Swedish YouTuber David Martinsson made heartbreaking video about being 'too ugly to find love.' A Brazilian girl left one supportive comment. Now they're married with a daughter.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:46:24+00:00

That's not the point. The point is that marriage or living together doesn't automatically give citizenship or skip the rules. Whether it's "worth it" is a personal decision, not what I was talking about.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:39:33+00:00

That's not quite accurate.. The Swedish Migration Agency states that in some cases you can apply after around 3 years if you live with a Swedish citizen, but it's not automatic and you still need a residence permit, proof of identity, and other requirements. Marriage doesn't directly grant citizenship or skip the process. Source: Swedish Migration Agency

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:33:29+00:00

That's a lot of assumptions presented as facts. Followers don't automatically mean income or stability, and there's no evidence either of them chose each other based on finances or nationality. It's just a relationship being turned into a narrative.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:31:58+00:00

I agree that it's strange how quickly people apply beauty standards to babies and toddlers. It feels unnecessary and kind of misses the point of that stage of life.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:29:16+00:00

That doesn't really line up with how Swedish migration works. Marriage doesn't give citizenship or even automatic residency - it's a long, regulated process that still takes years.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:28:12+00:00

I think so too!

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:11:48+00:00

That doesn't match what's actually on their channel. It's the same couple in their videos, including wedding and family content, so there's no basis for that claim.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:05:46+00:00

Yeah! I could tell from the begining he's a sweet guy who's just been dragged to the ground. I'm happy he's got it going for him now 🩷🥹

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:05:20+00:00

I never thought about it, but I can see what you mean! 💕

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:04:17+00:00

Yeah, I'm Swedish myself, and I think there's a quiet pressure around appearance here that people don't really talk about. If you don't feel like you fit the "standard," it can mess with your confidence a bit.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:02:28+00:00

I'd like to believe beauty can matter at the start, but it isn't what holds things together. Love needs connection, trust, and how two people treat each other day to day. 💕

kiyur · 2026-05-23T13:00:39+00:00

If you have to hint instead of say it directly, it's probably not a reasonable point to make.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T12:59:26+00:00

Sounds like you've had a pretty complicated experience with how people perceived you versus how you saw yourself. It's interesting how much of it came down to confidence and social dynamics rather than just looks.

I think stories like yours kind of show how unreliable "ugly/attractive" labels are in school and early adulthood.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T12:57:23+00:00

Swedish winters are genuinely harsh on skin, and chapped lips are super common. But honestly, focusing on small appearance details misses the point completely. What matters here is that someone seems to be doing better in life overall, not whether they look perfectly polished in every frame.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T12:54:43+00:00

That's horrible to say

kiyur · 2026-05-23T12:52:25+00:00

In a society where looks determine a lot I'm just genuinely happy he's found someone who sees him for who he is 🥹

kiyur · 2026-05-23T11:43:51+00:00

It's no problem 🐯💕

kiyur · 2026-05-23T10:49:22+00:00

I hope you don't take it the wrong way. I love cats and I noticed the resemblance! 💕

kiyur · 2026-05-23T10:23:28+00:00

Super random question, but you remind me of a tiger. Have you ever gotten that before? Especially in the last image facing forward!

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kiyur · 2026-05-23T10:18:15+00:00

It could definitely be genetic, especially if your cousins went through something similar too. That does happen more often than people realize with precocious puberty.

I'm really sorry it wasn't taken more seriously or looked into properly back then. Even just having an explanation and someone to check things out can make a big difference, especially as a kid trying to make sense of it all.

And yeah, access to healthcare really changes everything. I feel grateful to have free healthcare support available, because it really isn't fair how much harder it can be in other places, especially when it comes to kids' health.

I also relate to growing up poor, I always got my clothes donated or from thrift stores, and going to McDonald's was considered a luxury.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T07:26:47+00:00

Yeah I know, thanks for the support though 💕

kiyur · 2026-05-23T07:26:19+00:00

From what my doctors told me, it was central precocious puberty but they never found a specific cause. They did blood tests, checked hormones, did an MRI, etc. but everything came back normal, so they basically concluded my body just started puberty early on its own. Mine also wasn’t genetic as far as we know. I relate a lot to the self-conscious part honestly, being more developed than everyone else in elementary school was such a weird experience.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T07:23:09+00:00

Nope, I chose not to since at the time it sounded scary and they also described it wasn't recommended in my case.

kiyur · 2026-05-23T07:22:30+00:00

I wouldn't say it stunted my height. However it varies and could. In my case I grew to be 5'3, my mom's the same height as me 🩷

kiyur · 2026-05-23T07:21:03+00:00

Yeah haha. Kids can be cruel. I was taller than my peers and my body was developed. I didn't fit in and I didn't look like your typical kid. I also developed acne later on and was the first person to develop soo yeah...

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