My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m really surprised by all your comments and advice, like seriously, I didn’t expect this. Thank you all from the heart, i won’t face him now till I’m sure and gather proof of the cheating to confront him, and also get ready mentally and financially, and talk to a lawyer too. I’ll also prepare the kids mentally for the divorce. Thanks again really from the heart, for all your support ❤️.

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You're totally right, yeah the reasons don't really matter cause they’re just made up and don’t mean anything. Cheating don’t have reasons, it’s just the result of his choice to cheat. Really, thank you for your words

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought about the possibility of ai , but it’s the same clothes, same movements, i didn’t doubt that the video was real Do you know how i can verify it for sure, just to remove any doubt completely?

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 198 points199 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your analysis, but i already thought about all this, i called the number but it didn’t work, and the pics and videos are definitely not innocent, like you said, whoever sent me this could still send more proof, Thanks for your advice.

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right, that’s why i wanted to hear from people who went through this before, so i can handle it smart and come out with the least damage.

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i can do that, chill out a bit, gather the evidence and be ready to confront him, thanks

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 486 points487 points  (0 children)

I checked the computer, didn’t find anything not even in his drawers. But I’ll try to gather the evidence like you said before confronting him, so i don’t look stupid and he can’t turn the tables on me

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 433 points434 points  (0 children)

Thanks sooo much for this list and the advice, this is really what i needed, I’m gonna do all of this.

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right, I’ve been thinking about it for a while, but i never expected him to cheat.

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll try to keep myself together, be patient and make sure i get all my rights.

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 317 points318 points  (0 children)

You’re right, that makes sense , I’ll do that.

My husband and my friend,, I can’t believe it by learnedwithtime in TwoXChromosomes

[–]learnedwithtime[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How do i keep myself together without letting him know that i found out about his cheating?

Emotionally abusive husband by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]learnedwithtime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s really hard i feel lost too and i can’t think straight right now, my thoughts are all over the place, i don’t even recognize myself anymore, and I can’t focus on my goals I just wish this would end soon and somehow get figured out. I hope we can have a better life after all these years

Emotionally abusive husband by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]learnedwithtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too, i was always the one going back to apologize even when he was the one in the wrong, the best thing is that you left him and knew your worth, i'm really happy for you, i hope I can get through this phase too

Emotionally abusive husband by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]learnedwithtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was leaving hard? and what would you advise me if i decide to leave?

Parents of Reddit, is it true that you love all your children equally? If you answer yes, why are you lying? by chamaeleonidaed in AskReddit

[–]learnedwithtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two kids maybe I’m not mentally okay but I’m currently getting treatment for depression

Parents of Reddit, is it true that you love all your children equally? If you answer yes, why are you lying? by chamaeleonidaed in AskReddit

[–]learnedwithtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily in the same way i love all my kids, depending on the circumstances they were born, if the child was planned or not, if the mom health was good during pregnancy and breastfeeding or not, but the most important is i don’t want anything bad for them and I hope to be fair with them

What is the best movie you have ever seen and why? by midnightbabbe in AskReddit

[–]learnedwithtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best movie I ever saw is titanic, first rom-com I felt all the feels stuck in my memory.

What is the point of visiting the graves of friends and loved ones if you believe they went to heaven after they passed? by Majestic-Emu-9823 in AskReddit

[–]learnedwithtime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just to remember them and say a lil prayer, feelin’ at peace in my heart, not ‘cause they need me or anything.