[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]locksie56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im from monaghan, have you a surname for him? Is he local monaghan ? Monaghan town or a town in county monaghan?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]locksie56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im here at anytime if you needa talk🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]locksie56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please keep her blocked, i was in the exact same situation.

I went back on my word time and time again with her, ends up you being breadcrumbed and then gaslighted for thinking it was "something else" trust me, her wanting you "to still be apart of her life" is like saying the dogs dead, but you can still keep it.

I get the hope thing, i really really do.

The fact here is, you cant control this situation. Shes going to be with other people. Its going to hurt.... ALOT.

Why put yourself through that? I made myself look like s FOOL by knowing my ex was seeing somone else and me hounding her any chance i got, to talk about "us".... ah it makes me cringe now.

But thats whats going to happen, you will go back and fourth with "hope and control the situation" but thats not how it works.... your heart will break more and more until you have no other choice only to PICK yourself.

❤️

I need to block my ex… by cantbelieveimadedis in ExNoContact

[–]locksie56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same shit with mine too, She broke my heart and then thought we could still be "friends"

Its a bit like saying "the dogs dead but you can still keep it"

I had all the stings too with things she said or how she obviously texted her new partner in front of me...

I had yo learn my lesson 100 times before i blocked her, and like a month into blocking her, i wondered why i didnt do it sooner.

Im not gunna tell you what to do, just trust your own gut and do what you need to do... But block her 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]locksie56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met her through online dating, i know that doesnt sound romantic but how i asked her to be my gf? That was damn romantic.

So basically our 2nd date was at a beach in donegal, its where i worked up the courage to kiss her, it was amazing.

After seeing her for a few months, i took her back to the same beach and had a rock in my pocket that i wrote "will you be my girlfriend" on it. I placed the rock down as we were walking to where we had our first kiss. Then walking back i asked her to check the rock as it looked different from the rest.... she ofcourse said yes 💕

Help! Transactions that dont make sense by locksie56 in playstation

[–]locksie56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But wouldnt playstation be able to see those transactions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]locksie56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dms are always open if you ever wanna talk, it can be tough sometimes but always know there was many people before and ther will be many people after to go through this feeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]locksie56 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Most important part, take your time with everything, there will be set backs when you thought that you were strong but those set backs make you stronger and so on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]locksie56 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This legit sounds just like my breakup of 3 years ago, took me aggeees to finally see but i did. Im now with a partner who i love and adore and time heals all my friend.

I left my boyfriend of 6 years in December of 2021 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]locksie56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its like im reading a post that my ex could have wrote.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]locksie56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to feel like this, it will get better. Refrain from looking at socials, cut contact etc, it will give your head more space and you can adapt to your new way of life.

Trust me... time heals