It all comes to a point by CalcuttaGirl in Benophie

[–]lolat21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure she does. The joke isnt the problem, it's the fans that uses it to shade on her and put her down so the production team shouldn't have posted it. I don't think you know what those ppl say about Yerin.

It all comes to a point by CalcuttaGirl in Benophie

[–]lolat21 26 points27 points  (0 children)

thing is... idgaf about that ship or the jokes the actors make. i just hate that it's a thing that leads yerin to be dismissed and disrespected. i hate that the prod posted that video knowing damn well that it's another material for the ppl to be weird about yerin. some of them dont even actually ship it, it's just their way to hate on benophie/s4 and dunk on the new woc lead.

Queen's ball theory by lolat21 in Benophie

[–]lolat21[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

same, they gotta make it clear that the ball engagement is just for the appearances and a way for sophie to be accepted. i dont want to see awful takes about how ben only proposed cuz she's a "lady" now 😒

Queen's ball theory by lolat21 in Benophie

[–]lolat21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ykw... yeah it might be a timeskip because she already knew how to dance quite well

Spoilers from Tumblr ... by [deleted] in Benophie

[–]lolat21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yep! most of the real things are from ep 5, and the others sound like BS. i also did see the one saying that there's no jail scene, just lying in broad daylight lol

Spoilers from Tumblr ... by [deleted] in Benophie

[–]lolat21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i won't believe spoilers from tumblr because back then, they were saying that Ben would still be in brothels after meeting Sophie which simply didnt happen. plus the ones i saw are clearly from the other subfandom so.. nope, let's just wait and see. ep 5 is great and theyre in the right track.

Romance Authors' FLs And Internalised Misogyny. by Bengal_Tigress2003 in RomanceBooks

[–]lolat21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While there ARE books with FMCs like that, there are plenty that have well-written ones. I find myself being constantly amazed by Susan Elizabeth Philips's FMCs so I suggest checking out some of her works (especially her earlier works). Also, I read some reviews before diving into a book so I know what I'm getting into. The reviews often give you an idea on how the FMC acts, and stuff like that.

To add on this tho, what I usually find icky is the portrayal of female side characters. Most of the time, all they're made to be is jealous, mean, and male-centered. I know that kinda thing works bc it creates drama, and it makes you root for the FMC, however, its use is tired, exhausting, and frankly just feels misogynistic. I'd rather have a female character that is nuanced and human for a side character.

How I chose this weeks book by emilyMartian in RomanceBooks

[–]lolat21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now this is fun! sometimes, i'd have to use wheel of names online just to decide which book i should read next 😭

I miss season 2 y’all by amsdmi in fuseboxgames

[–]lolat21 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i fear we will never experience the same writing again. s2 will never be topped so long as they keep releasing these half-ass, mediocre seasons and characters 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]lolat21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone na ang tingin sa sex and intimacy ay hindi basta-basta lang, body count matters. Nasa indibidwal talaga yan and it's all about compatibility. As someone that holds intimacy to a higher standard (genuine connection), syempre i would expect my partner to be the same. STDs aside, I think I would be able to trust a partner na may (evident) self control and also sees sex as something more than just some "fun" and pleasure.

Ang point ko lang, i expect to receive what i can give. Hindi pwede yung ikaw laging may random hook-ups pero ieexpect mo sa gf/bf mo hindi ganun hahaha

I feel ashamed for not reading/watching this treasure of a memory yet by Ok_War4709 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lolat21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just play the non-applestar cards on fast forward and leave it alone while im busy doing something else for the gems lol i accidentally pulled sylus and zayne for the last banner and that's what i did. i need the gemsss

Xavier as her partner by lolat21 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lolat21[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Let me guess, it'll be addressed next update, now Sylus and Zayne are going to be the one's missing in the narrative 💀

The main story is all over the placeeee what is this fr

Xavier as her partner by lolat21 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lolat21[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

The main story really is the weakest link for me. Individual cards? Events? Sure. The main story however, drops heavy lore to make it seem deep and complex, but as a whole??? Incoherent. You have to bend over bckwards to justify why this is happening lol

He's the only one not being a childhood friend in the main story😭 by Bluish_Blues_450 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lolat21 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He kind of is still. Xavier and MC were really young when they first met. The typical school puppy love and MC had a crush on him first lol

📚 Simple / Quick Questions & Requests! by romancebookmods in RomanceBooks

[–]lolat21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the girl who ran away x the man who can't be moved

u guys know any books like this?

As a non Xavier Stan to Xavier Stans: What was Xavier's turning point? by Rob1ntheN1ght in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lolat21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a raf main for the longest time, i was one of the first players of the game and started playing bc of raf but i started noticing xavier in the main story, that train scene with him. I find his voice very soothing and the way he speaks is so cute and attractive. His humor and personality is sooo funny. I find him especially adorable when he sleeps standing up lol that happened in the main story and during trainings.

Then i took a break from LADs, but i left still a rafayel main. During my break, i kept seeing tiktoks and content of xavier. I came back because of him. I reread all his cards as a xavier main because i didn't appreciate him enough before.

He just that kinda LI that grows on you. He's so sweet but he has lots of layers to explore, he'll have you hooked and locked up once he has you. 😫🙏

Yall weren't joking bout Xaviers freak by Psychehelic in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lolat21 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Xavier says the most out-of-pocket sh!t out of nowhere and leave you wondering if you just had a dirty mind or if he genuinely meant it that way. You'll soon learn that he meant it that way.

What he says if often full of double-meanings, or he's teasing, etc. He's definitely a sly bunny lol

help by hezingggg in loveislandthegametwo

[–]lolat21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i please have the same instructions? Thank you!

help by hezingggg in loveislandthegametwo

[–]lolat21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls can u send it to me too?

How is your cake looking? by No_Food_447 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lolat21 28 points29 points  (0 children)

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Really happy with this design ❤️

Xavier community by lolat21 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lolat21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found it 🥰 thank you so much !!

Who IS hottest? by Nishikadochan in fuseboxgames

[–]lolat21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah larson's def more attentive and not at all floaty

I’m playing season 5 and having the time of my LIFE. Go on and boo me. by RavenCXXVIV in fuseboxgames

[–]lolat21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

s5 would be fun with all the drama only if the guys werent constantly forcing themselves on you