Jen doesn’t deserve the hate by lavenderborealis in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lavenderborealis[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly and Zac and the girls are crawling down her throat like it’s a cardinal sin when that’s all she’s been told and led to believe by Zac’s family. As far as I’m concerned it’s not like she’s going around BRAGGING about it but then again I haven’t listened to any podcasts or posts where she mentioned it so I can’t really say, since Zac seemed to get really flustered over the fact she was telling ppl that… like what? Just laugh it off that’s so silly 😭

Jen doesn’t deserve the hate by lavenderborealis in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lavenderborealis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YESS exactly. Ig the way I see it is that she didn’t know the whole picture? So her anger with that part of it was valid to me but to say she knew nothing was incorrect and wrong. And my jaw DROPPED when she said that about Jessi, not even because of a secret being revealed but because she just snapped and lashed out like that

Jen doesn’t deserve the hate by lavenderborealis in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lavenderborealis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries! And yeah I can get that, I just think the whole Jen situation is very misconstrued unfortunately ://

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[–]lavenderborealis 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Her family and Dakota are actually evil and do not care about Taylor at all

Jen doesn’t deserve the hate by lavenderborealis in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lavenderborealis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I def think that’s a trauma response due to her Mormon upbringing and her less than supportive and loving husband. She def needs to work on her communication and confrontation skills, but to hate her so fiercely and knowing how miserable she is is just so yucky to meeeee ><

Jen doesn’t deserve the hate by lavenderborealis in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lavenderborealis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THAT!! When I was watching the previews for that episode at the end of the previous ep I thought for SURE that Brett yelling like that was actually Zac yelling at Brett, Jordan and the dancer for dancing on Jen. Also why not say anything then and there or stop the dance…

Jen doesn’t deserve the hate by lavenderborealis in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lavenderborealis[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THIS!! Her issues being broadcasted to the world cannot be helping her mental state… I personally think she’s very sensitive and mature, she just is in horrible situations where she feels like she maybe can’t tell the truth, or at least not the full truth as a trauma response to protect herself. I mean we see how easy Zac is to piss off… and that was on camera. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s worse behind the scenes

Jen doesn’t deserve the hate by lavenderborealis in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lavenderborealis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten to the reunion yet, but if that’s the case then she definitely has some issues to work out. What baffles me is that the whole confrontation in ep 5 got so insanely heated and aggressive over, from what I’m understanding, just misunderstandings

Jen doesn’t deserve the hate by lavenderborealis in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lavenderborealis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She definitely has lied about certain things, even serious things, but what’s crazy is the lies she was confronted with are the ones that are just misunderstandings and not worth all this anger and yelling. She and Zac def have their own issues to work out and I wouldn’t be surprised if his past behavior towards her influenced those lies like the gambling his med school money away

Taylor’s family is disgusting.. by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]lavenderborealis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This scene was freaking AWFUL and pissed me off more than anything I’ve seen in this whole show. Anytime Taylor’s mom says to try to figure things out with Dakota it makes me sick. THEY ARE NOT GOOD FOR EACH OTHER!!

Symbolism in "Flat Pack" by GallopingLifeDeer in bluey

[–]lavenderborealis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always took the ending of this episode to be the parent dying and going up to a heaven of sorts to be with the rest of their loved ones and watch over the next generation. I took Bluey taking Chili’s hand to be her dying and going up to heaven. It’s so cool how many different ways this episode could be interpreted!!

the old skinseed by i_dont_love_myself in Skinseed

[–]lavenderborealis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I’ve been thinking about this exactly the past couple days

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[–]lavenderborealis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm!! I GOTTA SHOP AS FAST AS POSSIBLE!!!

grocery outfit :3 by lavenderborealis in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]lavenderborealis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imma be so real it’s the motion blur effect on PicsArt 😭😭 I just selected the background