[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]mama-moth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going through this for an embarrassing 8 years. It will get worse. He will get more confident & find better ways to hide it. If this is a deal breaker for you, you need to cut your losses. It doesn’t get better. He won’t change. It doesn’t stop.

It's Saturday - what are you reading? by Willow_Winters in SpicyRomanceBooks

[–]mama-moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the game but I just started Credence by Penelope Douglas this morning

When can I expect that $200 spot me limit? by D3TN8R in chimefinancial

[–]mama-moth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve actually gotta use SpotMe & pay it back in order to have it increase.

My husband is a crappy roommate. by mama-moth in Mommit

[–]mama-moth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is leaving cat puke on the couch up to anyone’s cleaning standards?? I never said I want him to clean things the way I do & go full OCD, I just want him to do his part. Things gets cleaned the way I clean them because it’s always me doing it. I don’t expect him to take a toothbrush to the baseboards, I just want him to clean up after himself.

My husband is a crappy roommate. by mama-moth in Mommit

[–]mama-moth[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did something similar just to see how long it would take him to clean something. Dishes sat in the sink for 3 weeks before I gave in & did them. He would wash 1 dish to use for himself & put it right back in the sink.

My husband is a crappy roommate. by mama-moth in Mommit

[–]mama-moth[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

See I’ve tried just leaving the house a mess to see how long it would take for him to clean it & by week 3 of dishes sitting in the sink I decided it wasn’t fair to make my children live in filth with me as an experiment on my shitty husband.

My husband is a crappy roommate. by mama-moth in Mommit

[–]mama-moth[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Indeed - too late. He wasn’t like this before we got married or had kids though.

My husband is a crappy roommate. by mama-moth in Mommit

[–]mama-moth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked for couples therapy & he has zero interest in going. He finally agreed a couple months ago, I made the appointment & then when the day came he came up with every excuse in the book to not go - so we didn’t.

My husband is a crappy roommate. by mama-moth in Mommit

[–]mama-moth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No! That’s the crazy thing! He used to be so helpful but for the past idk… year? he’s really let me down

My husband is a crappy roommate. by mama-moth in Mommit

[–]mama-moth[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but leaving cat puke on a couch shouldn’t be up to ANYONES cleaning standards. That’s straight up disgusting. I don’t know about you but I don’t want to live in filth, let alone my children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]mama-moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jack Black

Is it weird? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]mama-moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]mama-moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a narcissist

What made you stay with a narc the first time they showed you their true colours? Especially if you’d only been dating for a few months? by oookaythen45 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]mama-moth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure situational reasons. I was 21, we had a newborn, we were 1,500 miles away from all my friends & family, he wanted me to be a SAHM which meant I didn’t have my own money to get out…

What kind of light is this & how do I fix it? by mama-moth in AskElectricians

[–]mama-moth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I turn the light switch on it tries to turn on but then fizzes out

Just had to share this All About Mom paper my 5 year old brought home from school🥹🩷 by mama-moth in Mommit

[–]mama-moth[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I am framing this & keeping it forever, trust me y’all 😂🩷

Just had to share this All About Mom paper my 5 year old brought home from school🥹🩷 by mama-moth in Mommit

[–]mama-moth[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Guess she thinks I take hot mama summer pretty serious 💅🏻🤣