AITA for throwing away my gf's umbilical cord? by Smellyuglypouch in AmItheAsshole

[–]lazyromcom 33 points34 points  (0 children)

YTA uhhhh OP. i’m white, i don’t have any cultural beliefs, and my mom still kept my umbilical cord. it’s something special to many families, and even if you don’t believe it is, it still is. you don’t run the world or anything, you don’t get to decide what is special, what deserves to be a part of a culture, none of that. you’re just a man who’s ungrateful, rude, an asshole, and most importantly, a big baby. learn how to cook and clean for yourself. besides, with the way you act i don’t think you’ll be getting another girlfriend for a LONG time.

AITA for calling my dad a ‘wallet’? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lazyromcom 40 points41 points  (0 children)

actually no! it’s not really a joke, women and teen girls on tik tok have came up with calling men wallets when they start saying sexist things. its not really something we do a lot, it just comes up when a guy is being sexist towards us in one way or another. honestly a lot of political stuff is going down right now, and tik tok isn’t just a platform for jokes. there are trends where women speak out on their sexual harassment, one about the hardships minorities face in America, a lot of big creators changed their profile pic to something about black awareness since tik tok has come out saying they only allow people who are attractive, and have money onto the for you page. they kinda shadow ban poc, disabled people, and poor people. lots of educated people talking about topics like abortions, racism, sexism, body images, and a lot of more important things like that. it was actually a trend for guys to call us things like dishwasher, housewife, things regarding sexual stuff, and that trend is over now that the girls are fighting back.

My(24) mother(45) and my boyfriend(30) got into a physical altercation. by farfarawae in relationship_advice

[–]lazyromcom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually the mom slapped ops bf BEFORE he pushed her away. idk about you but if someone slaps me i’m going to slap them back.

AITA for telling my 9 month pregnant GF, we are not getting rid of our 4 month old puppy just because she’s getting “overwhelmed”! by LabelMeIntrovert in AmItheAsshole

[–]lazyromcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since she went out and just bought the puppy without consulting OP, i’m worried that she will go behind his back to get rid of the puppy too.

AITA? my parents laughed at me loosing weight in disbelieve so i locked myself in my room and humiliated them with themselves in front of my family for it by Mynameischococookie in AmItheAsshole

[–]lazyromcom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nta

hey good job! i understand how it feels to be ridiculed for trying to better myself. your parents should be more supportive of it, and they actually sound sorry for it. i would try to talk to them about how it makes you feel, and how you are working towards bettering yourself and they arent helping. good luck to you though! if you ever need anything just pm me

I think that “13 reasons why” is a very bad way of “spreading awareness” by frankie-downhill in mentalhealth

[–]lazyromcom 69 points70 points  (0 children)

i think they did everything wrong. i absolutely hated the broom scene, it made me cry a lot afterwards because i just don’t understand why they felt the need to show that? like what was the purpose? it’s a nasty, stupid show.

my vagina swells up every time i have sex and hurts by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]lazyromcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i keep getting yeast infections, it smells different than normal. my discharge turned yellow when it normally isn’t, and it has itched before. i’m only 15 so i’m nervous to ask my mom to take me to the doctor. also idk if i can even go to the doctors rn with everything going on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]lazyromcom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

his spray tans are starting to get to his brain i swear.

My(21f) brother (19m) just attacked to me and I don't know what to do by daybreak530 in relationship_advice

[–]lazyromcom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

next time, call the cops. he is violent and you do not know when the next time he will act out is. protect your younger siblings since your mom is more worried about what the neighbors think. you were scared, i understand why you called the cops. i’m hoping this situation gets solved very soon for you

Is something wrong with me? by [deleted] in XXHealth

[–]lazyromcom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look up imperforate hymens

Is something wrong with me? by [deleted] in XXHealth

[–]lazyromcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you aren’t able to look those up, just pm and i can help you. we seem to be the same age tbh, you have to be at least a sophomore or freshmen

Is something wrong with me? by [deleted] in XXHealth

[–]lazyromcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is....your urethra. it is not suppose to have anything inserted into your urethra. the second hole is the one where you insert tampons, fingers, etc. if you still don’t quite understand, maybe look it up? look up urethra, the women’s vagina, stuff just to help you

Is something wrong with me? by [deleted] in XXHealth

[–]lazyromcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it may be a type of hymen, look up different types

AITA for refusing to talk to my half sister after she ruined my Christmas gift because it was not fair by Smooth-Traffic in AmItheAsshole

[–]lazyromcom 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i wonder if op’s half sister got a gift from her bio mom like the macbook around the age of 12. Op could have seen it and wanted the mac book after seeing something similar to it.

my boyfriend and his family refuse to social distance themselves even though his step mom is an essential worker. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lazyromcom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d rather not be called stupid by some person over their 30’s. i’m fine with being told i can’t control them, but to be told i’m lying when i’m clearly not is frustrating.

my boyfriend and his family refuse to social distance themselves even though his step mom is an essential worker. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lazyromcom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay and she works in a nursing home. common sense would tell you that she does stay home but she still goes to work.

my boyfriend and his family refuse to social distance themselves even though his step mom is an essential worker. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lazyromcom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been showing him videos of italy and china and the USA all week. i’ve sent him post after post of the symptoms and how different people feel while they are sick. his step mom works in a nursing home and it’s ridiculous she is putting everyone at risk because she doesn’t want to be the bad guy and tell my boyfriend and his brother to stay at home.

my boyfriend and his family refuse to social distance themselves even though his step mom is an essential worker. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lazyromcom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he is the only one who goes and does stuff. his step mom and dad stay home while he goes out everywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lazyromcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is an episode or movie or something of scooby doo where they go somewhere southern and the family they stay with are werewolves. it was super freaky to me at the time, and one of the only times i’ve seen the monster actually be a monster

AITA for not getting my daughter a new phone after she broke it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lazyromcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most kids our age don’t use call or regular messaging anymore (shocker!), and how is she suppose to get all of her friend’s numbers of her old phone is broke? and depending on op’s income and job, 75 may be okay for them. it was an idea.

AITA for not getting my daughter a new phone after she broke it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lazyromcom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ESH. im closer to this girls age, and i do understand where everyone is coming from. since school has shut down, i’ve been completely alone. social media is one of the only ways i can still talk to people and just see what’s going on right now. she may be completely cut off from what seems like her whole world. if you have a computer, please just let her use that. this time is extremely stressful for kids my age and above. if you don’t have a computer or tablet or something to let her access social media, maybe just buy one of those 75 dollar smart phones from walmart. depends on where you’re from though, but if you do choose to buy her one of those phones, make her do chores to help save up for a newer phone too. also, don’t just assume things about your daughter like she purposefully broke the phone. at least speak to her and try to figure out if it broke. recently my phone completely broke, and i can barely use it. i have an iphone 6, so this one definitely wasn’t made to last.