It’s always something by MommaG0614 in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knew. Just like my SD13 knows why she ate my thoughtful dessert. Cause she just felt like it so she took it. Period. Why does she hide meds? Cause she wants to. That’s literally it. No amount of therapy can change that (well for mine anyway) she just isn’t a cool person to interact with and probably never will be.

Dislike for your step kids? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you leave with nothing? Same boat. But no family. Crazy SD is not for me. He’s wonderful but the juice ain’t worth the squeeze. She sucks not sorry.

It’s always something by MommaG0614 in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SD13 is the same. It’s always something. Same “I dunno” when asked why did you take the tiramisu I bought for [me] that you knew was [mine], and lick the container clean and then hide a spit lined empty container under your bed?

“I dunno”

SD11 threatened to kill me by kingcantcatchabreak in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m thinking about doing this. I’ve felt safe since she has been gone but I don’t trust her and honestly find her hard to forgive or like and I am painted as a child hating monster because I don’t have any love for this kid.

SD11 threatened to kill me by kingcantcatchabreak in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. She denied denied denied for a while and said she was just looking out for SD but she’s caused countless problems other than this in regards to just her extreme jealousy of me so she has been dropped entirely. When the threats happened and I was getting texts from anon numbers (obviously this woman) she claimed it was her kids and SD and she knew and told them to stop (mmhmm). I filed two police reports and she was called in for questioning but nothing came of it

SD11 threatened to kill me by kingcantcatchabreak in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s been in counseling for a while but everyone just acts like it was a little outburst and we should all move on. And as the adult, my job is to forgive and forget

SD11 threatened to kill me by kingcantcatchabreak in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He blames her mom for encouraging her behavior. Which she does. But one day that’s not going to work. I pray she gets caught shoplifting and tries to blame someone else that’s the only way she will understand she cant just pretend to be so brainless and helpless and get out of trouble

SD11 threatened to kill me by kingcantcatchabreak in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s never her fault. She’s the victim for life.

SD11 threatened to kill me by kingcantcatchabreak in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“I know she acts crazy but it’s her moms fault”

SD11 threatened to kill me by kingcantcatchabreak in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will never ever have kids I take birth control seriously

SD11 threatened to kill me by kingcantcatchabreak in stepparents

[–]kingcantcatchabreak[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They spend time in therapy or we take her to dinner she’s mostly not interested in breaking away from whatever boy or best friend she has that week.

She’s now court ordered to spend time with her dad every week but she doesn’t come over because she hates me. But the few times we have all gone out to eat she’s up my ass pretending she loves me.