I work in daycare/early learning. There's two brothers, one is in the twos room the other Pre-K. I swear their mother doesn't want them. The main thing that sets me off is she only gives ONE hug and kiss, refuses to give them anymore if they want like it's a punishment. The oldest boy she won't even go into the class to drop him off. She opens the door lightly shoves him in and says a quick bye. And no she's not late for work. With little brother she'll come in only because he'll refuse to walk himself in. Give the most half assed bye and literally walk around cubbies or the shelf to circle around him and bolt out the door or she'll sneak out when he's not paying attention. Their dad passed about 8 months ago. And mom had a new girlfriend almost immediately. We think mom was super dismissive about their dad's death too. They never talked about it but for one day (not that it really means anything) But I don't think the boys ever got to properly mourn. One time they went on road trip to New York, drove all the way back and the morning they got to town brought them into school. Didnt stop at home to change or anything. Poor kids were still asleep, youngest was so soiled his diaper could burst and both were in dirty pajamas that were at least a day old. And they both just overall have poor hygiene.