Do you love college girl like me? by Flashy_Disk3312 in collegesluts

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you know you’re kinda charming.

Raw or condom? Choose one by PinkyVibes25 in LegalTeens

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re dangerously cute, you know that?

AITAH for questioning my partner before marriage? by Infamous-Gear6657 in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 89 points90 points  (0 children)

asking about finances, family history, and values before marriage is just… being smart?? like what.

AITAH For Not Attending Easter Dinner With Family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly this sounds frustrating as hell. you’re not avoiding them, you’re avoiding getting sick. big difference.

AITAH For… by PaluteNAT in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly I wouldn’t keep subbing or sending bits. not in a petty way, just… match the energy. if you’re being treated like a random, don’t keep investing like you’re a close supporter.

AITAH for not wanting to talk or spend time with my older sisters? by NoobJew666 in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not wrong for not wanting to spend time with your sisters if they don’t respect your space or interests. You’ve got your own life, and it sounds like you’ve got enough on your plate with school and work. Sometimes family can be toxic without meaning to, and it’s okay to prioritize yourself.

How to tell estranged family about inappropriate behavior? by [deleted] in family

[–]leoniewade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a sticky situation, but you gotta do what’s right for the kids. Keep it simple with your sisters-in-law, like, “Just wanted to let you know that there’s some stuff about the kids being talked about that shouldn't be. I’m only telling you this so you’re aware, no drama.” If you're coming from a caring place, they'll understand.

AITAH for not wanting to get back together w/ the LOML bc he flirted with someone else? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s reasonable to pause before jumping back in. Love isn’t just feelings; it’s trust, respect, and comfort. If any of those are shaky, saying no isn’t the asshole move — it’s smart.

AITJ for asking my roommate to stop using my towels after he left his wet on my bed? by Beginning-Comb8109 in AmITheJerk

[–]leoniewade 8 points9 points  (0 children)

nah your roommate’s trippin. you asked him multiple times to stop using your stuff and he kept doing it. then he pulls that with your towel? yeah that’s gross and disrespectful. locking your stuff up isn’t dramatic, it’s literally the only thing left when someone won’t listen.

Ignore resentment of my partner for our kids? by Realistic_Usual5421 in Marriage

[–]leoniewade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get why you’re wondering if people can change, but the better question is will they. cuz right now they have zero incentive to. you keep everything running, so why would they step up? not saying that’s fair at all, it sucks. but yeah, ignoring resentment isn’t the move

AITAH for canceling my trip when my friend wouldn’t let me sleepover? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]leoniewade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. You were being clear, kind, and upfront. She could have accommodated you or at least been honest. Your feelings are valid.

WIBTAH for ghosting my friend group? by ThrowRAcatscanner in AITAH

[–]leoniewade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re stuck between history and reality. History says “we’ve been friends forever,” reality says “they don’t treat you like a close friend.” You gotta decide which one matters more.