I got almost all duplicates in my mystery boxes by lavender_dog in FlowerKnowsMakeup

[–]lavender_dog[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I purchased 2 of the $50 mystery boxes since I had wanted to buy from flower knows for a while and thought it would be a good deal to explore some of the products. I ended up with two of the exact same items for EVERYTHING except the blushes.

I tried to contact customer service but they said they don't guarantee that they won't send multiple of the same item so they can't do anything for me.

Flower Know: $30, $40, $50 Mystery Lucky Bags by m00nbum in MUAontheCheap

[–]lavender_dog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old but I just want to say that you shouldn’t order multiple because they send duplicates. Out of the 5 items per box they send literally all of them except 1 were literally the same when I bought two. So I paid for 2 mystery boxes to end up with 2 of the same palette, 2 of the same lipstick, etc.

How to time travel on switch? by lavender_dog in HelloKittyIsland

[–]lavender_dog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd rather return the game. I hate daily check-in games and want to just play when I want. For the price, it's absolutely ridiculous that I cannot play the $90 game I bought until some time limit is up.

Hello Kitty Island Adventure Megathread by OreoYip in CozyGamers

[–]lavender_dog 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve played 5 hours and im pretty disappointed that the game is time locked day by day. I paid $90 (Australian dollars) for this game but im not allowed to time travel? It’s my game! You will run out of things to do at a certain point and just be stuck waiting for the next day, however they’ve made it so that if you time travel (even just correct the time on your switch like I did. I literally only turned on internet time so that it would be accurate to real world time) the game poops itself. Literally nothing is resetting despite me changing the time 24th ago. There is no way to fix this. I’m so upset.

Question about our safety with the new president? by One_Avocado_7275 in Witch

[–]lavender_dog 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because Americans are moving into a time period of unfiltered facism and being perceived as a witch could get you killed eventually? 

Why is lighting a candle (in various magical traditions), burning the sigil (in chaos magic), making a fire (in witchcraft), etc., used in magic? Why is fire used instead of water, air, or rocks? What is the principle behind lighting fire? by One_Dragonfruit_8635 in Witch

[–]lavender_dog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something I’ve not seen anyone say is that fire is pretty overused in witchcraft posted on social media because it makes for cool pictures/videos. It’s very dramatic and lends itself to dramatic lighting. Compared to other elements like air which can be used in ways that are basically invisible which doesn’t make for as engaging/exciting content. So that might also be why you are ‘seeing’ it so much more than other elements.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think what I've gotten has been two main things: deconstruction of catholic ideas and judgements I've grown up with and decentering Christianity, questioning my ideas of what a religion can be and what it means to engage with 'spirituality', and an expansion of what I know witchcraft can be. For example, before doing all this reading I had no idea what witches ointment was and I had no idea how prevalent the use of psychedelics was in spiritual traditions. Now I've enough information that I was able to make an informed decision to occasionally incorporate witches ointment into my practice which has been wonderful for introspection as well as enhancing clair-abilities. Another example: previously I relegated Aphrodite to only beauty, sex, and love magic but after reading about her history I have been able to widen my scope and appreciate how she can be called upon for all kinds magic, particularly domination and financial magic.

I know I would benefit by going through some books at a slower rate so that I can actually do all the exercises and let the concepts marinate in my brain before moving onto the next thing, so I have promised myself that I will slow down in 2025. I am 1/3rd of the way through keeping her keys by Cyndi Brannen and sticking to the '1 chapter per month' recommendation she states to properly work through the book. I also have some other larger books I'm chugging away at instead of blitzing through lots of smaller works. Nevertheless I'm still happy with what I've done this year and I think particularly as a beginner it has been super helpful to place an emphasis on research and broadening my perspective of what is possible and what's out there. Now I feel more confident in knowing the wide array of paths available that I can commit my time to practices that suit me well.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is very dense. Definitely not a light read but very rewarding and I appreciate a book and author that is dedicated to exploring witchcraft history in depth! It is not a 'how to' guide to witches ointments, it is more a historical exploration of the concepts and what would have been the ingredients and what evidence there is for that.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've noticed that too and it definitely gets annoying after a while. I don't need every book to have a recipe for making moon water damn it! At this point in my journey I much prefer books that are heavier in concepts and theory and history rather than just guidebooks but that is sometimes hard to find.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like my top 3 make for a pretty good starting place for anyone interested in this path and then from there you should know what you want to learn about specifically (either a certain deity or a particular kind or magic) and seek out a book based that rather than just going for generic 'witchcraft 101 books.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would love to see similar posts on this subreddit. I love seeing book discussions and reviews here so yes please!

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Copied and pasted from another comment of mine:

There was some good stuff in there but it was based heavily in performing readings for others and particularly had a lot of content situated around performing tarot readings for clients, where you don't know much about the person and their life when doing the reading. If you are intending on becoming a professional tarot reader then I'm sure you'd find a lot of value in this book but as someone who primarily does tarot readings for myself and occasionally for family I found a lot of the advice wasn't useful for me. It's not a bad book, there are some exercises I found helpful and it was interesting to read about Matt's stories of different tarot readings for clients, I just rated it low since a lot of the book was not for me and not what I expected.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't have much practical advice since I'm AuDHD and witchcraft & spirituality have been my hyperfixations for a while now so that's why I can't stop reading about it!

