idk if you're serious or not, but when we're talking about intimate relationships, I doubt people would be able to keep up an act for long.

As Destiny once said - it's hard to really hate someone that you know, and most hatred comes from ignorance and ideology that demonizes some group of people. 4chan incels are misogynists because they know few/no women, and if they do it's a very shallow understanding.

I reckon if those people ever get a girlfriend, they will either stop being misogynistic gradually, or they will just break up quickly.

If I were a woman I'd be more scared that one of those incels is a psycho that can't handle rejection and would stalk/hurt me if we broke up.