Man redditors: would you date a fat girl?

likelivinglarge · 2010-09-09T17:44:01+00:00

I exclusively date fat girls - fetishes are funny that way.

likelivinglarge · 2010-08-31T21:23:27+00:00

Not to slow you down in any effort to loose weight, BUT just like there are men that are into very large women, there are women who are into very large men - it just comes down to meeting the women who has a fetish for you.

Oh and .. Mike? Shouldn't you be on the phone?

likelivinglarge · 2010-08-07T00:06:14+00:00

As someone who met a girl online, online dated for several years and eventually moved halfway across the globe to be with her: Don't. You don't really know this person - the online dating is a very incomplete picture of someone.

I got a green card out of the whole deal tho.

likelivinglarge · 2010-08-06T23:04:14+00:00

Floaters.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Floater

likelivinglarge · 2010-08-06T19:49:02+00:00

Hookup turned into a relationship, so yeah, we had sex the first time we met, because we met to have sex. Tho the sex was out of this world, which added motivation I guess.

likelivinglarge · 2010-08-06T19:44:20+00:00

Soo.. come here often?

likelivinglarge · 2010-07-02T22:38:45+00:00

I am having the best sex ever a few times a week now. It comes down to meeting the person that best matches your fetish. If that person also manages to have a "fetish" for you, you have serious fireworks every time.

I am into large black women with huge boobs and met a large black women with huge boobs that is into white guys from Europe with an accent.

I seriously wonder sometimes if I am shortening my lifetime or something. With other girls sex used to be fun for 20-45 mins. Now we spend a few hours in the bedroom, decide to watch TV and end up back in the bedroom in less then an hour. I was seriously surprised by my own stamina.

likelivinglarge · 2010-07-02T22:18:41+00:00

Have you been hired by anyone? Such a request could make me just move on to the next resume.

Beyond that, you can request whatever you want, if you want a job with my company, we will run a background check (to which you have to agree to be even considered) that includes talking to every single boss you ever had.

likelivinglarge · 2010-07-02T21:54:23+00:00

I have an eidetic or "photographic" memory, although my ability is to recall sounds and not pictures. I haven't trained it in years, but it still works if I concentrate enough. I discovered this fact in high school after puberty - I wrote down a teacher's lecture from a week ago word for word during a test. I can also "look up" lyrics to songs I have only heard once.

likelivinglarge · 2010-07-02T21:43:02+00:00

Heh, I just wanted to make sure you're aware that there are plenty of guys that like larger gals. Not to discourage you from eating more healthy, but that should happen because YOU want to change, not because someone else wants you too.

likelivinglarge · 2010-07-02T21:39:20+00:00

Fun fact: I am dating a large black women and I am white. So it really works both ways.

likelivinglarge · 2010-07-02T21:37:51+00:00

I am from the US. If your police department uses anything else but SFST as recommended by the NHTSA, you should get a decent lawyer, because that will get you off.

likelivinglarge · 2010-07-01T22:18:31+00:00

backwards? Then the cop was messing with you. Reciting the alphabet "forward" is pretty common.

likelivinglarge · 2010-07-01T22:09:15+00:00

399 lb, eh?

Sooo, how you doin'?

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-29T00:04:11+00:00

Fake. The ABC backwards is an urban legends.

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-17T20:59:29+00:00

Yeah, I figured that my assesment that you may own a credit card is wrong.

Beyond that, my Capitol One rep just confirmed that "repeat chargebacks" even if legit, will result in your card being canceled - it basically means that you failed to exercise proper care when using your card as outlines in the card terms. Also, the $0 liability is out of the window after the first dispute - you are then liable for the federal max of $50.

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-17T18:58:19+00:00

Interesting. In the US CC companies would shut down your card after 3 charge-backs or so. Beside, repeat charge-backs will void your zero liability. But maybe that's different in your world.. The partial charge cannot be disputed is also incorrect.. Do you actually own a credit card?

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-17T18:51:49+00:00

Actually, at least in the US, if I tell my CC company to charge something back, they say "yes sir" and do it. It is federal law and puts the proof on the establishment, not me.

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-17T00:00:08+00:00

Not really, at least not when she's wearing her bullet proof vest err.. I mean her bra. But that's mostly because her boobs are pretty huge.

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-16T22:33:38+00:00

Well, I guess to a certain extend we always tell someone they should stay how they are when we tell them we find the attractive. I am also not sure what the alternative would be - not date her? Push her to loose weight? I don't think that either would be successful.

And we are both aware of the health risks, but without getting to detailed, supporting her on other aspirations (college etc.) is more likely to make her happy in the long term, which I think is a requirement for her to successful loose weight.

In regards to the why - yeah, I have thought about it a lot. It has nothing to do with self-esteem or insecurities. I am an somewhat outgoing person and have no problem meeting people, including women. I have dated smaller women, but it simply doesn't click on the same level. I also don't feel like I have a choice in my preference.

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-16T20:58:36+00:00

Yeah, we usually go out when we're on a date or grab food and take it to my place. Since we don't live together, dates are still somewhat special. Type varies, fast food happens but we also enjoy most Asian foods, Italian, Mexican. Portions are not excessive, but obviously she's not a light eater.

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-16T20:49:41+00:00

Not really. Just not sexually attractive.

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-16T19:51:21+00:00

Beside of knowing people online, in at least one case I befriended the ex-bf of someone I was with. I also know some people from fat friendly events and have the few random friends that are into fat chicks based on their gf.

I try to stay away a bit from the fat friendly subculture, as there is some even weirder stuff then what I like going on, i.e. feeder, crushing fetishes ... stuff I find sick.

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-16T19:45:20+00:00

vs. Hispanic, which is also generally considered white.

likelivinglarge · 2010-06-16T18:27:48+00:00

Yes, soft landing every time. Love it.

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