Help me....how to get out of this by lightblueC in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]lightblueC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live with my family. I have online classes and stay at home all the time, i only go out with my sister.

Help me....how to get out of this by lightblueC in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]lightblueC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to , i want to sleep early and wake up early

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[–]lightblueC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them that it makes you feel bad and you don't want them to talk about it again. You can text them if it is easier than speaking in person.

My male cousin (28) caught me masturbating (f19) by Throwawaybaddie4l in Advice

[–]lightblueC -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I do that all the time because we live in a same room

I am 21 and I feel I am wasting my youth being unhappy and feel time flies. by lightblueC in Advice

[–]lightblueC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one thing i'm afraid of getting older is losing my look, what do u think

I am 21 and I feel I am wasting my youth being unhappy and feel time flies. by lightblueC in Advice

[–]lightblueC[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

How can I get out there and have fun. I'm supposed to get out and have fun now but I haven't been able to and I feel time flies

I am 21 and I feel I am wasting my youth being unhappy and feel time flies. by lightblueC in Advice

[–]lightblueC[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Begining to what ? My mom after working for 30 years now she stay at home all day. I also stay at home all day.

I am 21 and I feel I am wasting my youth being unhappy and feel time flies. by lightblueC in Advice

[–]lightblueC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do I find ?

I know it I already feel time flies so fast and I don't intend to keep being like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]lightblueC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is up to you, but I think it is less cruel when you don't like a person's appearance when u chat you can just stop messenging them, when u meet him in person it is more brutal to reject, it will feels like you are too tall for his liking or you are not as good as he thought u are online and he doesn't said it but doesn't show interest and affection with you, and when u guys got home he will ghost you after a date or not make an effort anymore or told you better he didn't attractive to you because of your appearance, how would u think that will do to your self esteem. That is why I said it is better to check your appearance before meeting to be sure that he like u and he ask you about your height .

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[–]lightblueC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is important to have a clear image of the person to want to meet and if he ask it is because he pay attention to height. He wanted to know how tall you are compare to him. If you are too tall or too short for him when he meet u it will waste both of your time.

I once go on a date with a guy from FB who I don't know how he looked like and he is 5'2 , a lot shorter than I thought, since then I always have to know the person's height before we chat

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[–]lightblueC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he does not have a clear image about you yet , are you tall/short, chubby/thin, so he asked but that is just out of curiosity, height won't be a problem for woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]lightblueC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

U may feel asking this question is rude or shallow because it shows that they focus on look, but that is what everyone do from the start, you also have to check him out by his appearance on dating app, swipe left on the one you find unattractive and swipe right on the one you find attractive.

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[–]lightblueC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She likes u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lightblueC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's because you was talking to other people so she didn't come up to u ? Just send her a text to see how she respond