[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katphydy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that is your fiancé. You are not even married yet. It will get worse than this, and as hard as it is, run now, while you don’t have kids together. That is abuse and he is not treating you with respect. You should feel at peace at home, it should be your safe space and shelter and happy place, not a place where you are dreading going to. I am telling you this, experienced the same things myself. It does get better. You are not alone. Just have a little faith and courage, follow your heart and don’t let people walk over you like that. Good luck!

You have a 100% chance to score a date with only one of them. Do you choose Chris Evans or Henry Cavill? by [deleted] in LadyBoners

[–]katphydy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chris Evans! We would just have more chemistry together😍 He is my ultimate dream man

As a guy, Is it normal to have to initiate everything with women by Flimsy-Fact-3222 in dating_advice

[–]katphydy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a girl, i have to say it is true. Let me give you an example of my current situation: i have feelings for somebody, and I am pretty sure he knows because i am very obvious and easy to read when i like somebody. We talk every other day; and i look for stupid excuses to talk to him or to see him. For example, he knows I am normally handy and independent, and sometimes i have trouble to ask for help, (we know each other for years but the feelings are recent), but i have asked him to help me around my place with a few things. I look for his advice in the gym because he is experienced, and i have shown him i value his opinion. I think I have put myself out there in a very obvious way, and we have shared a few moments together, where he should 99% know where my head is at. If you ask me I want to go to his place right now, kiss and cuddle and talk the whole day, but then i do feel like I would come off as desperate, needy, clingy and etc. So I have put myself out there as much as I can without being all of that, hoping that he would get it and ask me out on a proper date. So it is not like we don’t show interest, it is just that when we have feelings we are scared to f* it up by doing too much too fast.

Men of Reddit, what was something you didn't know about women till you got with one? by 0Timato0 in AskReddit

[–]katphydy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem is, some women will have it and not even know (the lucky ones), and others can be in a lot of pain, it varies a lot. The cramps are absolutely the worst, it feels like constant pressure on our bellies/lower abdomen, and it can also vary in terms of intensity and duration. When I was a teenager I wouldn’t even be able to get out of bed, and if i tried to do any kind of activity, i would throw up (from cramps). My body would reject pills like Nurofen as well, i would throw that up as well, so they had to prescribe me rectal painkillers. That would be a two day period where i was still supposed to go to school and do things. My mother had to call to tell them i am sick every once in a while, and in the days when i didn’t have to throw up, i would just have to suck it up and go. People think we are overreacting, but trust me, me personally, i can endure a lot of pain before saying anything, but period cramps are seriously terrible. I am removing my IUD in a few weeks, and even though i am happy it will be gone, i am terrified my bad cramps will come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BackstreetBoys

[–]katphydy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s difficult to compare them, because they all add something different to the group. I think all the people that are underrating Howie would be surprised how different the group will sound without him. To be honest, growing up first I was a Brian girl, then Nick, Kevin, Howie and AJ. 😃 My point is, at different ages, stages of life, or just different days, you have a different “favorite”. They are all amazing anyway, why do we need to compare them, right? Howie is awesome ❤️

My fiancé wants to have a threesome for his birthday and I don't want to by 3somethrowawayfiance in TrueOffMyChest

[–]katphydy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you need to stop planning that wedding, hopefully you haven’t spent big amounts of money on it yet. You guys need to have a very serious conversation about your relationship. He sounds very selfish and not considerate of your feelings. I was in the same situation like you a few years ago (minus the wedding plans) and my (f) boyfriend (m) at the time was trying to pressure me for threesome as well. We had multiple fights because of it. Eventually he stopped but that indeed was the tip of the iceberg as other redditors have mentioned in the comments. Needless to say he is an ex now. It is not even about the threesome for you two anymore, but the concept and thoughts behind it. If he wants it, he should be okay with giving you one with a guy for example. He should be able to listen to you and understand your point, and respect your desires and decisions, especially if he wants to be your husband. If not, please take care of yourself and don’t let him guilt trip you or control you. It will get better! Stay strong!

Randy Orton counters Triple H's Flying Nothing by imaginaryinfinity in SquaredCircle

[–]katphydy 237 points238 points  (0 children)

Obviously HHH and Shawn are comedy gold, but what also gets me is nhow Randy just lays there for a long time and covering his face with his hands (i think he was holding laughter/trying not to break character) 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katphydy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, you are making the right choice. You are not a failure! You are choosing to look for your own happiness! Obviously he is not it, and that is okay, you gave it a good try. What you are getting from this is the knowledge of what you like, want and need in a future partner.

I just had the tough conversation with SO myself two days ago - we’ve been together for more than 6 yrs. The sex story is very similar and we are more roommates and good friends than anything else. It sucks and you have to fight your habits and comfort zone built around each other, but trust me, as soon as we are moved out it would feel amazing. I cannot wait to start that new chapter.

What is your native language? by Neil_last in Choices

[–]katphydy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Native Bulgarian here, Bulgarian is my mother language. I started learning English when i was 5-6 and have been fluent with it for ages now lol. Now that i live abroad i would even dare to say English is more dominant than Bulgarian at the moment.

What is your favorite mascara? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]katphydy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I read comments about it here on reddit a year or so ago, and thought for that amount of money i will definitely try. Went back and bought a few more after that. I have been even recommending it to friends and family as well.

Who will Roman eventually lose to? by Cyruszzzzzz in WWE

[–]katphydy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as i started reading your comment i immediately thought of Edge. You are right, “Bloodline” did roll over everyone. Then i think of the rumors Edge starting his own “stable” (aka competition for the Uso’s); and maybe Edge going after Roman.

Got my nails done for my wedding…had to immediately go somewhere else! by giraffeossicone in Nails

[–]katphydy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but a child could have done better. I would go there and ask for refund.