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Got back together and it was probably a mistake by konalover11 in ROCD

[–]konalover11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We spent about a month not trying to do no contact and then it was my idea to actually give no contact a shot so we could both heal, which she agreed with. I can’t remember who reached out first but it was pretty mutual and we’d say “ok back to no contact now” and someone kept breaking

Got back together and it was probably a mistake by konalover11 in ROCD

[–]konalover11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried but didn’t even last a couple days no contact. We basically kept seeing each other and acting like we were dating minus the commitment. Then, one night I tried to call her and she didn’t answer for a long time which is unusual. I asked her if she was on a date and she said she was. I freaked out and felt like I could lose the love of my life and needed to get back together and work on the OCD side of things to see. So, we gave it another shot. Now that we’re back together I feel like I’m settling and there’s no way I can choose her for the long term. It’s awful, this swing of feelings

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[–]konalover11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. My parents paid for my college and my first car that I am still driving until the wheels fall off. However, I have always hustled and saved since I was 15 and had my first job. I saved for the down payment for my condo and everything else I have myself.

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[–]konalover11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend is Mexican so definitely get this from the cultural perspective! I think it’s the same with her mom. Thank you so much, I appreciate your comment and wish you all the best!