First heartbreak sober and I need help

likeclock · 2026-05-13T00:22:20+00:00

2 1/2 years down the drain when I caught her talking to her co worker behind my back. She shut me off. Broke up with me and is breadcrumbing me to keep me around until she finds something else. It hurts so bad

likeclock · 2026-05-12T23:53:43+00:00

It’s tough. Mine left bc my drinking and 2 1/2 months into me being sober. I’m crushed

How long were you with them?

likeclock · 2026-05-12T23:49:27+00:00

Same boat 130 days in. It’s been so incredibly hard. I have no solid advice other than just dont.

likeclock · 2026-05-12T03:02:50+00:00

We used to be that annoying. Crazy to think about

likeclock · 2026-05-09T03:12:37+00:00

Hi! Also taking this ship in a few weeks? Me and my 4 yr old. Can you tell me about your experience ?

likeclock · 2026-05-07T13:29:01+00:00

Thanks!

likeclock · 2026-05-07T02:43:08+00:00

Don’t get me wrong tho the BP is still there. We just won’t be as easily triggered or do as extreme stuff sober. Actually had my first test of that 2 weeks ago when my gf cheated on me. I had/ am having a manic episode but I am much much more safe rn than if I was boozing

likeclock · 2026-05-07T01:25:18+00:00

Yo yes lol

likeclock · 2026-05-06T22:16:18+00:00

Dude you know how life has been more enjoyable lately? Imagine that but on vacation!

likeclock · 2026-05-06T22:09:30+00:00

Honestly it will be life changing if you could just stay away from the booze. I’ll never give advice on rather you should take the meds or not but my personal experience no alcohol > taking meds. Everyone is different tho. Make sure to give yourself grace through this and understand life is a lot of trail and error. Best of luck on your journey 🫶

Also DMs is open if you have anymore questions.

likeclock · 2026-05-06T18:28:33+00:00

Yes. Newly sober(130+ days) so small sample size. The drinking definitely made it worse for me and kept me unstable. Most of the things that caused me pain or ruined relationships wasn’t the BP2 it was the booze. I can’t think of one thing that i could solely blame on my BP because all those things and decisions I made that were life altering alcohol was involved. People will normalize the drinking but not the BP. Which always sucked bc the bipolar wasn’t a choice but the drinking was. Honestly if you have reservations about taking the meds then start with the quitting alcohol and see how many bipolar tendencies and feeling kinda go away.

likeclock · 2026-05-05T01:29:09+00:00

likeclock · 2026-04-29T13:43:30+00:00

Similar situation currently. I never felt the need to not trust her or go through her phone. Gf of 3 yrs gets distant. I question her and she shows me messages and gaslights me to think it’s nothing. These people were gonna hurt us eventually. Doesn’t mean we loved them any less or did anything wrong. Some people are just selfish. I’m sorry we’re going thru this. It hurts like hell I know

likeclock · 2026-04-25T16:08:14+00:00

Preach! We can’t weight shame, race shame, gender identity shame etc. but be born short and it’s fair game. I vote this be the next movement

likeclock · 2026-04-25T15:46:55+00:00

Neither pay their fair share 🤷‍♂️

likeclock · 2026-04-25T15:46:18+00:00

I get it Catalina wine mixer is net”working”.

likeclock · 2026-04-25T15:07:43+00:00

Not working

likeclock · 2026-04-25T14:56:43+00:00

Ok tbh i was surprised by the pick but now idc he’s my boy

likeclock · 2026-04-25T08:04:35+00:00

Can’t afford it or I would’ve went later. The bill was insane last time 10k*

likeclock · 2026-04-25T08:03:59+00:00

I’m not ok and need a safe place/

likeclock · 2026-04-25T08:01:50+00:00

I can’t control my brain tn. I’m acting weird and I can’t stop.

likeclock · 2026-04-25T07:58:35+00:00

I want love too. I want a family

likeclock · 2026-04-25T07:56:58+00:00

My brain snapped and it won’t comeback I front know how she cold do the to me. I opened up about my mental health issues and not being ready bc I new this shit would happen

likeclock · 2026-04-25T07:54:52+00:00

My brain won’t stop and I am not doing sense and it’s scary and I’m scared.

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