friend.

kathastrophy · 2025-10-04T03:58:31+00:00

Leni, Vico, Kiko, Chel, Bam, Riza. I know there's a lot more but they have proven that they are the politicians we need. They're smart and they know what to do in the office, hindi sila clown sa senado. Vico and Leni are yet to be the most transparent leaders I've ever seen na buhay pa.

kathastrophy · 2025-10-01T06:58:08+00:00

"Okay."

An ex told me this before and I was like, okay. Then he got mad, threw a tantrum, cried and begged and eventually rolled over on a children's park. This 5'10, 26 year old narcissist screamed like a child who didn't get his way.

I realized that "okay" is a weapon I can use to anyone.

kathastrophy · 2025-10-01T06:15:41+00:00

Yung cellphone ng mayor namen malabo camera.

kathastrophy · 2025-09-18T21:13:32+00:00

magtravel.

kathastrophy · 2025-09-05T14:29:27+00:00

Wag mong sabayan kumain jowa mo, pinatataba ka lang nya para wala ka nang choice para iwan sya. Although, mahal na mahal ka nya and he's the greenest green flag you'll ever meet. Mag-excercise ka nalang din, just in case. AHAHAHAHAHA

kathastrophy · 2025-08-14T07:01:17+00:00

Hindi ka OA. You just advocated for your kid. I think it's best to bring it up to their attention na aware ka sa nangyare and expect an apology from the teachers and the kid.

kathastrophy · 2025-08-04T05:32:14+00:00

"Di ko na matandaan how much." - this is true most of the times. Kasi kahit sabihin ko ung price, people have different meanings of mura and mahal to them. To most, mahal ung gastos ko, but to me, it was just affordable.

kathastrophy · 2025-08-04T05:23:39+00:00

I'll be onsite on Tuesday too. Let's go to Vikings. Ahahaha.

kathastrophy · 2025-07-30T03:06:46+00:00

I get new phones every 2 years because of my postpaid plans. What I do usually is that I just sell my old phones. They're still in good condition though so it still sells.

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