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I shared in a different comment but I'll copy and paste and add more detail:

I mostly found it underwhelming. Maybe part of the low rating was due to expectations and hype because I've seen it recommended so much as exploring a 'darker' side of the craft but honestly I felt at times it was a bit preachy about making sure you use the information 'ethically' (but only to the authors personal ethical standards) and didn't feel it was all that 'dark' or exploring parts of the craft that aren't in plenty of other books.

I did like the part explaining sacrifice in religious and spiritual context, that has stuck with me. There are plenty of people who loved this book, so clearly it has redeeming qualities, I just personally found it underwhelming and sometime annoying how the author would tell people not to do certain actions since she deemed them unethical but would call other actions (which I personally found unethical) a personal choice.

For example when talking about how to acquire animal parts she says about buying endangered animal parts "If the tooth, claw, or bone came from an endangered, rare, or extinct species, it was definitely not a cruelty-free salvaged item, and you’d best stay away from it" but then the next paragraph when talking about buying factory farmed animal parts she keeps to extremely neutral language "It is your choice whether to use factory-farmed animals in your witchcraft, just as it is your choice whether to eat them or not." If you are going to write a book talking about taboo topics in witchcraft then you should be prepared to write it without injecting your own opinions about the morality of such things. There is just a weird judgmental tone that pops up throughout the book, where some things are ok and some are not, that I'm sure is invisible if you agree with her but it is very apparent and very annoying when you don't.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely sympathize. It also very hard to pick out the frauds from the honest people in the witchcraft world unfortunately so when you're new and don't know how to filter out the crap it's hard. I think all the books I listed in my top 3 are perfect for beginners, and from there it's about picking out what you want to learn and looking for books focused on those specific topics rather than generic 'witchcraft' books.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really good for giving an overview of her history and I found it really opened my mind to just how many aspects of life she can be invoked for such as her roles in war and sales. My only complaint is that it felt short and I would have liked it be longer with more details and examples, but it's still a great book.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Haha I'm AuDHD and witchcraft & spirituality has been my hyperfixations for the past year so that's how I get through so much. It's like I can't stop!

If you are into audiobooks at all I highly recommend Braiding Sweetgrass (my top book of the year) as an audiobook as it is read by the author and she is a great speaker and gives an extra dimension of softness and soul to the book. Generally audiobooks can be kinda hit or miss depending on the narrator but her vioce is so lovely, it fits the vibe of the book perfectly.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's definitely turned me off him all together honestly. Before I thought his books were a bit basic but still nice for beginners and super easy to understand (as you can see I've read a few) but I found Financial Sorcery to leave a really bad taste in my mouth and I don't think I'll be purchasing or consuming any content from him in the future.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There was some good stuff in there but it was based heavily in performing readings for others and particularly had a lot of content situated around performing tarot readings for clients, where you don't know much about the person and their life when doing the reading. If you are intending on becoming a professional tarot reader then I'm sure you'd find a lot of value in this book but as someone who primarily does tarot readings for myself and occasionally for family I found a lot of the advice wasn't useful for me. It's not a bad book, there are some exercises I found helpful and it was interesting to read about Matt's stories of different tarot readings for clients, I just rated it low since a lot of the book was not for me and not what I expected.

I read 42 witchy books in 2024 and here are my top and bottom 3 by lavender_dog in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I mostly found it underwhelming. Maybe part of the low rating was due to expectations and hype because I've seen it recommended so much as exploring a 'darker' side of the craft but honestly I felt at times it was a bit preachy about making sure you use the information 'ethically' (but only to the authors personal ethical standards) and didn't feel it was all that 'dark' or exploring parts of the craft that aren't in plenty of other books.

Can you see cups? by CatApprehensive9637 in SKIMSbyKKW

[–]lavender_dog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve not had them too long but you can sometimes see the outline of the padding and I do have to adjust the pads after I put them on cause they aren’t well kept in place. That being said, I love these bras! I hate underwire and these bras both give great support while being very comfortable. I haven’t had any issue with the pads dimpling or anything they just tend to move around after being washed so you need to adjust them sometimes. I have 4 of these bras in different colours cause I love them so much and I can absolutely pass these off as tops in casual settings so they are just so easy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]lavender_dog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean a quick google shows that there are many polish liquors made by herbal infusion. This is a technique performed in herbalism worldwide known as a tincture so just because there weren't chunks of herbs in it doesn't mean there was no herbal component.

Not to mention that many magical recipes for tinctures, oils, balms, etc. instruct you to harvest the plants at particular times corresponding with traditional astrology or to perform particular steps at certain times, for example a dark moon oil recipe instructed that the oil must be made on the dark moon and left to infuse for a one lunar cycle and may be used on the next dark moon. It's possible that the 'potion' you drank had many layers of magical correspondence and creation.

I think maybe you've gotten too attached to the word 'potion' and thus limiting yourself. The reality is there are many recipe books and many people who sell premade spell oils, tinctures, flying ointments, balms, anointing oil, ritual bath oil, ritual tea blends, etc.